First, a harmonious relationship is bound to be rewarding and rewarding. You give me material and spiritual love, and I accept it; I give you more material and spiritual love, and you accept it gladly. The balance between giving and receiving.

Second,

? Hellinger, a German family therapist, said, "When we give, we feel entitled, and when we receive, we feel obligated." . Parents feel that what they do to their children is to pay, so they feel that they have rights. Once they have a sense of rights, they want to control them. If we regard what we do to our children as a choice and an obligation, does this mean equality and mutual respect in the relationship?

Third, how to repair the credits of love?

Fourth, Teacher Zheng Xiao shared:

1, dare to challenge authority;

2. Parents "guide" their children's life forward;

3. Each of us starts from the plot in "Home of the Native" and then goes to a new family to solve the complex;

When children are young, adults hinder their ability to explore the world. When children grow up, they don't want to explore because they both hinder and pay too much.

5. It is normal for people to have mild anxiety, which can promote people's growth, but persistent anxiety will lead to emotional out of control;

6. Learn psychological hints and tell yourself that you can achieve your goals, and so can your children.

7. Be a 60-point mom.