Yang Hui has been eating a little freely recently, and her weight has accidentally increased to 120 kg.

Then she made up her mind to control her diet and lose weight. The company received a big project this month, and the design department should constantly revise the copy according to the requirements of customers.

Since the company took over this project, Yang Hui has also started to work overtime. In order to control her weight, she only drinks a bottle of yogurt and eats an apple during company meals.

Sometimes when she is really hungry at night, she tells her mother-in-law in advance to help her save some food.

Go back after work and grab a few bites to fill your stomach, otherwise you will be too hungry. Yang Hui is afraid of stomach trouble. After all, there is something wrong with her stomach and it hurts badly.

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Mother-in-law also knows that Yang Hui loses weight, so what she usually leaves is vegetables. Yang Hui, who hasn't eaten meat for almost a month, really can't help wanting to eat meat.

She told her mother-in-law on WeChat, asking her mother-in-law to save some meat for her at night. My mother-in-law agreed.

Finally, after a busy day, Yang Hui was lucky enough to catch the last subway home.

She had no strength at all and trudged home step by step.

My husband sat on the sofa playing games and didn't look up when he saw her coming back. Her mother-in-law is hanging clothes in the washing machine.

Yang Hui kicked her husband and told him to go to the kitchen to get his own dinner. Her husband hesitated for a long time before helping her out with the food.

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Yang Hui looked at the dishes in the bowl and suddenly lost her appetite. All the bits and pieces of meat were left to her. And not before they eat, but the leftovers they didn't finish left for her.

Yang Hui was a little angry, but she was afraid that she had misjudged her mother-in-law. Yang Hui asked her husband: Who left the meal?

My mother left it. Why? Husband continues to be busy playing games.

You left it for me after eating. Yang Hui tentatively asked her husband.

Yes, we gave you everything we didn't finish. Are you still short? My husband answered Yang Hui's question, but he didn't know that it had caused Yang Hui's anger.

Husband has never been self-motivated and ambitious, so Yang Hui had to force himself to work hard and earn more money to relieve the pressure at home.

She thought that her efforts and efforts could be understood by her mother-in-law and her husband, but in exchange, her husband continued to play games, and her mother-in-law felt that she only deserved leftovers.

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As usual, Yang Hui went home after working overtime. When her mother-in-law saw Yang Hui coming home, she smiled and wanted to go to the kitchen to bring her food, because she knew that today was the day when Yang Hui was paid.

Mother-in-law said kindly, daughter-in-law, you can eat whatever you want. I know you are losing weight. I left the leftovers in the pot. I'll help you.

When her mother-in-law finished speaking, she heard the voice of her daughter-in-law's mobile phone. Ding-dong, Yang Hui shook her mobile phone and said, No, I ordered 200 pieces of takeout today. I haven't eaten meat for a long time, so I ordered some meat to make up for myself.

The mother-in-law looked a little embarrassed on her face, but she still smiled and said, OK, daughter-in-law, OK, then you can eat.

However, Yang Hui, who ordered take-away food from 200 yuan and went home after working overtime, found that the food left by her mother-in-law was no longer leftovers, and there was a lot more meat. Sometimes, she even leaves the drumsticks.

Maybe mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, and there will always be some friction. The old man's point of view is that leftovers must be eaten and not wasted. Young people may think health is more important, so I don't want to eat leftovers.

The mother-in-law in the article belongs to the former, while Yang Hui belongs to the latter. In fact, my mother-in-law is still good to Yang Hui, but she really doesn't do very well in the matter of leaving food.

If someone in the family can't come back for dinner, the correct process of staying for dinner is: before everyone starts to eat, leave the food for those who can't go home for dinner.

Instead of leaving the leftovers to the person who can't go home for dinner after everyone has finished eating.

There is no big contradiction between mother-in-law and Yang Hui. Yang Hui did not quarrel with her mother-in-law directly, but solved the problem of her mother-in-law leaving leftovers for herself with high emotional intelligence.

In fact, if mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, if we can have more emotional intelligence and more ways to deal with problems, many problems will not be a problem.

I hope Yang Hui's husband can play less games and concentrate on his career and work. After all, men still have to focus on their careers.

If a wife is enterprising, a man should rush in instead of giving the responsibility of supporting the family to a woman. Men should also stand up and hold up half the sky at home.