Bridal gift is an indispensable "sense of ceremony" for contemporary people to get married. For most families, it is difficult to get married beyond the bride price. Many young people think that the bride price is the burden of marriage, and many people don't get married because of the bride price. So is the existence of bride price reasonable? I think it's reasonable. The bride price has little to do with it, but it depends on the attitude of the other party. A man angrily smashed the wedding scene and canceled the wedding on the spot after receiving the news that his father-in-law suddenly raised the price by 1.8 million on the way to pick up relatives. I think this is a typical marriage failure case, or it is caused by the failure of bride price. In this case, both the father-in-law and the groom are at fault.

0 1, the son-in-law should give a reasonable bride price.

It is very painful for parents to marry off their daughters. With such a big daughter, they have to be daughters-in-law for others and can't stay with them all the time. Therefore, parents are definitely unwilling. It is very important for the son-in-law to give reasonable bride price money to appease his parents-in-law. Some people think that love is the most important thing in marriage. As long as two young people really love each other, it doesn't matter whether the bride price is given or not. This idea is wrong. True love is important, but so is a harmonious family relationship. Marriage is the combination of two families, and both parents also play an important role in the maintenance of marriage.

Therefore, when getting married, the man should give a reasonable bride price that he can bear according to local customs, which can also show his attitude of getting married and let his parents-in-law rest assured to give him his daughter. If the son-in-law is penniless when he gets married and is reluctant to spend money, how much care do you expect him to have for his daughter in the future?

02. The bride price is not the most important thing for a father-in-law to meet his son-in-law.

Parents will examine each other's conditions when they marry their daughters. Why? Because no one wants to give away their daughter who has worked so hard to raise! Most parents in the world want their children to be happy, and hope that the younger generation can live a comfortable life in The Sunshine Shines on You, not in blue. Picking a son-in-law is an important step to reduce the probability of marriage failure and improve the quality of life of her daughter in the future. My daughter is too young to understand and thinks that love is enough. Maybe she hasn't seen her boyfriend's true face or fully understood him, but she is immersed in their love. At this time, parents must make a good pass and screen "qualified" husbands for their daughters.

What is qualified? First, the three views are correct; Second, self-motivated, positive and enthusiastic about life; Third, be kind to your daughter, be considerate, and be willing to spend money and energy for her. The bride price can show whether the son-in-law is willing to spend money for his daughter, but he can't see other qualities. Therefore, it is unnecessary and excessive to ask for an extra 1.8 million bride price on the wedding day.

03. The bridegroom angrily smashed the wedding scene and embarrassed the bride.

Why does the groom marry the bride? Isn't it because he is in love? My father-in-law's unreasonable demands are outrageous, but it's not impossible to talk about them. Getting angry at the wedding will only embarrass everyone. When he calms down, many things can't be redeemed, and the bride won't forgive him, so a beautiful marriage is over.