Every girl wants to have a beautiful figure, thinking that she looks good if she is thin. Cousin, who has been clamoring for slimming, resisted all kinds of card discounts. While munching on the sweet and sour pork ribs lunch prepared by her husband, she announced her major discovery: "Not a little! Everyone in the family says that it is easy to get fat after marriage, and everyone is the same! " This is really not her nonsense, it is based.

According to the investigators, in the first four years after marriage, the weight growth rate of couples is twice that of singles. Moreover, this effect is not affected by age, health status, mental state and fertility status. I can't help but think of a group of pre-marriage vs post-marriage comparisons that were very popular on the Internet some time ago: handsome little fresh meat before marriage, and fat like a fur seal after marriage.

Golden couple before marriage, a pair of fat balls after marriage. Even Deng Chao, a madman who dotes on his wife, sent an ugly photo of his wife Sun Li getting fat, with a caption: "Are you embarrassed to be so fat?" Do you deserve me? I am really angry! 」

Where is the time to kill the pig knife? It is obviously a ton of pig feed. Watching her husband gradually change from "Daniel Wu" to "Gao Songxiao"; Watching his wife change from a "fairy" to a "adopted daughter". Countless netizens feel that they can only comfort themselves if they are stuck in their hearts. Can you give away the pigs you have fed?

In fact, Izz Cameron, an expert in nutrition and weight management, has long suggested that happy couples after marriage will improve their psychological satisfaction and gain more or less weight. Getting fat is the minimum respect for marriage. Slightly raised small belly and looming double chin actually benefit from the nourishment of happiness.

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What kind of experience is it to be put on weight by your boyfriend 10 kg?

A well-received answer is this: "How on earth did I get fat? Probably because I have a boyfriend who is always afraid that I am hungry and tired. Ask me what I want to eat tomorrow night while washing dishes; If he doesn't want to eat, he will cook noodles for me ... knowing that I like fruit, I eat a big bowl like this every day ... Now, we have been married for four years, and he still cooks for me and cooks all kinds of delicious food as before. I changed from 45 kilograms to 62 kilograms; Husband, from 55 kg before marriage, has become 72 kg.

Every time he holds me and holds my stomach, he asks, is it delicious? I am covered in fat, mumbling, delicious. He will smile happily and give me another piece of meat to eat more and not lose weight. After being sprinkled with dog food, I suddenly understood why I have been getting fat for so many years.

Is the lack of a good husband! There is a saying that it is hard to get fat when eating alone. When you are single, you can cook up to two fried eggs and a bowl of instant noodles for a meal. But when two people are together, they can justifiably "share the blessings and share the difficulties."

As Ralph Hertzwig said, the change of emotional state often means the change of daily eating habits. Couples always enjoy a big meal together, and usually everyone eats more than when they live alone. Usually at home, at least three dishes and one soup should be fried. As for holidays, go out for a walk: from pickled fish, hot pot to fried stinky tofu on the street, and the "half price" cone after dinner ... eating and laughing with the other half is probably the most grounded look of happiness.

Fireworks rising between the kitchen and the dining table warmed two people, three meals and four seasons. In recent years, the number added by weighing scale is not fat, but the weight of love that has settled down with the years.

I saw a fat mother on the subway after work. She is wearing an artificial wool top, wool shorts and flesh-colored tights called "beige tights", holding her two or three-year-old daughter. Naturally, she doesn't have Karen Mok's legs or Yang li Ping's back, but the way she looks at the little girl in her arms and smiles is really beautiful. This is probably the normal state of many women after marriage.

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They prefer to wear baggy sweatpants and comfortable sports shoes than exquisite small suits and high heels. They are more willing to accompany their children to swing and play with sand in the park than to sweat in the gym. They prefer to cook a sumptuous dish and have a nice meal with the whole family rather than eating a slimming salad alone.

Perhaps in a casual moment, they will envy the "goddess of frozen age" like Vivian Chow and Summer Xu, but the next second, looking at a gentle and considerate husband and a smart and lovely baby, they no longer care about the inch-by-inch increase in waistline.

Some people say that a woman will get fat after marriage because her definition of happiness has been rewritten. Before marriage, she lived for herself, so she paid more attention to appearance and figure. After marriage, her happiness is inseparable from the nourishment of family ties. Therefore, a woman can willingly accept the gift of getting fat and accept life with her body, precisely because in this marriage, she lives with peace of mind.

Love History to D is a love letter written by the famous French philosopher Goz to his terminally ill wife Dorina at the age of 83.

At the beginning of it, there are not many flowery words, but it makes people cry: "Soon, you will be 82 years old, your height will be shortened by 6 cm, and your weight will only be 45 kg, but you are as beautiful and elegant as ever, which moves me." And my love for you is getting stronger and stronger. 」

True love does not need many vigorous stories, but the certainty and peace of mind after fighting mediocrity and overcoming daily necessities; When your figure is out of shape, your temples are gray and your face is wrinkled, I still think you are irreplaceable.

There is a classic line in "A Good Wife": The greatest charm of marriage lies in exploring how deep the connection between two people who are not related by blood can be. Only after the baptism of time can two people begin to understand that true love will not fade because of the change of body shape and will not dissipate because of the passage of time.