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Lao Zheng Jia has two sons. The eldest son has been a soldier 10 years, and the eldest daughter-in-law has been taking care of the family. The second son and the second daughter-in-law are doing business in other places and can't go home several times all the year round. Lao Zheng left early, leaving only his daughter-in-law to take care of his two older sons and watch them get married. Lao Zheng's daughter-in-law is also old. When it was time to enjoy her old age, she suddenly fell down and went to the hospital. What the hell is this? Who will take care of the old mother?
The eldest son is a soldier, and the younger sister-in-law is busy at home and abroad. Although eldest sister-in-law can bear hardships, it is enough to take care of her family, so it is more tiring to take care of her mother-in-law. The second couple can't live without doing business. Sometimes they don't go home for the Spring Festival, let alone go home to serve their old mother. Although I have also proposed to take my mother-in-law to have a second child, my second wife is unwilling. The two sides were deadlocked, and the second daughter-in-law proposed a way. Sister-in-law takes care of her mother-in-law, and the second child pays, 3000 yuan a month. In this way, the two families can contribute their own money and kill two birds with one stone.
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Although the eldest sister-in-law doesn't covet the money of the second child's family, she is also worried that it is not easy for the second child to do business in other places. It is also thoughtless to force them to take care of their mother-in-law It is better to bite the bullet again and let her mother-in-law live a good life in recent years. So the sister-in-law also agreed to the second daughter-in-law's proposal and took her mother-in-law to serve at home. I didn't expect one time to be two years. Mother-in-law can't get out of bed in the later stage, and she has to pee, sometimes she has to get up three or four times a night. In addition, the mother-in-law has more and more medical expenses in the later period, and some of them can't be reimbursed at all, so the eldest sister-in-law can only make up some money herself.
As a result, eldest sister-in-law not only can't eat well and sleep well, but also becomes financially strapped. My sister-in-law used to weigh about 135 kg, but now her height 165 kg has dropped to 85 kg. I just lost weight because I served my mother-in-law, took shit and urinated, scrubbed and massaged. Eldest brother once came home from a holiday and saw his eldest sister-in-law. He was distressed, but because he couldn't go home to help in the army, he had to bear the pain and let his daughter-in-law suffer. Not long ago, my mother-in-law left peacefully, and my sister-in-law became a different person.
This year, when the daughter-in-law of the second child went to the grave on Qingming, she talked with her sister-in-law about how to lose weight. She accidentally said something that made her feel terrible. The second daughter-in-law saw that the eldest sister-in-law was skinny. Instead of feeling distressed, she said, "Sister-in-law, it's good to lose weight!" Sister-in-law's heart is cold Why am I so thin? Don't you know? At the beginning, it was because the daughter-in-law of the second son and the second son used the busy work as an excuse to let the eldest sister-in-law take on this important task. Give the eldest sister-in-law 3000 yuan every month, euphemistically saying that they pay and the eldest brother and sister-in-law contribute. However, many medicines cannot be reimbursed, and so much money is not enough for medical expenses, not to mention others. Therefore, the second daughter-in-law thought that she could earn a lot of money by giving her eldest sister-in-law 3000 yuan a month, but she didn't know that she had to save money to buy medicine for her mother-in-law.
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Big brother is a soldier. He seldom comes back all the year round and is taken care of by his eldest sister-in-law. Now the daughter-in-law of the second child still says that this is ironic, saying that slimming down looks good, and the eldest sister-in-law said categorically: "Really? I haven't eaten meat for a year! Mom threw up after eating meat once. I have a shadow over meat. I have been a vegetarian until now. " Sister-in-law thinks that the second daughter-in-law can understand her meaning and know her own difficulties. Unexpectedly, the second daughter-in-law didn't know whether she was playing dumb or really didn't understand. She said to her sister-in-law lightly, "Mom, this is to help you lose weight. She is old, there is nothing left for you, I can only help you. "
Sister-in-law was silent for a long time and sneered a few times. Yes, hehe. Sister-in-law thought, when you have a clear conscience, you should be filial to your husband in front of your mother-in-law After all, it is one of my merits to let my mother-in-law go at ease, not to mention that others don't understand me and my husband knows what he is suffering, which is enough. For such heartless people, when they feel the same way, they will understand the harm their actions have brought to others.
Summary: As the saying goes, parents grow up with us and we grow old with them. Parents devote their lives to their children, hoping to spend their old age with them. However, the eldest son in the article is a soldier, and the second son is doing business outside, so he can only rely on his eldest daughter-in-law to be filial before bed. This is a sad thing for parents. The second daughter-in-law only knows how to give money, but she doesn't know the hard work of taking care of her parents. Seeing her eldest sister-in-law taking care of her old mother, she was indifferent and said something irrelevant. In fact, such people are not uncommon in our lives. They take others' contributions for granted. They even take others' kindness as their scheming reason, greedy for petty gain and haggle over everything. But if they really want to pay, they just try their best to make excuses for themselves. Whether as relatives or friends, such people are not worthy of our association.