The lyrics sing: "I don't know when my temples have frosted, I don't know when my face has changed, and I suddenly miss those young and frivolous people who were brave and ignorant."
Just learn how to grow old, just learn how to grow old with tolerance, just know where to go, how to grow old before you go, how to grow old at the beginning of maturity, how to grow old at the beginning of understanding, how to grow old when time is useless, and grow old instantly. "
Time flies. In a blink of an eye, I graduated from college for many years and left my hometown for more than ten years. In order to go back to see my elderly parents in my hometown, I will travel in my hometown again and again during the holidays. In this process, I began to miss the beauty of my childhood in regret, but time is gone forever.
I still remember when I was a child, I liked Chinese New Year and birthdays best, because I could wear new clothes, eat a lot of delicious food and receive lucky money from my elders. I can receive my parents' blessings and gifts every birthday. Happiness at that time was particularly simple. Even if you receive an ordinary pencil case, you will be happy for half a day.
Now, I don't like Chinese New Year and birthdays more and more. After all, I will grow up in a year. I don't want to get old, not to mention my parents. I no longer look forward to the sumptuous meal that can only be eaten during the Chinese New Year, but I hope to have a reunion dinner with my family for a few more years, even if it is a simple meal.
My birthday last month moved me very much. I received a red envelope from my parents' WeChat early in the morning. At noon, they also specifically told me to remember to eat longevity noodles. When I was a child, I always felt that my parents' words were too nagging, but as I grew older, I realized more and more deeply that the love parents gave their children was the most unpretentious and unrequited in the world.
I recall that when I was a child, I worked hard outside and couldn't listen to my parents' dissuasion. Finally, I chose to leave the warm harbor and marry far away. After years of tempering, I feel more and more that I didn't listen to my parents at first, but now it seems that I have achieved nothing except being old.
Some time ago, I went out to work with my friends to shoot videos. Coincidentally, we are all of the same age and came to this city from different places to work hard. On the way, we talked about our present situation. Now we are all in old age and youth, and we are working hard for our family's livelihood every day.
Fortunately, everyone has dreams in their hearts, and they love our present job very much. Perhaps no one can stop the passage of time, but every stage of life is a new starting point. As long as you make unremitting efforts, you will definitely see different scenery.
Time flies and life is impermanent. Life is like subtraction. If you meet your relatives and friends once, you will never have a chance to say what is buried in your heart.
My friend Sister Huang felt guilty when she mentioned her mother. She said that if she had left Inner Mongolia for Shandong alone, maybe her mother would have lived a few more years. When Huang Jie's mother finally left, she was most worried about her daughter.
Sister Huang said that in order to take the civil service exam, she came to Wan Li, a small third-tier city, despite the opposition of her family. Unexpectedly, this decision made her regret for life, because she was the only child in the family. Her mother has been ill for many years and can't go back to take care of and accompany her, so she has to let her father take care of her while working.
Although her father is taking care of her in life, psychologically, her mother is particularly eager for her daughter to be around. Later, my mother was critically ill. In order to prolong her life, Sister Huang took her to dialysis treatment. Unfortunately, it was too late to save the old man's life. Looking at Huang Jie's sad appearance, I don't know how to comfort her except empathy.
Parents will leave us sooner or later, and we will be old in an instant. Today, Sister Huang is over forty, with obvious wrinkles on her face and a lot of white hair on her head. Ruthless years have never forgiven anyone, and Sister Huang is no longer so energetic.
Life will not be satisfactory, and life will go on. Sister Huang has an elderly father and a daughter who goes to primary school to take care of. If you have been immersed in the grief of the past, fickle people will also be depressed. Only by learning to be optimistic, let the past pass, let the future come and live every moment well is the proper attitude of this era.
No matter what happened before is good or bad, it will eventually become the past, and there is no need to stir up trouble. There are still many ways to go in life. Sometimes life just fools itself and convinces itself that everything has been solved. The person who can help others solve their worries is never others, but themselves.
Before, we wanted to live and be envied by others; Now we all want to live a healthy and happy life. As I get older, I think having a healthy body is more important than anything else. If you don't have a healthy body and can't even take care of yourself, how can you have the ability to take care of a family?
When I was young, my wish was to have a good job and earn more money. If you ask me what I want now, my answer is: I hope my family can be healthy, happy, safe and happy every day!
Writer San Mao said: "I have no time to be seriously young." When I understand, I can only choose to grow old seriously. " Maybe we wasted time unconsciously when we were young, but when we really understood it, we found that we were over half a year old.
However, it is not too late to realize the true meaning of life in your lifetime. I hope I can live seriously in the future, love my family with my heart and do what I want bravely, instead of waiting until the last moment of my life to find that I still have a lot to do.
Finally, let's remember what Paul Cochakin said: Life is the most precious thing for people, and life belongs to us only once. A person's life should be spent like this: when looking back. Don't regret wasting time and don't be ashamed of mediocrity.
Since we live in this world, each of us will get old eventually, so cherish time from now on. Although time will pass, we can live seriously. From now on, live a good life and love yourself!
About the author: Xiaomi mother. Multi-platform signing author, female inspirational writer. Appreciate the feelings of the world and interpret the world.