Foreword:

With the development of society, people's minds become more and more open, and of course they are more free to face emotional problems than the previous society. In the old concept, people regard the right family as the main factor to judge two people's marriage. But it's very different now. As long as two people love each other, they can cross all external factors such as national boundaries, age and race.

More and more married couples have entered our field of vision. Besides, there are many married couples with few husbands. This situation is called "the old cow eats the young grass".

In the eyes of outsiders, this kind of marriage that spans too much is doomed to be unhappy. After all, we have to face the secular age gap, and of course there are some happy marriages, which are the result of the joint efforts of two people. By my side, there is an old man with several wives. As for their married life, my aunt said that the young man was too restless at night, and she felt that she couldn't sleep well, but her husband said: That's what couples should do, because the wife can't adapt. What kind of story happened to them? Keep looking down.

Aunt Ding, 56, said:

My name is Ding, and I'm 56 years old. To tell the truth, I have been very happy all my life. I am married to an honest husband and have two children. They are also very obedient and filial to me and my wife. We almost need to worry about our studies, and our grades have always been among the best in the school. Later, I was admitted to a key university. I think this kind of life is worthwhile. Just enjoy your old age with your wife.

However, the cruel reality destroyed my idea. When I was 50 years old, my husband died unexpectedly, which happened at work. The accident party was willing to take full responsibility and finally negotiated compensation of 900,000 yuan. Although I got this huge compensation, my sad husband never came back in my heart.

During that time, I was heartbroken and depressed all day. Fortunately, I have two children around me, which helped me through the most difficult period.

At first, I intend to save the compensation, and then divide it equally between the two children for their wedding preparations. But whenever my husband and I live in the house, I will recall the little things we have together.

Later, the child suggested that I sell the house, buy a house in a busy place and change the environment. It may change my life. Unfortunately, my mother's brother's neighbor is rebuilding. Later, I discussed with my family that it would be better to buy a facade there to do some small business and provide a guarantee for my old age.

They also agreed with my idea, so they made suggestions on site selection, decoration and purchase to help me open a small supermarket. It happened that the facade we chose was in the central area, with a large flow of people and business getting better and better. I can chat with customers at ordinary times, make a lot of friends, and the shops around me are well handled, which is much better than being at home alone.

Neighborhoods get along well and often help each other.

There is a young man in the express delivery industry nearby. He is a newcomer in the express delivery industry. Although he is busy every day, his monthly salary is only enough for his daily expenses. He has a good personality and is good at dealing with people. However, his economy is not good. Sometimes he comes to the store to buy things on credit, and we get to know each other gradually. He is also a warm-hearted man. Occasionally, he would stop to help me count.

In this way, we became good friends. I treat him like a brother. I never thought we would cross the line and develop into another relationship.

We often sit down and talk about our family. He told me that his surname was Wu and he was 37 years old. He used to farm in his hometown and countryside. Because his family is poor, he has never married a wife until now, and he only wants to make money in recent years.

One Friday afternoon, I was sorting out the goods on the shelves as usual. Generally speaking, the business of shops is busiest on Saturday and Sunday, so I have to clear the shelves on Friday night. Probably because I was in a hurry, I cleaned things on the freight elevator and accidentally dropped the soy sauce. At that time, people panicked and accidentally fell off the ladder, and my arm was cut by broken glass slag, bleeding profusely.

As it happens, Xiao Wu came home from work and passed by the store to buy a pack of cigarettes. When he found out that I had an accident, he immediately went to the store to help me get up, and then quickly sent me to the hospital to dress the wound. Because the wound was deep and I had to take anti-inflammatory drugs, he stayed with me until the potion was finished, and he escorted me home.

It was very late when I got home. He said that my hand was hurt and it was not convenient to cook, so he asked me to go to his house. He cooked for me and sent me back after dinner. What Xiao Wu did to me that night moved me very much.

The next morning, Xiao Wu came to my house to bring me breakfast and help me look at the wound. At that moment I felt as if I had an idea for him. I wonder, does he like me so much, or is he worried about something and afraid to express this love?

One day at noon, Xiao Wu went to my shop again. Because I closed for dinner at night, because it was his birthday, and he wanted me to spend it with him. I immediately agreed, and specially ordered a birthday cake to take to the canteen. He suddenly took my hand and said a lot of emotional words to me, asking me if I would marry him. If I can accept his family conditions, he wants to be with me. In order to express his sincerity, he

It is really surprising that a 37-year-old boy confessed to a 56-year-old aunt, but we have been getting along well for a long time. I think I like him. If he really likes me, I am willing to try this relationship, so I promised to get along with him.

In this way, we fell in love. During the period of love, he was obedient and meticulous to me, so we held a wedding. After the marriage, I asked Xiao Wu to move in with me, and asked him to quit his present job and take care of the shop with me. I used to take care of myself, and I was really tired. Since Xiao Wu came, I have relaxed a lot and my business is getting better and better.

Usually at home, Xiao Wu takes care of my daily life. He cooks three meals a day, and I am only responsible for enjoying it. He also proved his sincerity to me with facts. At that moment, I felt very happy.

Although people around us don't value us very much, only we know that feeling. I want to cherish my present life, cherish the beauty that Xiao Wu has brought me, and I will be doubly kind to him.

After marriage, our daily life is as loving as a normal couple, but there is an embarrassing problem between us, that is, his energy is too strong and he likes to torture me at night. After all, I am over 50 years old now, and my energy is limited. I can't torture him like this at all, but when I coordinated this matter with him, he didn't think so, and even thought that husband and wife should be like this and would adapt to this life in the future.

Apart from this disharmony, he is tolerant of me in other ways. In short, he is good to me, and I am willing to give everything for him.

Conclusion:

It is really not easy for a 37-year-old boy and a 56-year-old aunt Ding to form a family. Of course, they have to face criticism from many people that this old cow will not be happy if it eats young grass. But according to my aunt, although they are far apart, they know how to take care of and tolerate each other. Their lives are very happy, just like other marriages.

The difference in age does not affect two people, but affects their personality and attitude towards marriage. If these can be tolerated and tolerated, all the troubles and problems are not a big deal for both husband and wife.

Of course, a happy life is your own, and only by holding it in your own hands can you know whether it is appropriate or not. But we gave everything to marriage, and marriage will give us good feedback. We don't see anything wrong except what Aunt Ding said was a little discordant. Of course, this disharmony factor can also be achieved through the adjustment of both husband and wife.

I think a happy marriage is also the simplest appearance.