Mother H has two daughters, Grade Four and Grade One. Ideally, Erwa's mother's weekend should be harmonious: the husband can help when he is resting, and the two children can play together? The second-born mother is like this. Can you finally relax?
"I want to be beautiful!" A blast of thunder pierced the sky?
Friday afternoon
For many people, Friday is pink, which means that there is no war the next morning, adults don't go to work and children don't go to school, which is a prelude to the family relaxation mode. In the evening, maybe I will take my children to the movies and go out for dinner, which will be very interesting:
For mom H, Friday is also red, but it is pork liver red, haha, because it means the beginning of a new round of fighting:
In order to keep fit, H's mother gave swimming lessons to her sisters and took their two babies swimming. It's spectacular. I don't know. I thought I was on the run.
The two sisters play from 7: 00 to 8: 30 in the evening, and their mother usually stays on the shore (it is more troublesome to bring more things when swimming by herself). The temperature of the swimming pool is on the high side, and the painting style of H's mother wearing winter clothes has become like this:
After swimming class, the two children played in the water for a while, took a bath, and got home at half past nine in the evening. Maybe you will say, how troublesome it is to take the children swimming in winter, but mother H persisted for two years, and the children were in good health, almost not sick, and their physical quality was watertight!
Saturday
Today is Saturday. I should have a good sleep.
But don't forget, weekends are a good day to attend interest classes (my sister is in the fourth grade, and in order to prepare for junior high school, there are classes besides interest classes on weekends).
At first glance, both sisters have a full weekend schedule. In fact, compared with others, H's mother's family has really few interest classes for her children.
At 7 o'clock on Saturday morning, H's mother got up to help her children make breakfast. Usually, my father drives my sister to class, and my mother stays at home with my sister, while making time to clean the house, wash clothes, buy food and cook?
In the evening, the two sisters continued their swimming lessons, but my sister was bored because she had been swimming for a long time. Mom helped her best friend Doudou swim together, and her sister's enthusiasm finally came back. Then in Saturday's swimming class, are two Erwa mothers with four babies? When I came back, the four babies were busy in the car, and the mothers of the two second-born babies were panting?
After exercising in the evening, the two children went home and fell asleep, sleeping soundly.
Late at night, looking at their lovely faces, my mother felt a warm current surging in her heart. Although she was dizzy at the end of the day, she was so satisfied.
Sunday
Sunday is a day of fighting. Still can't sleep late.
Because of the need of career development, mom will have a full-day class (psychology seminar) on Sunday, and the task of taking care of the baby will be given to dad, haha!
Dad made breakfast and prepared Chinese food, carrying a thermos bucket, and took his sister to accompany her to English class at 8 o'clock in the morning.
When parents don't have to accompany me in English class, my father will accompany my sister to stroll and play in the hall outside the classroom. After the English class, I will drive to another teaching point for an Olympic math class in half an hour. Parents must be required to attend the Olympic math class. My poor sister was reading a book at the back of the classroom alone, and fell asleep watching it. . .
After my sister's Olympic math class, if the weather is fine, my father will take his two daughters to play in the Olympic Park near my home.
After playing chess for a while, it was getting late. It was time for my sister to have a Go class, and the three of them rushed to the next battlefield. At this time, my mother is finally going home from class. Generally, my mother will go straight home to cook dinner, and sometimes the whole family will go out to rub together after class.
On Sunday night, the two sisters can finally have a good rest at home, but they can't play too late, because they have to get up early the next day and a new week is coming.
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With the opening of the second child policy, the second child mothers around me have sprung up like mushrooms after rain. After painting these two cartoons, I really admire their courage from the bottom of my heart
H mother's crazy weekend, although not representative of all families with two children, is only the most common state compared with the surrounding families. There are many people who are more "crazy" than her family. It is increasingly felt that raising a second child is not just a matter of "one is also a belt, and the other two are also belts". In fact, the most difficult problem to overcome is education.
Compared with the hardship of raising a child, Erwa's family needs to invest twice as much physical and financial resources, which also tests whether Erwa's parents are skilled in martial arts. In this process, fatigue is in pairs, but as long as you work hard, the final happiness will definitely be doubled.
Finally, I asked H's mother what she wanted to say most about her present life.
She thought for a moment and answered, mom and dad, go forward!
Yes, with this momentum, the life of a second child is not as terrible as I thought!
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Get to know me in one minute: I'm Bob BJ, a parent-child cartoonist, a freelance cartoonist, a coordinate emperor, a cartoonist in many newspapers and magazines, and the most influential author of many maternal and child websites. I focus on parenting cartoons and stick figure tutorials, and have published a hand-drawn cartoon work "The Cultivation of Macey Baby".