The first book I read about parenting education was Yin Jianli's A Good Mother Is Better than a Good Teacher. I finished reading it at once. After reading it, my heart was warm and moved, and I thought I must train my children like this.
It's just that "the ideal is full and the reality is skinny", giving children enough freedom, free children are the most self-disciplined, protecting their self-esteem and not embarrassing them. These themes sound very good, especially good, like "Winter Sun" and "Chun Xue", but many of them can't land.
After continuous thinking and practice, we can eliminate a lot of knowledge from the truth. For example, don't worry about children eating sugar. Teacher Yin said that if she is given enough freedom, the children will gradually form self-discipline. I believe that most parents can't achieve the desired effect when operating.
For this kind of "super addictive food" that can make people feel happy and children have no immunity, if there is no supervision from adults, I am afraid that few children can resist the temptation to have self-discipline.
Yin Jianli's personal experience:
Yin Jianli, educator and writer. Master of Education, Beijing Normal University, chief tutor of "Yin Jianli Parent School".
A good mother is better than a good teacher was published in 2009.
20 14, the most beautiful education is the simplest, 20 16, a good mother is better than a good teacher 2: free children are the most conscious, 20 18, published from small to large. 20 15, the translation of The Little Prince was published.
Yin Jianli Parent School was established on 20 15.