This summer vacation in junior high school, she said that she had been looking forward to the stars and the moon for many years. Because no matter whether the final exam results are good or bad, you don't have to worry about the amount of homework assigned by the teacher, which means you can play the whole summer vacation easily and without scruple. Judging from the way she speaks happily, I can't say anything more to disappoint her.
The final graduation exam in Huangcheng South ends at 3: 30 in the afternoon. Because they had a class graduation meeting after the exam that day, she hasn't come back after 6 o'clock.
Just as we were about to send a message to ask the teacher in the class WeChat group, Huang Chengnan came back listlessly and put on his schoolbag.
As soon as I entered the door, I put down my schoolbag and said gloomily, Mom, I may not have done well in the Chinese exam. Because the title of the composition was written backwards, I forgot to bring correction fluid and couldn't modify it, so I used a symbol that changed back and forth. I remember Mr. Hua said that using that symbol in the composition topic is a taboo. This time, it's terrible. I'm sure I'll get about five points deducted. What should I do?
Seeing her remorse, she stamped her feet anxiously.
At this point, I was uncharacteristically (if it was before, I would be very angry in this case) and calmly said to her: Now it has become a fact, what can I do? Anyone who does anything has to pay for his actions. The mistake you made today was that you were too careless before the exam and didn't bring your own learning tools. What's more, why didn't you think about it before writing the topic? Things have happened, and regret can't make up for it. What you can do now is to recognize today's mistakes and learn this profound lesson. I will encounter more exams in the future and promise myself that there will be no next time.
When I finished, she saw that I was not angry, and there was no blame in my tone, and her mood seemed to calm down a little.
It's another Monday. The rain outside the window continued to pour.
After three days of continuous rain, I still didn't stop to look at God's dark face.
Besides, my running plan was delayed by the continuous rain in Mao Mao for two days, so today it fell through. Ah! ! ! At this time, I really want to yell at the sky!
Rain, it's still raining.
It really hurts, it hurts!
When I cooked breakfast for my eldest daughter and went out to school, the wall clock on the dining room wall showed 6:30. Accustomed to getting up early, I have no intention of sleeping in a cage.
Just as I was worrying about how to spend the morning, Huang Chengnan's lazy voice called "Mom" suddenly came from my daughter's bedroom. When I gently pushed open the door, I saw that the girl was awake and her eyes were wide open. I thought she would take advantage of the holiday and sleep in the morning as usual on weekends. I never thought that I woke up so early today.
When I came to her bed and sat down, I asked her: Why did you wake up so early?
She said: I am used to school time, so I can't sleep.
I couldn't help laughing after listening to her words. Because yesterday, she also vowed that she must enjoy this rare and relaxing summer vacation and be prepared to sleep late every day. And now, hahaha ...
Looking at her bored expression, I lay down and said, mom, come and chat with you.
She nodded in reply. At the same time, he moved into the bed.
Because I want my classmates to stay awake? I asked.
She replied, well, I suddenly miss being crazy and laughing with them.
I took her hand and looked at her and said, baby, everything has to end. People always have to grow up, and in the process of growing up, they will inevitably encounter countless separations. From now on, you should learn how to face the ups and downs of life. When you grow up, you will also leave your parents. Just like mom will leave grandma when she grows up now; When mom and dad are old, they will leave you, just as your grandfather who you have never met has already left your father; And the teachers, classmates and good friends who accompany you when you grow up will leave one day. Just like we used to go back to grandma's house by train, the people who stayed with us from the starting point to the terminal will change constantly. Because our destination is different from theirs. Meeting between people is accidental, and separation is inevitable. And all we can do is let nature take its course, you know?
After I had a long talk with her, she nodded and said, well, mom, I think I should understand.
At this point, I went to scratch her face. And this action seems to have been strange for many days.
Suddenly, Huang Chengnan said coquetry: Mom, I want to use your mobile phone to wind it up, okay?
Look at her angry expression, I can't refuse, so I have to give her my mobile phone.
Watching her skillfully edit those sad words in the nine squares with her thumb, I was both distressed and gratified.
It is distressing that she is sad to be separated from her classmates after graduation.
It is gratifying that the children of the past have finally grown up and learned to be sentimental.
When I came to my senses, Huang Chengnan had returned my mobile phone to me.
Suddenly, she made a 360-degree turn. Open your eyes wide, lean sideways and say to me with boiling blood: mom, I will accompany you to run from today!
I asked her with a grain of salt: Really? Are you sure?
Well, really, I'm sure! She answered firmly.
Then, she added: From tomorrow on, I will not only run with you every day, but also draw pictures and remember English words with you. I also learn Korean, practice guitar and read books. I want to make a good plan, I don't want to waste the wonderful time this summer vacation!
When she finished, I was instantly shocked! God, this is changing so fast that I can't believe my ears. The summer vacation has just started on the third day! ! !
But looking at her sincere and serious expression, I have to believe it again.
Suddenly, she added, but I have a request.
I said, as long as you can do what you say, you can ask me anything.
Then, she said: Mom, this summer vacation, I will accompany you to do what you like, and you should also accompany me to do what I like.
I was relieved to hear her finish. It turns out that it is not a question of rewarding RMB. Because, according to her love of money since childhood, I thought her request would be related to money. I didn't think I was thinking too much. Suddenly I feel a little mean and have an embarrassing cancer.
I said, well, how about this? (Because I think, as long as it's not about money, it's nothing.)
She said: You have to jump 200 ropes with me every day, 100 high leg lifts, supported by a plate for one minute.
She almost scared me to death when she finished speaking. Jumping 200 ropes, 100 leg lifts, isn't this fatal? She knew from an early age that I was most afraid of skipping rope, and the frog's legs could not be lifted at all, which obviously embarrassed me! But these are her strengths.
I thought for a moment and asked her weakly: Excuse me, can I say no?
She said seriously: No. What a happy decision!
Say that finish, aha burst into laughter.
Look at her smug expression, I have the idea of beating her up.
She also said that it was such a happy decision. In fact, people are not happy at all!
Ah! ! ! I feel suffocated! I feel a chill at the thought of skipping rope and lifting my legs high!
Then, Huang Chengnan turned against him and said, Mom, this is our agreement. Don't cheat After breakfast, I will make a form, which we must strictly carry out. Whoever cheats is a puppy!
All right! At this time, I can only compromise except compromise.
Seeing her serious attitude, I can't whisper anything more. Even if a hundred people don't want to, they have to nod silently.
I checked the time. It's only 7: 58
It's still early, since there is no room for saying no, then act immediately!
I said: from now on, since it's raining outside, we will do indoor sports, climb stairs, climb to the top of the building to see the scenery, and then walk down.
She agreed without thinking: yes, yes!
Then we got up at once, put on our pajamas and shoes, and ran out of the door cheerfully and ran to the stairwell.
Climbing from the fourth floor where our family lives to the 28th floor on the top floor, what a stupid thing it would be if I or she were killed. But now, for our so-called agreement, there is a spirit of contract in an instant, and we are not afraid to climb 24 floors on foot!
Today is the weekend.
From Monday to today, I made an orderly appointment with Huang Chengnan for five whole days.
In these five days, none of us is shameless and no one flinches. From getting up at 6 o'clock in the morning to going to bed at night, Huang Chengnan finished on time according to his planned form and clocked in on time. I am very surprised at this persistence.
This girl, I have to say, convinced me!
Ok, let's all remember each other's agreement, supervise each other and grow together. Come on!
I grow up with you, and you grow old with me!