Have you ever had such an experience:
When you are upset, clean up your home, change a set of sheets, and bask in the newly washed clothes, and you will feel
Have you ever had such an experience:
When you are upset, clean up your home, change a set of sheets, and bask in the newly washed clothes, and you will feel much better immediately.
A person's environment is a reflection of our heart.
When the environment is chaotic, your thoughts are confused, your mind is confused and your lifestyle is irregular.
In a clean and orderly environment, there must be a self-disciplined and orderly person.
Every home has its own appearance, neat or messy, spacious or depressing, complex or minimalist, which all reflect what people who live in it are like.
The easiest way to change your life is to change the appearance of your home.
Ricoh Kondo, a famous Japanese organizer, took part in a variety show, the thrilling magic of life sorting.
There is a couple in the program. The husband works outside, and the wife takes care of two children at home and works part-time three times a week.
Both of them are very hard and have no time to do housework. Their room is full of sundries, and both of them feel more tired when they enter the door than when they are outside.
Looking at the messy home, there is no mood to talk about enjoying time, so we live in chaos day after day, and the love between us slowly fades away.
The organizer walked into their home and led the couple to find life order and love again from tidying and cleaning the room.
Before the end, she led them to express their gratitude for the house, thanking it for accommodating the family's life and sheltering them from the wind and rain.
At this point, the hostess cried, and the house in front of her seemed to have life, which was the umbrella of the family and blamed herself for not taking good care of it.
Then, they moved all the things out and checked them one by one, but the two owners found that they didn't know many things, let alone use them.
Then, tidying up is an important step, leaving behind something that really excites you, perhaps a photo of them when they were two children, the child's first toy, and tools with high usage rate. ...
Stand up the things left behind for them to see; Say "thank you, I want to keep the space for myself" to the abandoned things.
The process of arrangement is a process of choice and a process of drawing the future.
A clean-up jointly conducted by husband and wife allowed them to find a way to make their lives orderly, and also had more time and energy to feel life and enjoy the warmth of the family.
Ma Lihui said: "Finishing is not a simple proposition about staying and throwing, but an excellent learning process, so that you can face up to the relationship with things again, make fine adjustments and create a better life."
During the epidemic, psychological counselor Meg Walhan found an interesting phenomenon. In order to disinfect and prevent epidemic, people should always do cleaning. In this process, people's inner anxiety is also released and alleviated.
Because a clean environment provides us with "control".
And the cleaning process will stimulate the production of "endorphins", which are natural painkillers and are called "pleasure hormones".
The author of "Small Family, Big Life" is Wei Kun, former deputy chief architect of Vanke. She has been engaged in residential research and development for 13 years, and has drawn more than 2,000 floor plans, and participated in the design of more than 50,000 sets of finely decorated houses in 15. This book is her life experience and experience for many years.
Zhou Wei pointed out that the bigger the house, the better. Whether the house is comfortable or not depends on the occupants' "accommodation", that is, their ability to plan and accommodate space.
In the process of participating in residential design, she is well aware of the common problems faced by urbanites in housing: high housing prices, small area, many things and less storage; Fast pace, great pressure, tight time and mixed ideas. ...
People want to live comfortably and happily in a limited space. Even if they live in a small house, they have a heart to pursue a high-quality life.
Aiming at these pain points, this book teaches you how to make a good plan for small home storage before decoration, so that your home decoration design is more reasonable and humanized;
How to improve the utilization rate of storage space and maximize the storage capacity of cabinets;
There are also some storage tips, learn to use some small objects, so that small families can release more living space.
If you want a small family to live bigger and bigger, you should pay more attention to the decoration design and the usual storage methods. One square meter is so expensive, but stacking sundries is the biggest waste.
Rosebud has four storage principles: distribution everywhere, 12% storage space, three-dimensional collection, 80% hidden and 20% exposed.
Storage products follow the principle of no increase in quantity. When you buy a new one, throw away the old one. Try to use the same style of storage products, which is easy to keep clean.
When placing articles, we should follow the principles of the shortest moving line of people, efficient storage of articles and clever use of light to create a sense of space.
A house doesn't have to be big, but a good house is a home.
Speaking of ending, I have to read it.
The idea of breaking up with others put forward by Eiko Yamashita led the popularity of minimalist lifestyle all over the world.
It starts with examining your consumption habits and desires, goes deep into your heart step by step and changes your life.
When you learn to do subtraction, you will know how to reach the goal directly, and it is really valuable to know who and what:
Eiko Yamashita believes that an object is a mirror, which can reflect the true self. Facing the object is facing the true self.
Breaking free not only allows us to throw away things that occupy space, but also gives us a clean and tidy living environment, which also teaches you to reduce unnecessary desires and find your real inner needs.
Without the chores in life and the chores in your heart, you can find the beauty in life, and every grass and tree can inject freshness into ordinary days.
You will begin to notice that the leaves on both sides of the trees passing by are yellow every day, and the light and shadow changes every day are so colorful and charming.
This kind of life is more real, simpler and happier.
Members can listen to the whole audio book and lecture of "Separation".
And Dominic, a famous French woman writer? Louro's The Art of Simple Life also tells us how to get rid of the bondage of material things and listen to our own voices.
How to tidy up the sundries around you, tidy up your life, tidy up your heart and tidy up your life, in order to have a richer, more interesting, more fulfilling, longer and healthier life.
Some people say that a person's room is a person's feng shui.
If the room is crowded, messy and disorderly, your heart will be depressed, chaotic and uneasy, and you will always turn around in a chaotic life;
When your room is neat, clean and bright, your life will be full of sunshine and positive, and the better.
Home is the Dojo of spiritual practice.
In the new year, I hope you can start from sorting out your life, learn to get rid of yourself, empty yourself, and then redefine yourself.
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