1, total physical contact with other members of the opposite sex.
Some men like to have physical contact with other women in the name of brothers, such as hugging each other's shoulders, holding each other's arms, and even giving each other a hug when they are wronged.
From the moment of marriage, a person's body is "exclusive", and it is wrong to have any physical contact with any other opposite sex except his partner. Don't men know to avoid suspicion? Of course, he knew he had to do it because there was no way. If you don't interfere, he will move on.
2. Use other things used by the opposite sex.
There is a particularly classic picture in Nothing More than Thirty. Lin ate Xu Huanshan's ice cream, but Xu Huanshan didn't refuse and ate it. Seeing this scene, I believe everyone has guessed their future direction.
There are actually many similar scenes in real life. For example, a married man and an extramarital woman share a bowl of rice, use a drinking cup, or drink a bottle of mineral water in the name of "old and young" and "best friend", which are obvious cross-border behaviors.
3, often meet and chat on the grounds of business.
In front of derailed colleagues or customers, many men have to go through a process of asking each other out to meet on the grounds of business, having a meal until the early morning, and sending each other home on the grounds that it is "too late to be safe";
Or chat with each other regardless of time and place, send some funny videos, funny jokes, give some comfort when the other person is depressed, and so on. This is actually a precursor to physical abnormality.
So if you find that your husband has the above behavior when getting along with other opposite sex, then you must attach great importance to it. They must be in an ambiguous stage now. Whether the future will continue to develop or be contained depends on what you do next.