Everyone should be free first and live the life he wants. In the final analysis, freedom is not to do whatever you want, but to allow yourself to be unrestricted. If you want to be free, you must be able to control yourself 24 hours a day.
Some people will say that self-discipline is the freest. After all, people don't waste their youth, but the reality is that people who are not self-disciplined are much more restricted than those who are self-disciplined, because you will only live more and more freely in the future and have no choice capital. Without self-discipline, you can't see any difference in a day or two or a month, but quantitative change leads to qualitative change, and you can see the difference after a while.
For example, many women verbally shout to lose weight and change themselves every day, but a truly self-disciplined woman is trying to exercise while you are eating, drinking and having fun. Look at her figure, her appearance, and the brilliance in her eyes. Only this kind of woman can win time, that is, self-discipline to the point where God can't see the past.
There are too many temptations in society now. Who doesn't want to go to bed early if you can play with your mobile phone for a while to relax? Who wants to stay at home and exercise when they can go out for dinner with friends? For those who choose to eat, drink and be merry, all your comforts now are bought with your hard work in the future. Only those who are self-disciplined enough will move forward firmly.
For those who believe in the creed of eating, drinking and having fun, it is meaningless to live a life that is mechanically repeated like an ascetic. They believe that happiness is now. But can instant indulgence really bring long-term happiness? Look at the bags under your eyes on your chest. The sallow face really makes people feel happy.
In my opinion, a high degree of self-discipline and self-discipline seems to be painful practice, but it is a kind of advanced and long-term happiness to see your growth under self-motivation. There is no shortcut in life, and every effort you make will not be disappointed. Only by self-discipline can we become better.