Total weight gain during the whole pregnancy 17kg. When I was just pregnant, I was sick by car occasionally, and there was basically no other pregnancy reaction. There is no edema in the third trimester. Colleagues say I can't tell I'm pregnant from behind. I walked lightly as usual until the last two weeks, and continued to work until maternity leave in 10. The process of giving birth to a baby is also a fast and smooth delivery from registration to nine hours after delivery. After giving birth, the baby is fully breastfed, with sufficient milk and no milk blockage. After giving birth to the baby, the weight returned to the pre-pregnancy level at 2 1 day. There was no pregnancy or postpartum depression during pregnancy and postpartum.
Is the above description old Versailles? Then I will tell you the other side of pregnancy, the details I was afraid to tell others before the baby was born, and the moments of tension, fear, sadness and anger … because I was afraid to tell them, they would come true. I prayed over and over again that everything would go well and the children would be healthy.
When I was pregnant in February, when the epidemic was the worst, I used all my arms to go to the maternal and infant examination. I watched the redness and swelling intermittently for two weeks, so I was scared to run to the emergency department of women and infants twice, and even asked for leave to stay in bed for three days. I was so nervous that I wanted to cry, afraid of what would happen. When women and babies were examined in Yin Chao for the second time, the female doctor was fierce and indifferent. I was particularly afraid of doing that examination, and my body trembled with nervousness. The doctor directly left a sentence: "If you don't check like this, you can't see anything. You are responsible for it. " I wrote the conclusion of "I can't see clearly" in the medical record book, and my wronged and sad tears flowed out on the examination bed. On the one hand, I am worried about the baby's condition in my stomach, on the other hand, because the doctor is indifferent and I am a woman, why can't I be a little kind?
Because of this, I didn't like women and babies, and later I chose women and babies when I built a big brand.
When pregnant in June, B-ultrasound showed that the fetus may have persistent right umbilical vein. It happened that I had a prenatal examination alone, so I didn't tell anyone at home for the first time. According to the doctor's advice, I went to the Children's Medical Center as soon as possible to make an appointment for an expert number, hoping to have an echocardiogram as soon as possible (pregnancy is too late, a woman and baby do this echocardiogram). I didn't tell my husband until I got home at night. The elders in the family still don't know this situation. If I tell one more person, one more person will be worried, and it will be even more annoying for me to repeat it. When I was a woman and baby, I was nervous when I heard the words "right umbilical vein may be", from doctors of B-ultrasound, doctors of prenatal examination to doctors of neonatal internal medicine. I was nervous for two days and couldn't sleep at night. I went to the Children's Medical Center for an expert examination on Thursday. When Dr. Zhang saw me, he first said that it was not a big problem. Are you going to have a heartbeat yourself? His question made me feel relaxed. After the examination, I patiently drew a sketch of the heart on paper and explained to me what the right umbilical vein was like and what might happen after the baby was born. He said that in those cases, serious self-assurance will never happen. In the worst case, a minor operation can solve it. This is also a small probability. There is a high probability that there is nothing and everything is normal.
After listening to his patient explanation, most of my hanging heart was put down. The small clinic also makes me feel quiet and spacious, and Dr. Zhang is also very handsome. If my son's name had not been named at that time, I would have used "Yuqi" as my child's name. In short, at that moment, everything seemed beautiful to me. But this thing is still a serious illness for me. I was worried in the second half of pregnancy until the baby was born and everything was checked for health.
In addition to the above two frightening experiences, there are many disturbing and embarrassing moments. In 2020, because of the epidemic, the whole people wore masks. For most people, a mask that is a little too restrictive has become my gospel and my protective artifact throughout pregnancy.
Although my makeup before pregnancy was very simple, I applied liquid foundation and lipstick, and even these two things were gone during pregnancy. 30-year-old Su Yan makes me a little flustered, and I always feel that I will go out to meet people without washing my face. At this time, I will wear a mask to show only my big eyes, and then wear glasses to cover them.
Go to the hospital for a check-up. Anyone who has been pregnant knows that all kinds of tests should be taken off and put on. There are many people waiting in line at the general outpatient department of the hospital, and there will be more pregnant women in 2020 than usual. Often, when you have a check-up, the doctor calls the person behind you before you mention your pants. Even if everyone is a woman, it is extremely embarrassing. You can't complain to the doctor. If she complains, she will pay you back. At this time, I will put on a mask and lower my eyebrows. If you can't see my face, you can't see me, then lower your head and go to the next exam. It may be better to spend more money on special needs clinics. I didn't go, so I don't know. I said in my pregnancy article that money can solve many troubles.
And in the third trimester, the stomach is getting bigger and bigger, and it will be very troublesome to sleep at night. The doctor advised pregnant women to lie on the left, but I have always been used to sleeping on the right. I was fine for the first three months, so I was very comfortable. But in the later period, whenever I want to lie on my right side, I feel guilty. At this time, I feel more fetal movement. Afraid of being bad for the baby, slowly move to the left side and lie down. Lying on the left was really hard to sleep at first, but then I got used to it. As the fetus gets bigger, it compresses the bladder. I have to get up in the second trimester for almost an hour or two to go to the toilet, so my sleep is actually quite bad, and my dark circles are getting heavier and heavier, so that my glasses can't stop me.
In the third trimester of pregnancy, the number of times I ran to the toilet during work hours also increased. I get up occasionally. At this time, colleagues who have a good relationship with the baby will look up and throw me a look that I understand, and I will speed up and walk away.
Before pregnancy, I thought about all kinds of things after pregnancy. When I experienced it, I found many things were unexpected. There were happy and sweet moments and sad moments, so I made an objective record for my friends' reference and as a memo record. Come back in case I want to have another baby.
I was accompanied by four books during my pregnancy.
Sears pregnancy encyclopedia, which accompanied me from beginning to end, was my anchor. Every month, I will read the contents of the corresponding month, and basically all the situations I will encounter will be briefly introduced in detail. I'll buy this book if I only buy one. This book is better than brushing short videos online or even taking online classes, because this encyclopedia basically covers all the situations that will occur during pregnancy. (Of course, not all. The fetus may not have a persistent right umbilical vein. Maybe you need to write another encyclopedia about pregnancy test, which you can understand without it. )
"Thin Pregnancy" let me know that it is possible to have a baby during pregnancy but there is no meat. I persisted in the voice of people around me that "pregnancy should be fat" and basically achieved what Miss Qiu said: "I was only 8 kg pregnant and recovered three weeks after delivery, without injury, joy or edema." However, Miss Qiu's diet during pregnancy is a bit complicated. I just followed the big principle and didn't follow her recipe completely, and the effect was not bad.
2 1 day after delivery, the photos taken in pajamas are too sloppy, so I won't put them down. Let's put a picture of my head standing upside down on 100 day.
A colleague gave me "Give birth naturally for love". The content is suitable for friends who have plans to give birth naturally. All aspects of natural childbirth will be introduced, and there are many ways to guide practical practice. The seventh lesson is the most helpful one, which gives me a very clear understanding of the delivery process. The guidance of breathing and productivity also helped me.
In the book "Love and Ordinary", only one production diary is related to childbirth, and the others are the accompanying notes of the author Ning Yuan's life with three children. A little anxious at the beginning of pregnancy. Occasionally see this newly published book and buy it home. A lot of words came to my mind, which swept away my anxiety in the early pregnancy. Later, whenever I am upset, I will open two articles to read. It has the effect of ironing out your inner twists and turns, which is very suitable for pregnant mothers. I also agree with Ningyuan's idea of being a mother. I hope I can be a loving mother and love my baby so calmly. In particular, her delivery diary is recommended to friends who are struggling with cesarean section or natural delivery. Ningyuan gave birth to three children, the first child gave birth naturally, the second child underwent cesarean section, and the third child switched to cesarean section. It is worth listening to her experience about cesarean section or natural delivery.
Ten thousand pregnant women will have ten thousand kinds of experiences, and the above is just my personal experience.