In addition, it can be seen from the answers that many people repeatedly emphasize that their salary should come from a relatively ordinary family background, and may not have too many social resources for them to marry well, such as knowing or being introduced to the rich second generation and the official second generation.
It is also possible that they do not have the capital to marry, such as outstanding beauty.
Only once married into a rich family and then came out, or gave up marrying well and chose a girl who did well, may this problem be better explained.
Let me tell you one of my observations, which is very vulgar.
But rough, simple and useful: if you work hard, you must serve your boss and your customers well; When you marry into a rich family, you should take good care of your husband and in-laws.
Hard work has cultivated the core ability, you can change your boss and get married. Generally speaking, the opportunity cost is relatively high. If you meet a bad mother-in-law,
Relatively speaking, you can't just change it.
It is wise to find out where your own resources come from and where the core of power is, and operate accordingly.
Here are some real cases. The following are the second generation of small officials who are married to the rich second generation or do business:
1. The girls are all beautiful, and the husband's family is well-developed and worth at least hundreds of millions. I feel that women don't particularly love men, mainly because of family.
The girl used to be able to work, but after marriage, her husband refused to work. She gave birth to several children and is now a stay-at-home mother. I feel that she is not particularly happy. She didn't have religious beliefs before, but now she does.
She has many children.
She will show "Look, mom has done a lot for you" in front of her in-laws. Girls work well before marriage and work full-time after marriage.
The girl is beautiful and has a good relationship with her husband. Husband-in-law, civil servants and parents-in-law hold money in their hands, with assets of tens of millions.
The young couple's work salary is low, and everything involving money at home is in the hands of their parents-in-law. The older generation is more economical. She said, "This family is not up to me." Her parents-in-law wanted her to have a second child, but she didn't want to.
The living standard is generally low because of daily consumption, but there is no worries and pressure. In-laws have real estate villas under their names, and they are happy with their husbands.