1, willing to spend money

I don't think it's easy for everyone to make money, but when a boy is willing to give you money and you don't spend it, he is still angry. You should pay attention that he has regarded you as a lover who can spend a lifetime, and he wants to protect you.

Because money is a very subtle thing, for a person who feels ordinary, he is not sure whether it will last for a long time. It is for fun. Do you think he will be willing to pay so generously?

Most of them are what we often see, withholding, searching, calculating, and even calculating (you have to find out how much you will pay back when you break up)

You expect him to spend money, but he doesn't show up It is often seen that some girls and some men even pretend to love someone. You can see if he is willing to spend money for you, because this can't be faked, and all the money spent is real money. See what he cares about most. He is willing to give you "the person who loves you will give you his scarcity".

2. Possession/sharing desire

"Possession" The boy who loves you must have possessiveness and sharing desire for you. Let's talk about possessiveness first. This is human nature, not just boys. At the same time, possessiveness here is not a derogatory term for one's own desires, although possessiveness does not mean love.

But love must be possessive. When he finally has you, he will hate it. The whole world knows that you are his girlfriend and you are his object. He will tell his elders, friends, classmates and so on.

As we said, in public, whether in private or in a circle of friends (although some people may not like making friends themselves), people around him will know your existence, he will take you into his social circle, he will not hesitate to praise you in front of friends and family, and he will subconsciously look at matching clothes when buying clothes.

Then when we go out next time, let others know that we are lovers, and there will be another performance that we are easily jealous and don't like you to wear clothes that are too revealing, but if you insist on him but don't want you to be unhappy, he will bring you one silently at any time.

Once you find that other men's eyes pass by, you will be alert immediately. It is that love has many points that are easy to be jealous. In fact, it's not much difference to think about being jealous with girls. What are your boyfriends jealous of?

"Sharing desire" But it is very simple to tell whether you really love your sharing desire or his boring pastime, and find someone to talk nonsense. When you say something, you have clear feedback, not a reply. Remember, a sister's desire to share is to share with him or give you happiness, not to be a trash can for negative emotions, so be sure to distinguish it. ).

Although everyone will be depressed sometimes, but we must grasp this degree, boys and girls will really have a lower desire to share, so when a boy is willing to share his dribs and drabs, his past and all things related to him.

And he doesn't want to mention anything that makes him sad or embarrassed. He shows you his fragile side, so this man must love you very much, because no one wants to show his fragile side.

He wants you to see that he really doesn't treat you like an outsider. Ha ha ha ha, you gave your passion and love to anyone you want to share. At the same time, the desire to share really depends on the serious response of the other party. It is also important to learn to listen, no matter what kind of relationship you are in.

3. Physical contact

Two people who really love each other really have the desire to touch each other, whether at a certain time or in daily life. I remember last year, we had friends who settled in Hangzhou, and we specially drove to have dinner with them, because their long-ago friends really disappeared for a long time. After meeting, we found a place to eat. On the way to eat, they asked us in confusion, why are you still the same after being together for so many years? Why?

Because as soon as I got off the bus, my eldest brother ran to my side and pulled me. I think it's normal, because we usually go downstairs for a walk or go shopping like this, holding hands or I hug him and he hugs me. In others' eyes, we are probably similar to conjoined babies.

She said that she was jealous of her husband. He didn't hold hands for a long time after marriage, and obviously felt that we were as sweet as when we first got together. In fact, I think this is love. Love will make you unconsciously want to get in touch with him, including when you sleep at night. Although you hug the heat and sleep separately, I will still put one foot on him, as if I can sleep soundly next to you.

Do you have this habit? At the same time, even if a person is usually introverted and gentle, he is really a hooligan in front of the person he likes, and he is still naive. If an outsider or someone else immediately changes back to the original cold style, there will be no one.

4. Plan the future of two people and your parents.

The plan for the future here is not to draw a pie, nor to talk casually, but to move forward in a practical, reasonable and rhythmic way. Although he will be anxious, self-abased and hesitant in this process, you will find that he is trying to move forward and become better, because he wants to give you a better future.

When I was with my eldest brother, we were all poor at that time, and he was already planning the future. I didn't take it seriously at that time, because I felt that we couldn't control ourselves and planned anything. On the bright side, I saw my big brother's careful calculation of life, put me first, worked with him seriously, and felt that I had made the right choice.

At the same time, a boy with strong sense of responsibility really gets extra points. In the past, when a girl got married and went out, it was like splashing water, and the girl's home became her mother's home. At the same time, the girl's parents are no longer in the planning of young people, and my eldest brother's planning is not only for us and his parents, but also for my parents.

For me, who has been married far away, I feel really safe. My parents are providing for the elderly now and in the future, but all this is based on "money", so I must seize every opportunity to change myself and make money. I once chatted with my eldest brother and said that God gave everyone a chance to make a comeback, depending on whether you can catch it yourself.

5. express your love clearly

Many emotions are easily trampled, and I feel that I have caught up anyway. Anyway, we're all together, so we don't have to talk as much as we did when we first got together.

Actually, it's not. Love needs two people to run it together. I think my eldest brother and I can always keep fresh, so boring. Most importantly, we will clearly express our thoughts, express our love and let the other party know that I love him.

Always, at the same time, it will make each other feel safe. How important is it to express love clearly? Maybe even if you have experienced the novelty of love, he will make you feel loved in some small details of daily life.

He is respected and cared for, and he has you in his heart. You have always been a treasure in his heart, so love should be spoken out boldly, what qualities and habits he loves, and so on.