Some want others to supervise themselves.
Others really want others to praise themselves. Recently, a friend watched The Golden Pagoda Principle, which was very thick and distributed for four or five days. I want to stop him.
Everyone wants to be recognized and praised by others. I keep accounts continuously 134 1 day, and 1000 days will send friends to cheat traffic and praise. After reading it, friends can bask in how long they spent and how many notes they made. How is mind mapping organized? Punching in every day is a bit retarded.
In fact, since last month, I have tried to keep punching in every day.
Because I know that I am actually a person who is not self-disciplined, I hope to urge myself with the help of heteronomy.
During the winter vacation, the circle of friends was occupied by students' various punching cards, most of which were in English. If you look closely, college students are the main force in punching cards.
Personally, I hope to use heteronomy, which is one of the reasons why I punch in. It is also important to have more leisure time in college. On the one hand, I don't want to be mediocre and degenerate in college, on the other hand, I don't know where to work hard.
Punching in is not only learning, but also a kind of psychological comfort. App operators promote their own application software by compulsory punching; Users of the software give themselves a psychological hint of "I'm studying and I'm not wasting time" by punching in. Really playing the role of "the end of a course can improve listening and enlarge vocabulary …" varies from person to person. But as long as you learn, you will always gain more or less.
My persistence has also inspired some friends and classmates around me, so I feel good about the atmosphere of studying together.
I have always felt that emptiness and fear come from "leisure". If I try to enrich my life, I will groan and feel less for feeling.
Punching in is just a way to enrich yourself. I can't understand that punching in every day is "13". I saw a reply on Zhihu. I quite agree with this view: "Everyone has his own way of life. If you hate punching in, you can choose to block. "
Some people like to go out to play and send some messages about themselves every day. Punching in is actually the same. We just choose a way we like to enrich ourselves.
I have doubts about my aversion to punching in, but it doesn't bother me. I regard these words as "grapes that I can't eat".
When punching in a circle of friends, you should pay attention not to others but to yourself.