A lady should be an emotional woman like Daiyu. In front of the beloved man, he retains the softest and most untouchable pain in his heart, a kind and affectionate heart, and all women's longing for love.
They are sometimes emotional and sometimes shy; Sometimes gentle as water, sometimes innocent and lovely; Sometimes funny, but also exudes the pure atmosphere of a girl.
Of course, I will be sad because of loneliness, and I will cry because I am moved. It is more important to know what is enough, when it will appear, and how to show your beauty.
Show/have good judgment
This is the best expression of gentleness of a lady. Gentle ladies are generally tolerant of people. They are very humble and considerate of others. They like to think of others in everything and never embarrass others.
sympathize with
This is a concentrated expression of a lady's gentleness in dealing with people. For the weak, vulnerable groups, the elderly, children and patients, women should show their due sympathy and try their best to help them.
bear hardships and stand hard work
This is the traditional virtue of oriental women. Especially in family life.
Kindness and honesty
Have a good wish for people and things, and like to care and help others. Pay more attention to your family, especially your children.
Enthusiastic and meticulous
What excites people is not how amazing a lady has done, but more often, it is the careful care and consideration of this lady at the right time and place that can make people feel excited. When we went out together, she got her hands dirty from eating, so she prepared a tissue and handed it to her. The button of the skirt fell off, and she happened to be wearing a needle and thread. She has been careful ... Although it is a trivial matter, it fully reflects the gentleness and charm of a lady in the details.
Soft personality
Never fly into a rage or fly into a rage when something goes wrong. Softness with rigidity is the highest state of a lady. In this state, even tempered steel can be turned into soft fingers by her.
Not weak
Modern women are gentle but never weak. Tenderness is a virtue, a manifestation of inner strength and fullness, while weakness is a shortcoming that needs to be overcome. The two cannot be confused.
In short, gentleness can be reflected in all aspects, and it can also be reflected in all aspects of a lady's life. As a lady, we should cultivate our gentleness through learning, knowing ourselves, knowing the society and personal experience. Gentleness, for a lady, is the best trait in her life and work, which not only helps her to live independently in society, but also makes her charming.
Question 2: What qualities/conditions should a modern lady have? Therefore, modern ladies refer more to the integration of manners, qualities and personal accomplishment.
Manner is the most important thing to dress up. A lady will use her personality to match clothes, and use clothes to highlight her personality, instead of catering to the matching of clothes with her personality. In other words, you must dress appropriately and generously on different occasions. There is also a gesture gesture. There is an old saying: "Looking back, the charm is endless." In fact, it also refers to a woman's own manners. If her manners are decent and generous, there will be artistic conception of red flowers and green leaves, and there will be charm between squares.
Quality, you must have no bad habits, devote yourself to wealth, and a rich woman can never be considered a lady. Secondly, we should have a kind heart to treat every relative and friend around us, including those who need help in society. To put it simply, when we meet pregnant women and old people on the bus, we should never turn a blind eye ... to put it simply, we advocate public morality now. Let's just say that if you meet a story published in the newspaper: Jane do Meili Yi is moving and has a great personality. As soon as she got on the bus, she attracted countless eyes, but her next behavior was dumbfounded. It was very crowded, and many people did nothing, including children and the elderly. And this woman, however, put her dog on the seat, ignoring other people who don't have a seat, triumphant and safe. If this story is the same, I think this woman will make you feel sick, not to mention a lady. At best, she is a pseudo-lady.
Cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's sexuality, not according to the feudal era. A woman without talent is virtue. Modern ladies must have a certain cultural background in order to have a certain connotation and accomplishment. Acting as a person has its own unique views and independent ways. Think twice before doing something. Never go your own way, do whatever you want, convince people by reasoning, and convince people by reasoning. Never speak ill of others. What's the difference between a bitch and a bitch? You don't want to know a hundred books. You seldom know manners.
Question 3: A woman's 10 standard is 1, dignified and confident.
A woman with free and easy steps, full of energy and confidence can attract others the most.
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Step 2 keep a sense of humor
A person who knows how to smile or laugh at the right time and place will be welcomed by others.
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Don't be afraid to show your true feelings.
No matter what kind of joys and sorrows, tenderness and sweetness, they should not be hidden. A woman who often suppresses and hides her emotions will be considered indifferent, and no one will like to associate with icebergs.
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When you are in trouble, you should ask your friends for help.
Friends will feel their importance because you ask them for help. Not only will they not despise you, but they will become bosom friends and love you more.
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5. Don't haggle over every ounce.
In communication, women should be open-minded and generous, and never be narrow-minded. Don't lose your temper, haggle over every ounce, or even embarrass everyone on many occasions, which will be very annoying.
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6. Don't be conceited.
Women should not think highly of themselves. In social communication, don't show impatience or look down on others because of your different temper and identity. Of course, they can't be too humble because their positions and status are inferior to others, or because they look ordinary and dress poorly. They should be natural and graceful, neither humble nor supercilious.
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7. Don't show off your cleverness.
Everyone has his own self-esteem and something to be proud of. Showing off is a sign of lack of education. Of course, women are generally more thoughtful and meticulous than men. If you show your thoughtfulness and carefulness in front of that careless man, he will attach great importance to you. Don't think it's smart, it's a sign of thinking in place and a woman's delicate mind.
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8, don't ignore the instrument.
As a woman, in social occasions, we must pay attention to dignified and tidy appearance. In social activities, proper decoration and dressing are appropriate. Don't be tired and careless.
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9, soft inside and rigid outside, combining rigidity with softness
Beneath the gentle appearance, a strong heart is beating. They are no longer the weakness of traditional ladies, nor are they formidable women.
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10, in exchange for the most generous treatment in the gentlest way.
Modern ladies deeply understand that the deliberate pursuit of tenacity is too different from the real inner world of women, and it is very hard without tenacity. Therefore, modern ladies never abandon life and love, but love rationally and fully enjoy the sweetness of love; They live sincerely and enjoy all the beauty in life.
Question 4: What are the requirements of a modern lady? Talk less and be reserved. Don't promise anyone anything easily.
Question 5: What is the standard of being a lady? A lady is not only an external quiet, but also an advanced expression of internal and external combination. Dressing up as a lady is not a sign of quiet behavior and implicit action. Easy to move and quiet is the real lady's demeanor.
Question 6: What is the standard of a lady? The norms of ancient ladies: walk without showing your feet, walk without showing your inches, laugh without showing your teeth, and keep your hands off your chest.
My personal view now is: virtuous enough, smart enough, pure enough, delicate enough, gentle enough, elegant enough, shy enough, figure enough, temperament enough and delicate enough.
Question 7: Put forward ten standards of modern "lady" and "gentleman" respectively, and explain the reasons respectively. A lady refers to a virtuous woman, that is, a woman with both ability and political integrity, so the core of a lady's quality lies in "virtue" and the standard of a lady is determined around "having both ability and political integrity". Up to now, there is no clear lady standard in China. According to the scattered hopes and expectations of ladies in past dynasties and the requirements of the Analects of Confucius, the standard of modern ladies can be described as follows: 1. Good temper, easygoing, gentle and good temper should be the first accomplishment of ladies. To survive in modern society, no matter where you get along with people, including at home, if you have a good temper, everyone is willing to approach you, and you will have a lot of help to support you. If you have a bad temper, you will be uncomfortable with everyone you meet and different from others. Actually, you're in your way. Good temper is characterized by easy-going, warm and gentle. Temper needs to be cultivated. This is because: One reason is that temper and temperament are mostly inherited. It is said that people have a certain temper and temperament when they are born, accounting for more than 80% of the temper and temperament when they grow up later. Temper can be changed slowly when you are young, so temper should be corrected and cultivated. In order to survive, communicate healthily and prolong life, we need to develop a good temper. Second, kindness, love of beauty and kindness should be a lady's second accomplishment. What is a person's highest achievement? Is to cultivate a kind heart. Why do you say that? This is because the key to seeing a person's good, evil, beauty and ugliness is to see if he has a kind heart. If you are kind-hearted, you will not do evil, envy others, laugh at others, crowd out others, give people a "bad guy" behind their backs, make people laugh at others, see the weak fail to help them, and impose on others because of personal likes and dislikes. Compassionate, caring, public servant, compassionate. What is good for people? People had better have a kind heart. Kindness is kindness, kindness, perfection, beauty, the greatest kindness and the most complete beauty. Being kind to anyone and anything is called taking good advice. What a high spiritual level this is! Third, sincerity, openness and frankness should be the third accomplishment of a lady. What is Shu? This is clear. Qing is clean, Zhen is healthy, and Shu is clean. Integrity can win the trust, and sincerity is the basis and highest realm of integrity. Clear and chastity, clear and bright, bright and sincere, bright and sincere, sunny and transparent, so it is customary to have a foundation. Good sincerity, although it is said, it shows the charm of lady cultivation. People who can be sincere must be open-minded and open-minded. What a broad mind this requires! Fourth, good conduct, courtesy to others, kindness in doing things, and good conduct should be the fourth accomplishment of a lady. Good conduct can gain a foothold in society for a long time. Treat others with three points of respect first, and you will gain the respect of others. With the guidance of a harmonious heart, we can get twice the result with half the effort. 5. Good comity, modest attitude, dignified manners and good comity should be the fifth accomplishment of a lady. A lady should know her manners. Good face, clean body and proper clothes. Don't look back, walk slowly. Don't cock your lips, close your hands in a low voice, answer questions politely and speak softly. I can't sit on my knees or shake my skirt. Laugh or not, be angry or not. Eat quietly and don't touch alcohol and tobacco. Treat people with courtesy and humility. See the elders, respectfully. Be dignified, don't talk nonsense, don't be more standardized, don't make irresponsible remarks, and don't provoke bad voices. The length of home is indisputable. Neighbor, be polite. Say what you say and do what you do. Right or wrong, not petty. 6. Study hard, combine learning with doing, and keep pace with the times. Good study should be a lady's sixth achievement. Only by studying hard, loving learning, combining learning with doing, seeking truth from facts, advancing with the times and lifelong learning can we be knowledgeable and be invincible in society for a long time. When it comes to learning, women should also be good at women's talents, such as sewing, tailoring, sewing and weaving, so that they can sew and mend everything. As long as you work hard and have good skills, your clothes will not be worn out and your family will not be poor. 7. Being virtuous and diligent, being virtuous outside the show, should be the seventh greatest accomplishment of a lady. Go to the hall, go to the kitchen, and have a good cooking skill. Early to bed and early to rise, orderly housework, clean room, diligence and thrift. Honor the elders, care about raising the younger generation, be kind and meticulous, be considerate, and have a harmonious marriage and family. Eight, cute, pure and clever, upright and lovely should be the eighth quality of a lady. Lovely but not hateful, pure but not dirty, smart but not drifting, upright and awe-inspiring, with a variety of customs but not vulgar, which is a true portrayal of a lady. Nine, so gentle, gentle and wise, ... >>
Question 8: The basic requirements of a lady let you know how to be a lady. Let's look at the necessary conditions for being a lady. First, straight long hair or shoulder-length hair, even if not shoulder-length, is best worn above the ears. Second, slim, preferably slender, not slender, but also exquisite. It doesn't matter if you are thinner, it's acceptable to be fatter, but you must have a waist. 3. Donate all the platform shoes and miniskirts. Don't be reluctant to go, it's a pity not to say it. According to your own conditions, if you meet the above requirements, congratulations, as long as you follow the following rules, you can become a lady and stand out in the street this summer. Wear it: 1. Wearing a skirt, the texture is better with spun silk, yarn and cotton cloth, and the skirt is best simple, generous and concise. There must be no behavior of tying a big flower belt on the skirt, no behavior of matching a gold chain on the skirt, and no behavior of matching more than three colors on the skirt. Second, wearing high heels, the roots must be thin to show the slender feet, which is conducive to smooth walking; Wearing low-heeled shoes, you must not have the behavior of sports shoes. Third, the length of the coat should be moderate, and more than one-third of the back must not be exposed when paying. Fourth, there must be no behavior of wearing a thick gold necklace around the neck. Five, the hair must not be dyed in colorful behavior, highlighting the recommendation, there is a feeling of surprise. Sixth, there must be no behavior of carrying big bags. 7. Don't wear jeans or jeans full of holes. Eight, the national is the world, and wearing national costumes is an encouraging behavior. Nine, there is no behavior with a big diving watch. 10. Never wear a military coat in summer. Etiquette: First of all, hold your chest high, raise your head and abdomen. Second, you can't be ignorant of brand-name perfume. Third, there must be no behavior that you don't understand famous brand fashion. Four, in the street, there must be no chasing and slapstick behavior with peers. Five, in the street, not to eat snacks and littering its residue. Sixth, you must not wear makeup in public. Seven, there is no "sea sea" laughter. Eight, there must be no gossiping, mother-in-law, complaining behavior. Nine, there must be no behavior that is not afraid of seeing mice and camphor tree beetles. Ten, by bus, there can be no use of fake monthly ticket behavior. Eleven, absolutely can't eat bubble gum in public, eat big bubbles, eat bubble gum is discouraged. Twelve, take a bus, standing next to an old man or a woman with a child, there is no behavior of not giving up your seat. 13. Don't associate or make out with your boyfriend too much in public. Fourteen, watching the bloody scene of the movie, there must be no cheerful behavior; Recommended action: Close your eyes and whisper, God, I'm so scared! A person with a soft personality will never go on the rampage or go on the rampage when something goes wrong. Softness with rigidity is the highest state of a lady. In this state, even tempered steel can be turned into soft fingers by her. Not weak. Modern women are gentle but never weak. Tenderness is a virtue, a manifestation of inner strength and fullness, while weakness is a shortcoming that needs to be overcome. The two cannot be confused. In short, gentleness can be reflected in all aspects, and it can also be reflected in all aspects of a lady's life. As a lady, we should cultivate our gentleness through learning, knowing ourselves, knowing the society and personal experience. Gentleness, for a lady, is the best trait in her life and work, which not only helps her to live independently in society, but also makes her charming. Lady?
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This is from the heart. It's not fake
Honest, kind, gentle, quiet, steady and generous.
Do you shake your head?
Sit without showing your knees
Don't stand against the door
Reasonable, agile and virtuous
A lady is an understanding gift, knowing how to help others and considerate of family and friends. The appearance does not indicate whether this woman is a lady or not. She should choose a spouse from the heart.