This situation not only appears in female stars, but now almost all working women are facing the problem of returning to work quickly after childbirth. Besides paying attention to your work, you should lose weight as soon as possible. Of course, most of their attention should be paid to children. This 7788 incident makes women's lives very upset.
I saw a sentence in the movie "Finding You", which I think particularly aptly shows the situation of women in today's society:
"In this era, the requirements for women are really high. If you choose to be a professional woman, then some people will say that you are an incompetent mother who ignores your family. If you choose to be a stay-at-home mom, someone will still stand up and say, it's your duty. You just don't have a job at home now and have no contribution to your family. "
It seems that once a woman decides to have children, she will enter a contradictory proposition that can never get a perfect answer: how should career and family be balanced?
When a woman has demands on herself and wants to live a good life, in fact, no matter what the outside world says, the final decision is still in her own hands. If you want to have your own career, you shouldn't be bound by children. Children have children's lives, and you have your life. Your life should not be attached to children, and no one's life can be sacrificed. Then you should lose weight quickly after giving birth and return to the workplace quickly, just like Zhao, which is also the reason why Zhao is hotly debated after his comeback.
If you enjoy being a housewife after giving birth, want to take care of the children wholeheartedly and don't want to miss every important moment of their growth, then why not enjoy life to the fullest?
Although women face great social pressure and family pressure, they also have the right to choose their own lives. Having children has no influence on men at all. Why should we hold women back? This is unfair and unreasonable, so the final choice is still in your hands.