In Friends, when Ross just met his girlfriend Julie, he had a crush on Rachel for many years before falling in love with Ross. Ross is in a dilemma, hesitating between Julie and Rachel. Good friends Chandler and Joey suggested that he list the advantages and disadvantages of the two girls by enumerating, so as to choose the best and make the most rational choice. Ross listed Rachel's many shortcomings, one after another. And the evaluation of Julie, Ross saw her, full of bright spots. When Chandler thought he would naturally choose Julie, Ross said that he thought Julie's only shortcoming was that she was not Rachel.
She's not Rachel.
Some love is irreplaceable. No matter how good she is, she is not his favorite.
Is there a kind of love that can go deep into the bone marrow? I don't know. But when Ross said "she's not Rachel", I was deeply moved off the screen: this silly boy loves Rachel!
Ross knows that his girlfriend Julie is in tune with him in work, appearance, personality and so on, and is easy to get along with. However, even the best Julie is not the Rachel he has dreamed of for many years.
When some friends around us have started asking private detectives to spy on mistress, some are caught in the divorce war, and some people suddenly become like an empty door in middle age, only burning incense and worshiping Buddha ... Sister H still lives quietly, as if she can't see the dog blood story all over the world.
Sister H and her husband * * * jointly opened a small law firm and worked hard in the magic capital. In less than five years, they have established themselves and settled down in houses near Kunshan or Shanghai. In the wedding year, Sister H was pregnant with a baby and retired behind the scenes, with her husband in charge of the company. Sister H began to practice in a law firm when she was in college. After work, she worked hard every day and vowed to earn a corner in Shanghai. At that time, she was capable and handsome, and she was a fiery legal elite in the field of intellectual property. Anyone who knows her, as long as the word elite goddess is mentioned, will definitely think of her first.
That's it. When she was pregnant, she didn't put any cosmetics on the baby in her belly. That year, she caught up with the drought, worked at sunrise every day, and rested at sunset, and she showed freckles. Not only her face, but also her neck and arms were invaded by brown spots the size of rice grains, which was terrible. This figure is even worse. Sister h directly evolved from the standard s-type in everyone's impression into a vat.
At that time, almost all the girlfriends around Sister H were quarreling with her husband. I was also afraid that she would be bullied by San Xiao, but she just kept silent, and the sympathy of others and the repeated marriage wars were insulated from her.
On a business trip to Shanghai, I dropped in on Sister H in an elegant coffee shop. Sister H's bloated and severely deformed figure is about to burst that taupe coat. Her appearance doesn't match the atmosphere of the coffee shop.
I chatted with her for fear that she would feel inferior.
Unexpectedly, after listening to Sister H's talk about her life, I felt ashamed of her expression.
Very comfortable, little happiness, that kind of soft and waxy taste like cotton candy. She said that this is the taste of her life.
It turned out that Sister H's husband, the most beloved person in his heart, was only Sister H from beginning to end. So when she was pregnant and needed someone to take care of her, and he was unable to take care of her, she asked her parents to take care of her sister H, and her lifestyle was completely in accordance with her habits; Therefore, when she was deformed after delivery and her appearance was not as good as before, he still felt that she was beautiful and grateful; So when she decided to take care of the children first and didn't want to work to make money, he nodded in agreement, full of relief; So when she occasionally catches a cold, he will call every half hour to say hello and tell her to take medicine; So when she has no concept of time, he will remember her birthday and all the anniversaries that should be remembered, spend it with her, carefully choose gifts for her or take her to a big meal; So when she said she was bored and wanted to plant all kinds of flowers, he changed the balcony into a small garden. ...
H's brother-in-law is surrounded by many new working girls. Some women of unknown depth tried their best to be his lover, but he turned a blind eye and only recognized H's sister as the only one. That kind of affection has been integrated into his blood and bone marrow, and it is good for her, just as natural as every breath.
"I dare not tell my friends around me, nor will I bask in my happiness in my circle of friends. Their marriage is too painful. Can't I show off this? " Sister h said slowly.
Her face is quiet and peaceful, shining with that kind of light that can be called happiness.
When Sister H got up to leave, I found that her humble dark coat was actually the latest customized model of international first-line brands! It turned out that at first, it was unnecessary to inadvertently sympathize with her as an aunt. She has never been an aunt, but a little wife who is spoiled by her lover, and can follow the lucky ones who are greedy in their hearts unscrupulously.
I forgot which episode it was. In Friends, after Ross and Rachel broke up, they met the girl he thought they could get married. And Rachel's eternal love made her fly across the Atlantic to the wedding scene in Europe. She decided to show her love to Ross and practice over and over again. When Rachel unexpectedly appeared at the wedding, she was going to make a scene, but she just said "Congratulations" (Congratulations! )
Rachel is very selfish. She knew that Ross was irreplaceable. But at that moment, she let go. Her blessing, though not from the heart, is her insincerity, which makes the audience feel a little sad when they see this scene.
It's really hard to say goodbye properly. It hurts to lose what you love.
Think of Ling Huchong, the legendary swordsman. He is cheerful and open-minded, bold and unrestrained, and he likes young Yue Lingshan wholeheartedly. But young cares about others. No matter how unruly Ling Huchong is, he is always full of tenderness when facing young people. When she died, she asked Ling Huchong to protect the wicked-her husband, and he also agreed. Even if Hu Ling doesn't write it, readers can feel his inner pain.
For Ling Huchong, she lost her beloved brother because she knew there was someone else in her heart.
This regret is irreparable. Even with a soul mate like Ren Yingying around, somewhere in Linghu's heart, there will always be a place for young people.
Goodbye, two words, pronunciation is not difficult, really love, how can you bear to say it?
May everyone be with someone they really love.