There is still a saying in many rural areas that children provide for the elderly and married daughters do not have to support their parents.

After marrying A Feng, I stayed in a big city for several years, bought a car and a house in a big city, and lived a good life. Yan Yan's parents-in-law have been living in the countryside of the county.

Usually the old couple take care of each other. Every time I go back to my hometown with A Feng, I will use my living expenses to buy things for the old couple.

The old couple have a monthly pension of more than 1000, plus some living expenses taken by their son and daughter-in-law, and their lives are fairly moist.

A Feng has two sisters and three brothers and sisters in the same city. Because of their busy work, they seldom contact.

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It is said that the only child has a heavy burden to support the elderly. Yan Yan believes that with so many sisters in Afeng's family, it will be easier for everyone to share the heavy responsibility of supporting the elderly in the future.

Usually, Yan Yan's two sisters just celebrate festivals and occasionally go back to see their parents. They never give living expenses, only a little on birthdays and holidays.

Yan Yan knows that A Feng respects her two sisters very much, and her sisters don't give much financial support to her parents. Feng never cares about this. A Feng thinks that as long as his parents are healthy, he can earn more money and give it to his parents.

That night, I heard that Feng received a phone call from the county seat 120. It turned out that her mother-in-law had a stroke in the middle of the night and her father-in-law had coronary heart disease. Fortunately, the neighbors helped to call the hospital for help, so that the two old people could seek medical treatment in time and saved their lives.

And A Feng rushed to the county hospital in the middle of the night to take care of her parents-in-law. A Feng is doing business in the city. He has a shop with good passenger flow and good daily income. But because his parents-in-law were ill, he closed the store and guarded the old man in the hospital.

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Yan Yan works as an administrator in a company. Because of the long working hours, she won the trust of her boss, so her salary was not low. Seeing the situation of her parents-in-law, she can only call her boss for leave first.

I heard Feng call my second sister several times and said that my mother-in-law was ill. As if nothing had happened, the two sisters had always promised to visit them, but they had been in hospital for a week and no one had been seen.

My father-in-law is treated with infusion every day, and his physical condition has recovered well. Because my mother-in-law had a stroke, although it was discovered earlier and treated in time, the left side of her body was completely immobile and unconscious.

The doctor said it was difficult to recover. Maybe my mother-in-law will spend the rest of her life in bed, and my father-in-law is not fit to take care of her.

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The heavy responsibility of taking care of her mother-in-law basically falls on Yan Yan. A Feng is very filial to her mother, but because she is a man, it is not convenient to take care of her mother-in-law.

Every day, Yan Yan needs to turn over for her mother-in-law every two hours to prevent bedsores. Even in the middle of the night, she has to set an alarm clock and get up every two hours to help her turn over.

Feeding in the morning, noon and evening, helping her mother-in-law, handling defecation, body massage and bathing, all these activities are done by Yan Yan every day. She's only been taking care of them for a week, and she can't stand it anymore.

After half a month's care, the two sisters still didn't show up, and the boss of the company was urging her to go to work.

In the evening, Feng and I take turns to take care of her mother-in-law, but neither of them can stand it. Now she can fall asleep even standing.

Discuss with A Feng: Find a professional nurse or aunt to help take care of her mother-in-law. Yan went to work and asked someone to look after Feng's shop.

When preparing to leave for the city at night, two beautifully dressed sisters appeared in the hospital at the same time. They didn't ask about their father-in-law's illness or take the initiative to take care of their mother-in-law.

After knowing that Yan Yan was going to work, her elder sister said: My mother is ill and needs someone to take care of her when she is sick in bed. My sister-in-law must be you who resigned, took care of her and married to our family. You are a member of our family, and it is your responsibility to take care of your mother-in-law.

My second aunt also repeatedly said: yes, yes, in our rural tradition, it is the daughter-in-law's responsibility to take care of her parents-in-law, and the daughter can't control it. You can't even say whether we accept the money or not. Let's take a look and leave. Take good care of you, sister-in-law You should be filial to my mother. She is your mother-in-law

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Yan Yan was furious when she heard her elder sister-in-law say this. This is also the first time she has met this wonderful sister. It is said that the daughter is the intimate little cotton-padded jacket of her parents. How can her two sisters be so extraordinary?

After the two "guided" the work with Feng, Shi Shiran left again. It seems that they are not visiting their parents, but going shopping, and then they can go home.

Finally, Yan Yan went back to work. A Feng specially invited a professional aunt to take care of her mother-in-law who was bedridden in her hometown and her father-in-law's health. After her aunt took good care of her, A Feng also returned to her shop. Every week, Feng and I will go back to our hometown to see our parents-in-law, no matter how busy they are. Anyway, the two sisters have never seen each other when they go back.