Climbing mountains has become a compulsory course in Li Houlin every year. Eight years, I don't know how many times he has experienced collapse and life and death test. Although high blood pressure was diagnosed in earlier years, doctors strongly advised not to go to the plateau again, but it still didn't stop.
What is the reason why a man with such a successful career is so pessimistic about life?
Perhaps for Li Houlin, he should turn to the mountains, stay away from the familiar life, measure with his steps and feel with his heart, so as to rediscover and know himself. What happened to him to make a rich man face life with such a mentality?
From Zhou Yanhong to Amanda, and finally to Li Xiang, from obscurity to famous jewelry tycoons, and then to the rich on the verge of bankruptcy. For Li Houlin, life always seems to intersect with his own life. Perhaps it was through such ups and downs that Li Houlin realized the true meaning of life and saw the essence of life: "It is better to touch others than to touch yourself, at least not to get hurt".
On the other hand, in the first half of Li Houlin's life, he seems to have been pursuing the meaning of living, which is: "What are you living for?" Like many young people, it is inevitable that their dreams will be disappointed after being impacted by reality. At this point, Li Houlin doesn't have any worries, because Li Houlin, born in 1973, was born with a mind different from ordinary people, so he has always been very transparent in looking at and recognizing some things. Therefore, the starting point of Li Houlin is naturally higher than that of many people and can be compared with it. In addition to the wealthy businessman Liu Luanxiong, there may be no second person!
At the age of 26, how many people can set up a grand diamond institution without family background? Li Houlin did it, and I believe many people will admire it very much. So, is Li Can Hou Lin, who is scheming in business, also like a duck to water emotionally? Once upon a time, Li Houlin was also very confident in her love life. After all, it takes more than minutes for him to succeed and find a wife.
Wealth, women and power have undoubtedly gradually evolved into the criteria for evaluating a man's success. On the other hand, Li Houlin naturally lost interest in wealth and power, just to satisfy a confidante has become a top priority for Li Houlin every day. After all, his own strength is enough to stand at the top of the pyramid, and the vulgar vanity in the noise can't naturally enter his eyes, but if he can win the hearts of female stars, isn't it a matter of face to pull them out?
Indeed, as long as you have enough strength, you can redefine the pillow person without relying on imagination! In early 2000, Li Houlin targeted the actress Zhou Yanhong to find the other half. As we all know, Zhou Yanhong, born in 1975, made a sensation in the whole music world with his first album when he was only 16 years old. Among them, many classic folk songs such as Chashan Girl and Zhuo Ma have also been sung all over the streets. And an "accidental" opportunity, Li Houlin and Zhou Yanhong met, and Li Houlin immediately started the pursuit of galloping.
Since I can mix in the business world, I naturally show high emotional intelligence and high IQ. Therefore, on the road of chasing girls, Li Houlin has also played its own commercial potential, which is nothing more than money, paper and flowers! I wonder, under such an "offensive", how many women can not be fooled? So Zhou Yanhong, sure enough, fell into this relationship. After they got together, Zhou Yanhong managed Li Houlin's business with his own ability more than once, and most of Zhou Yanhong's friends indirectly became Li Houlin's customers.
With the silent support of my wife, it is difficult to double my career. According to the truth, such a woman can stay by her side wholeheartedly, and many men will be very practical. But who would have thought that in less than three years, Li Houlin would find another home? Publicly speaking, it was because they had "different personalities" and finally chose to break up. In fact, didn't you just turn around and fall in love with Amanda, who is five years younger than yourself? Perhaps it is too easy to live a logical conclusion, and it is time to experience the "exciting" life, so at this time, Li Houlin decisively abandoned Zhou Yanhong.
But by contrast, it is true. Amanda's personality is absolutely unmatched by Zhou Yanhong. And Amanda was born a dancer when she was a child. No matter from the figure or temperament, she is more like the "potential" that a rich wife should have. On fame again, at the age of 22, Amanda won the title of Best Actress at the Hong Kong Film Awards with "Durian Fluttering". Will this title be worse than Zhou Yanhong's? However, in the face of Li Houlin's pursuit, the popular actress also made a difficult decision. On the one hand, her career is in full swing, on the other hand, her life is romantic and carefree. How to choose?
But soon, under the fierce pursuit of Li Houlin, Amanda rationally chose the latter, so what is the effort for? Money! If you can get the money directly, why continue to work hard? Therefore, he agreed to Li Houlin's pursuit, and in 2003, Li Houlin was impressed by his little girlfriend's handwriting and privately took out a diamond ring made of colored diamond to propose to Amanda. Why choose 50 colored diamond instead of 49 and 5 1? According to Li Houlin, it represents "50 years of golden marriage".
For a man with such a promise, which woman is not moved? Amanda, too, is still immersed in her fantasy of a happy life. Has it ever occurred to her? The man who promised to marry himself once again said that the marriage had to be put on hold because of the delay in his career. It is said that a good meal is not afraid of being late, but who would have thought that Li Houlin turned around and announced that he would marry Li Xiang? Of course, no one can stop there. On July 2, 2004, Kloc-0, Amanda received a breakup message as soon as she got off the plane after filming.
At this time, the question of "why" becomes very weak. Perhaps for Amanda, instead of waiting for humiliation, it is better to disappear directly, because she was directly cheated at that time. Marrying into a rich family is just a fantasy in my own dream. Since it is a dream, I will definitely wake up one day. I just didn't expect that it was too short to be sad. Naturally, Amanda was seriously ill. It can be said that during that time, it was a woman's suffering after being lovelorn.
On the other hand, Li Xiang and Li Houlin held a grand wedding on the other side, especially after they got married for only 33 days. Although many people stood up and accused Li Houlin of being heartless and Li Xiang of poaching people. With Li Xiang's financial resources and influence, what are these rumors? If you think that Li Houlin brings happiness, you are all wet!
After they got married in Beijing from June 5th to 10 2nd, 2005, their marriage broke up only two years later. In other words, this marriage was the biggest joke from the beginning. Apart from short acquaintance, what is love in the eyes of these rich people? What's more, Li Xiang is a rich man, and marrying Li Houlin just means that Li wants to further consolidate his own industry. However, after marriage, Li wanted to discover that Li Houlin was a "pseudo-rich man". Because it was rumoured that Li Houlin's enterprises were in crisis and on the verge of bankruptcy that year, Li Xiang chose to divorce.
Anyway, on1October 22nd, 2006, 165438+Ideality generously admitted that she and Li Houlin had divorced. "Any woman in the street is better than Li Xiang", which shows how hard this marriage has hit Li Houlin. On the other hand, Li Xiang's attitude blames the divorce on their busy work. Have to say, at this point, it serves to show Li Xiang's high emotional intelligence. Even the all-powerful business tycoon is naive in front of Li Xiang. He often claims that Li Houlin is a very nice person, which makes many people feel surprised and ridiculous.
After the divorce, Li Houlin finally stopped taking filming as a state of life, but devoted himself to his career. Moreover, after experiencing ups and downs, the enterprise under his name has made a comeback again, and the marriage life in recent years has also taught Li Houlin a lot. According to legend, in the next life, Li Houlin spent more than eight years climbing mountains for n times. By chance, he met a living Buddha in Zexiucang and formed an indissoluble bond with Buddhism.
I believe many people have read the book Eight Years in the Mountains published by Li Houlin. In the book, Li Houlin lives in another unknown Li Houlin, without the aura of so-called philanthropist and diamond tycoon.
What is presented to the readers is just a devout practitioner, working hard, climbing mountains and looking for his own heart. Li Houlin also said in the book: "Practice Buddhism to make my inner world more pure and clean!"
summary
The so-called practice, in fact, everyone's life is a process of practice, which may be long, but it will eventually reach another shore. What we have to do is to learn to balance work pressure with family and health, learn to seek balance in complex relationships, and don't turn practice into an excuse to escape from real life or troubles.