When a girl says you don't understand her, she actually means you don't understand women. What do you mean by understanding women? Knowing her means that she is awkward, wants to refuse and wants to welcome; Understanding means that when she scolds and complains, you don't suggest a solution, but do it; Understand that when she comes to her period, don't say drink more hot water, but say that if I am by your side, I will warm your stomach with my hands. Do you think you know? Then, I will tell you: no, that's why so many people can't live this life after reading so much truth. Because just knowing is a coincidence. I told you not to confess, you said, oh, I see, and then you lost control after drinking. I told you that you could hold hands, and you said, Oh, I see, and then you came back and told me that the tutor was afraid and couldn't make an appointment next time. I asked you to change your avatar, and you said, Oh, I see, and then you asked my tutor what to say when he greeted you. Do you know this? True knowledge is heartfelt acceptance. You know girls like handsome guys, but you don't give up on yourself. Keep playing lol. I know girls like handsome guys, so I go to the gym to do my hair and buy clothes to match. You know that girls like rich people, but you don't scold them for worshipping money, but you scold the rich second generation. I know that girls like rich people, so I will make money and work hard. This is the difference between knowing and not knowing. The highest EQ is to know what is good and what you can achieve, that is, self-knowledge. I once knelt down to a girl on a rainy night just to go back. At that time, I was still immature. I didn't do it: accept the loss and learn to be sad. Some girls can't bring them back. All we can do is do nothing. When we recover, have we ever thought about: sunk cost. For example, in a game, you don't want to charge money at first, but you charge 100 for a trial. At a node, there is a new device that needs to be charged. Think about it. Anyway, it has been recharged to 100, so it is not wasted. So you crossed out the whole box of matches just to find a match that fell to the ground. So do women. Many times, we feel that we love a woman deeply. In fact, we only love our own efforts. I can't believe I've done so much for her. I must love her. This is a hint from the heart. Don't waste a whole box of matches for a lost match, even if you don't want to. A female friend asked me this question, and I thought, of course I'm not. She said, you have never been in love, how do you know you are not love rat? I fell into deep thinking, and then I understood one thing: when my brothers came to me and said, I want to have a long-term relationship with her! I asked, what stage have you reached? He said, I don't know her yet. I,,,,,. Let me talk about what you see as a long-term relationship or what you are about to experience. You have a crush on a woman, and you think she is so perfect, with all her shortcomings, poor family conditions, acne on her face and ugly legs. In your heart, nothing matters. Because you haven't got her body yet. You think, this is true love, so you said all the good things that men all over the world can say, and did something that moved you and her, and she fell in love with you. When one day you stepped down from her panting, those shortcomings began to emerge, and you began to feel that your favorite goddess was gone. Then you find a reason to break up, give her the cold shoulder, she pesters you, then you have a new goddess, and then you become love rat. Of course, you may say, teacher, I want to fall in love once in my life, only love one woman, and get married until I am old. Yes, then you need very good luck. As ordinary people, the only way for us to find the right woman is to experience more women. You have to say it's unfair to good men and women. Who told you that the world is fair? The real long-term is two people, working together, struggling together, experiencing storms and fetters, and finally settling down, similar to family ties. When we have a long-term relationship, we are in two States: 1, trusting each other is the only thing, and 2, insecurity is gain and loss. For example, your girlfriend has a boy since she was a child. Long time no see, I want to invite her to dinner. If you are in the state of 1: for the future of both of you, you will continue to be busy with your own efforts. She will come to you after dinner, and she will feel safe because of your confidence. If you are in state 2: you will call several times in a row and say why you haven't come back yet. Why are you two going? ? Over time, what are girls waiting for if they don't break up? When you are afraid of losing and become more and more hysterical, this relationship will be distorted and you will suffer. If you want to control her, she will suffer more. Therefore, long-term maintenance starts with mentality. Don't talk for a long time if you can't find yourself. You must first suffer his heart, his bones and muscles, his body, his skin and his body, and do whatever you want. But I don't understand the above sentence. Why do you have to go through so much pain to successfully find yourself? Later, I saw people around me and middle-aged people who were depressed and beat their wives every day when they were young and complained about social injustice. I know that there will be many setbacks, sadomasochism, and entanglements with everyone, but most people can't bear to die and feel depressed about life. Only a few people can persist, walk out of the abyss and complete nirvana. His life is better than others. How can we understand a woman's heart? How can a man understand a woman's heart? 1. Generally speaking, women are not satisfied with their appearance, and fat women are thinking about how to lose weight every day. They try their best to make themselves more beautiful. Love of beauty and jealousy are women's gifts, and they always feel that they are not beautiful enough, especially older women. So a woman becomes beautiful in order to attract men or make men have more face, and she will try to make herself more beautiful. The social environment is changing, and modern people still feel lonely. Men can choose some projects to relieve their loneliness, but women are different. They can only enjoy loneliness. Women's loneliness is often resolved through some social tools. Women are prone to ambiguity in the network. They don't like to play ambiguous, but they are eager to be cared for and accompanied. Therefore, if a man meets a woman online and wants to capture her heart, he can find more topics to chat with her, so it is not difficult to capture her heart over time. The friendship between women is different from that between men. As long as there are problems between women, they will tear each other down, which may completely lose friendship. If a woman falls out with her friends, it is mostly because of men. In the final analysis, it is because women love to compare with others and often feel ashamed that they are not as good as each other. At the same time, if girlfriends and husbands get too close, women's psychological defense will be challenged and women's friendship will be lost. 4. Girls are generally shy. No matter how men and women interact, some touches always make women feel shy. Women may like implicit expression. If a man makes people feel warm, elegant and generous, such a man will certainly be liked by women. On the contrary, if men are unsmiling, then women will feel bored. In short, if a man wants to get a woman's heart, he must know something about her psychology before he can get what he likes and get a woman's heart. How can he understand a woman's heart? Understanding women can better grasp women's hearts. See if you really understand a woman's heart! First, women become beautiful. She is suitable for men and women who are never satisfied with their appearance. Fat women think about how to lose weight every day Women who can't get fat after eating too much always try their best to gain weight. Women try their best to make themselves more beautiful. Love of beauty and jealousy are both gifts of women. Looking at all kinds of beautiful women in the street, I always feel that I am not beautiful enough. This is a lack of pride that women often show, especially older women, who always lack pride in their old faces. So a woman becomes beautiful in order to attract men or make men have more face, and she will try to make herself more beautiful. Second, women fill the void by interacting with the opposite sex. The social environment is constantly changing, but modern people still can't escape loneliness. Men have certain advantages in the face of lonely environment. They can choose some entertainment projects to solve it, such as going out to drink or chat, playing games online and so on. And women are more likely to enjoy their loneliness and loneliness. Women's loneliness is often resolved through some social tools, looking for spiritual comfort in the network. Women are prone to ambiguity in the network. They don't like to play ambiguous, but they are eager to be cared for and accompanied. Therefore, if a man meets a woman in the network, his heart is generally empty. If they want to capture a woman's heart, they can find more topics to chat with her, so it is not difficult to win a woman's heart over time. Third, women's friendship is not strong. There is a great difference between women's friendship and men's friendship. There is some unhappiness between men, and there is room for relaxation. As long as there are problems between women, they will tear each other apart, which may completely lose friendship. If a woman falls out with her friends, it is mostly because of men. It's no accident to rob your girlfriend and husband. This has become a kind of chaos. In the final analysis, this is because women love to compare, and often feel ashamed that they are not as good as each other. At the same time, if girlfriends and husbands get too close, women's psychological defense will be challenged and women's friendship will be lost. Fourth, it is a gift for a man who knows amorous feelings to be ashamed of women. No matter how men and women interact, intimate contact will make women feel shy, and women like an implicit and respectful expression. If a man makes people feel warm, elegant and humorous, then such a man will be welcomed and liked by women. If a man is too unsmiling, it will make people feel puzzled, out of touch with the times, and it is difficult to bring joy to people. Women will not only find such men boring, but also think that their ability in bed is limited. To sum up, if a man wants to get a woman's heart, he must understand the psychology of these women. After having a certain understanding of women, he can do what he likes to get the favor of women.