Lily is 30 years old and looks very cute. She is a team leader in the customer service department of an Internet company.

Because of her lively personality and dressing up as a girl, if she doesn't tell her actual age, people who get along with her will always think that she is born after 95.

Lexiang is 23 years old and handsome. She just graduated from college and joined Lily's Internet company marketing department at the beginning of the year.

He is gentle and polite, and is deeply loved by all departments of the company.

At first, there was no intersection between them. After all, an intern in the marketing department has little contact with a department head in the customer service department.

It happened that the marketing manager needed a customer service information once, and the assistant was on a business trip, so the manager asked Lexiang to get this information from Lily.

Lily was a little surprised when she first saw Lexiang. Why doesn't Xiao Liu usually answer? But she likes this polite and gentle little boy very much.

While Lily was talking about some matters needing attention in the materials, Lexiang picked up a pen and took notes carefully. Lily thinks the child is serious about his work.

02、

Because of the intersection of this job, they all say hello when they meet in the company. Lily will care about Lexiang's recent work situation, and Lexiang will be happy to share it with Lily.

After a while, we got to know each other and found that we have many common hobbies, such as running, watching movies and eating delicious food.

After that, we started to have lunch together and chat interactively on WeChat.

Lexiang remembers all Lily's hobbies, and will take Lily to eat delicious food when she is in a bad mood, accompany her to the movies and make her happy. I will urge Lily to eat three meals a day and exercise with her when she says she wants to lose weight. Will ask peace when lily goes out alone and comes home late; It will create a romantic surprise on Lily's birthday. .....

All these make Lily feel that the little boy is very caring and warm, and gradually she has a sense of dependence and love for him.

Finally, after their relationship lasted for three months, Lexiang confessed that he liked Lily, regardless of age. Finally, Lily listened to her heart and accepted the pleasure.

Probably carried away by love, the two overcame all difficulties, persuaded their parents, held a simple wedding, paid the down payment of the house with Lily's savings and the money given by Lexiang's parents, and formed a small family.

Originally thought that such a vigorous love ushered in a happy life, who would have thought that there were a lot of tests waiting for them after marriage.

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Two weeks before marriage, because they were newly married, they were very sweet. I can't wait to be bored with each other every day.

Lily gets up early every day to make breakfast for Lexiang, and by the way, she also makes a lunch box, then tells Lexiang to get up, wash and eat breakfast, and then go to work together.

In the evening, we wait for each other to go home together after work. At home, Lily cooks and enjoys washing dishes or sweeping the floor. Two people working together, life is quite moist.

But it didn't last long. Two weeks later, Lexiang came home, took off his socks and clothes, and then lay on the sofa and began to play games.

Lily called him for help, and he always said that he was going out to run a client today. He is very tired and wants to have a rest first.

Lily was considerate of Le Xiang's hard work and didn't say anything. She cooks, cleans and washes clothes silently, hoping to have a good rest.

On weekends, Lily thinks that after sleeping in, they can cook and clean together, go out for a walk and enjoy their happy time, but Lexiang always lies in bed and says that she is tired from work and doesn't want to move.

Gradually, Lily has to work during the day and do housework when she gets home at night.

Enjoy yourself like a child. Occasionally, if something goes wrong at work, he will be a little emotional. Lily had to coax him and instruct him how to face the problems at work.

In the company, Lexiang was still a gentle and polite little boy, but when he got home, he did nothing.

Sometimes, people are so unpredictable and fickle.

04、

One day, Lily finally couldn't help it. She asked Le Xiang angrily, "Why are you completely different at work and at home?"

A listen to these words, LeXiang suddenly don't want to, this is not the direction of scold him, he want to good rhetoric, then said:

"You are my wife now, don't I need to disguise in front of you? What you see now is the real me. My mother usually does all the housework at home and takes good care of me. "

Hearing this, Lily said sadly, "I am your wife, I am not your mother!" " ! You don't have to take care of my emotions and share housework with me. After all, this is our family. "

Unexpectedly, Lexiang thought that Lily didn't love him, so he asked, "If you love me, don't you have to accept the truest me?"

Lily was speechless when asked. She thinks it's her own choice. She didn't want to quarrel, so she had to put up with it first and see how to ease the relationship.

When I bought a house, I paid half of the down payment, and the mortgage didn't say how to share it. All this was carried away by love.

On the day when the mortgage was repaid, Lexiang said that his monthly salary was not much, only enough for his own expenses and the usual small expenses at home. Lily also knows that her salary as a newcomer in the workplace is not high, so Lily can only bear the monthly mortgage.

Lily has been married for more than three months and has experienced the hardships of married life.

The immaturity and naivety of enjoyment made her feel exhausted. Now that their lives are a little tired, it is hard for her to imagine what life will be like after having children.

Lily told me that she recently began to think about whether her desperate decision was correct or not, and even had the idea of divorce and asked me if I would stick to it.

05、

Indeed, the sweetness of love will always confuse people temporarily and make people fall into the trap of love.

Young boys can give women a lot of freshness and sweetness, because they have less social experience and life experience and will be more simple and lovely.

However, it is precisely because of their lack of social experience and life experience that their immaturity and naivety will be exposed.

Although the age gap is nothing in love, but two people have to go for a lifetime, the age gap will inevitably become an obstacle for two people.

If it is not handled well, the woman will be very tired and will always take care of the man like her parents.

Love is beautiful, but marriage needs caution.

This kind of fate, just like a poem said, "You were born before I was born, and I was old when you were born. You hate that I was born late, and I hate that you were born early.