Good women don't look at lights.
In ancient China, there were many traditional festivals, such as visiting temple fairs and fairs, especially some traditional festivals such as Mid-Autumn Festival, Spring Festival and Lantern Festival, and there were also special customs. The first part of the old saying "a good girl doesn't look at the lights" is on the Lantern Festival. The custom of enjoying the lights in the Lantern Festival has been passed down to this day, so it is very easy to understand it literally.
But in fact, the good girl in it generally refers to the tutor of a large family. In ancient times, the education of a big family was very strict. Even on the Lantern Festival, girls are not allowed to go out. The requirement here is that women should keep their duties and go to less messy places.
Good people don't whip spring
In ancient times, it was farming life, and men chose few jobs. Many people make a living by farming, which leads to some blessing activities. So far, there are blessing meetings in some places, wishing the coming year a smooth and worry-free life. In ancient times, there was a similar activity, that is, the habit of whipping spring cattle on this day in beginning of spring! The spring cattle here are made of mud or wood.
Every spring ploughing season, the people in the city come out, and the cattle drivers whip the spring cattle with colorful sticks in their hands, which means to persuade everyone to plough in spring. When the spring is over, the spring cow will be broken on the spot, and onlookers will come forward to fight for it, because among the people, it is believed that the soil of the spring cow is very useful for sericulture, farmland cultivation, medical treatment, and evil spirits. It can be hung on the curtain of the bedside, and children can drink water when they are sick.
It is precisely because people think that spring cattle soil has such effects that they rush to buy it. In addition, Whip Spring Men need to compete, but there are usually some behaviors that hurt or hurt people carelessly, which also leads to the accident that the original meaningful activity becomes a fight with people and people are hurt. Therefore, the ancients suggested that good people should not whip spring and do immoral things.
In fact, we will find that the words of the ancients sound useless and outdated now, but they are not. In the present sense, it is an extension of "a good man doesn't whip spring" to persuade women to go to romantic places less, lead an honest and clean life, and care about the other half and family. Also suitable for now.
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