A 30-year-old woman should learn to wait for bloom to take her time.

Rousseau once said: "The person who lives the most meaningful life is not the person who lives the longest, but the person who has the most feelings about life." Some life, we can't choose and change, but we can choose to face it gracefully and calmly.

On the road of life, sometimes we always hope to reach our destination early and keep going, but the result is just the opposite.

At school, I saw other students playing outside the yard, but I didn't finish my homework. So, run out and perfunctory.

After graduation, I saw that other students had found satisfactory jobs, so I wandered around the talent market every day. What ideals, what expertise, all go to hell, as long as you have a job. So I chose a job that didn't suit me.

After having children, I can't help but feel anxious when I see other people's children grow up healthily, be sensible and study well, and my own children always get into trouble. As a result, I hate iron and don't turn it into steel, and even encourage it, which angered the children. The children became more and more rebellious and did bad things with good intentions.

Children grow up and see other people's children get married and have children. And their children are still wandering outside. So, I urged my child to get married quickly, set an introduction object for him as soon as possible, and add fragrance to the family.

In life, we are always in a hurry. When I was old, I looked back on my life and found that I had accomplished nothing. Life is short, but there is enough time to fulfill your dream.

A friend of mine, after getting married and having children, still got a "lawyer qualification certificate and became a lawyer", which is her favorite occupation.

Her success is the product of unremitting "fighting" with herself and knowing how to wait. Before getting married, she worked as a substitute teacher in a private school in our city. Later, for various reasons, she got married and gave up this career that matched her major. I picked up my favorite major again and applied for a lawyer.

One year won't last two years. After four years of hard work, she never gave up and refused to give up. Finally, at the age of 33, she realized her dream. From then on, her career was in full swing and her pockets were bulging, which once made her peers and friends envious.

First of all, she stayed married, chose marriage at the right age and quit her job.

Second, the child was born and there were no special plans. Everything goes with the flow. If he should come, let him come.

Third, after a stable life, she ushered in a career she loved.

Behind all this near perfection is her persistence and waiting.

It is her mind that is in no hurry.

Life is a long running process, don't expect to reach the finish line in one step; Don't be discouraged and stagnate because of temporary backwardness. In the process of running, you should learn to wait patiently.

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