Children are getting "smelly"
It is understandable that girls love beauty as their mother.
After all, every little girl fantasizes that she is a beautiful and kind little princess, wearing a beautiful little skirt every day, waiting for a handsome prince.
When my daughter goes to kindergarten, she paints her nails with colored pens. Every day when she comes back from kindergarten, her nails are colorful.
When she gets older, she won't even wear pants. She will wear skirts every day, and then she will not be able to do it for a while.
Sometimes I secretly put on high heels and wriggle around in front of the full-length mirror to appreciate my beauty.
In primary school, the school required to wear school uniforms every day, which was a big trouble!
The school uniform is not very nice, it's normal. But my daughter won't wear it if she is ugly. She can only put on her school uniform if she speaks ill every morning. Fortunately, the school uniform is a shirt with a small skirt, and she is not so resistant.
But you still can't wear skirts in physical education class! Every time I want to dress my daughter in sportswear, I feel that I have fought a hard battle.
A semester has passed, probably because all the students in the school are dressed like this and the children are used to it. Now I don't have to negotiate with her about which school uniform to wear every day.
I thought her love of beauty would be restrained, but I didn't expect it to get worse.
She recently took a fancy to my cosmetics and secretly put it on her face while I was away. Every time I see her cheeks flushed, I am angry and funny.
I repeatedly told her not to touch her mother's cosmetics, which are for adults. But she just wouldn't listen and kept asking why children used by adults can't use it, and why children can sometimes make up (performing, taking pictures and other special circumstances).
My daughter's "smelly beauty" is getting worse and worse, and it has developed to the point of unreasonable trouble. What should I do? I am desperate, too!
Later, after listening to my friend's advice and consulting a parenting expert, I finally found some good ways to solve my daughter's "smelly beauty" problem.
What should parents do?
1. Understand children's love of beauty.
Psychologically speaking, the sensitive period is a necessary process for children to grow up. When children reach a certain age, they are particularly interested in a certain field and form cognition. After successfully passing through the sensitive period, the child's psychological level will rise from one level to another.
3-year-old children begin to have aesthetic requirements for the environment, that is, enter the aesthetic sensitive period. Especially for girls, at this age, they will have a strong interest in their own clothes and suddenly have a lot of ideas about beauty. Psychological research shows that from the aesthetic sensitive period, girls will always be in a kind of exploration of beauty all their lives.
At this time, parents should never criticize and reprimand their children's love of beauty, so as not to satisfy their children's pursuit of beauty in the aesthetic sensitive period, and make them feel that exploring the world is a mistake, thus becoming timid and withdrawn, and no longer having the courage to explore the unknown world.
2. Give appropriate support
Love of beauty is one of the ways for children to explore the world.
By observing the people and things around them, children get a set of rules of beauty that belong to them, and then act according to these rules. For example, my daughter is so obsessed with skirts because all her beautiful sisters and aunts wear skirts.
Parents should support their children to explore the world bravely.
Even if you don't think you should buy too many new clothes for your children and encourage their bad habit of "bragging", you should support them to love beauty in other ways.
First of all, parents should respect their children's aesthetic needs, provide them with suitable items and give them the right to choose what to wear.
Parents should treat their children's "smelly beauty" behavior with a peaceful attitude. For example, in the face of children's "unreasonable" criticism on weekdays, try not to show negative emotions such as irritability in front of children, understand children's every need with heart, and help children in an appropriate way.
3. Guide children to establish a correct aesthetic view
Just because parents encourage their children to explore the world freely does not mean that they can grow up at will. Parents should give timely help and guidance to create a healthy growth environment for their children.
In the sensitive period of children's love of beauty, parents should guide their children to establish a correct aesthetic view and tell them what beauty is. However, many parents can't give a correct answer to the question "What is beauty", so they might as well explore a beautiful world with their children in reading.
The course of children's beauty
Suitable age: 8- 18 years old children and their parents.
Give children an education that never forgets beauty.
"Children's Beauty Course" is edited according to the masterpiece of the famous aesthete Li Zehou. Keep the content that is suitable for children to see and necessary for children to read, and have beautiful pictures. Tell the development of "beauty" in China's thousands of years of civilization with beautiful language and unique viewpoint, and present "beauty" clearly and concretely in front of children in an unprecedented way, so as to educate and appreciate children's beauty.
A comprehensive history of China art
With less than100000 words, The Course of Children's Beauty makes a detailed investigation of the 8000-year history of art development in China, involving hundreds of works of art, which run through painting, sculpture, architecture, literature, calligraphy and other art categories, and makes a detailed analysis and explanation of its rise and evolution in various times. It extends from art itself to the social, economic and political conditions of the times, and is a concise and comprehensive art history.
A concise aesthetic popular reading.
Teaching Children a Beautiful Lesson has beautiful and ingenious language and concise viewpoints, so that children can not only easily appreciate the beauty of ancient China art, but also be influenced by American literature. From the initial perception and understanding of "beauty" to the systematic absorption of artistic knowledge and spirit, children of different ages will have their own gains when reading.
More than a hundred pictures reproduce the classic charm
The Children's Beauty Course contains 100 pictures of ancient artworks, all of which are selected from The Complete Works of China Fine Arts. They reflect each other with words, restoring the classic brilliance and richness of ancient China art, making it easier for children to understand and accept, and greatly increasing the pleasure of reading.