First, every experience is a life experience.
I told my friend two days ago: If you haven't experienced the practice of ascetic monks, don't envy what others get. Yesterday, I received an invitation from the official WeChat account to include my article "Losing weight is the way to grow up in the face of inner fears" in his official WeChat account.
After adding WeChat, he said: I thought I was a little sister, but I'm not. No wonder I can write such a profound article. I said: Does this have anything to do with age? He said: This is very important. Some feelings cannot be written without experience.
Some things will not be known until you have experienced them, because only after experiencing those twists and turns will you understand what kind of life experience those facts will give you.
20 17- 18 studied dietotherapy, slimming and beautifying skin in the past two years. I didn't particularly like it, and I didn't make any money. Looking back on those two years, there was nothing visible but eating. The skin is not getting better, nor is the body getting better. Slimming has not found the trick once and for all. I gained weight, lost weight, and repeated it. After a long time, I lost my confidence in persistence and later switched to psychological counseling.
Second, thinking determines your life direction.
A friend said that it was his dream to be a writer to write a book, and then asked him deeply that being a writer can collect taxes and fees for a long time and realize financial freedom. He said that he finally didn't have to help others, depending on the boss's face, and he didn't have to deal with difficult interpersonal relationships anymore.
A person's thinking determines his behavior. If I want to write a book, I don't care about the income after I finish it, but I enjoy it and maybe give some inspiration to others. Then I write a valuable book. I can also help others with their work. I don't reject it. I can enjoy the sense of urgency to rush the performance and the sense of accomplishment with the team. And I can do what I like, and thank myself for having more choices. This time is precious.
After learning to engage in psychological counseling, I let go of the past, I enjoy the happiness of every day, and I look forward to a new day. Calm, directional and focused. Everything I do is what I want to do. Everyone I meet is a turning point in my growth and I want to know. I am no longer afraid of the trauma left by my family, and I can get along with people freely. I no longer regret those lost time, because those two years were boring, lazy, lonely and desperate; I made up my mind to solve my troubles for many years. From then on, I secretly made a promise to myself: you should live the rest of your life worthily.
Third, accumulation will eventually break out.
Su Shi said: Learning to be excellent makes an official. Every little makes a mickle, and my son will stop here!
What I have to do now is to keep a modest attitude, study patiently, learn the gap between myself and others, and thus generate my own small universe. I think in the past two years, they are valuable, and they all exist to make me grow into what I am today.
Experience is not a commodity. Experience cannot be bought, sold or exchanged. Experience is a brand, and it is a condition to guide individuals to choose and think. Experience is something that can't be empathetic, because different experiences will make different people have different life trajectories. Because in the vast sea of people, behind the thousands of faces, every lonely figure has a little-known story.
Sakyamuni said: No matter who you meet, it is no accident that he will appear in your life. He is sure to teach you something. I believe that no matter where I go, I should go, experience some things I should experience and meet the people I should meet.