After 50, after 70, I said it's not big, but it's not small. Life has turned for decades, but now the white hair is only increasing, and the wrinkles on the forehead are deeply crowded together, with a vicissitudes of life;
Once a young and beautiful face, tall and plump figure, now unconsciously turned into another look, what I saw in the mirror is no longer like my original self; Black, old and thin have all become the colors on their faces, and the slightly curved paragraphs make people feel that they are no longer young!
People born after 70, who are now over 50, are supposed to have retired to the second line, even if some children have already arranged; However, most people can't leave the burden on their shoulders because their children are unmarried or under the pressure of life. They are still fighting for a living and can't rest.
Many rural families have locked their doors and become empty yards. People have been away for many years and are called by their children to visit their grandchildren and live with them.
Aunt Ling helped their daughter to look after her granddaughter, and was ready to get out and go back to her hometown she missed, but many things were not as simple as imagined, and thinking and doing were completely different. Who knows that both daughters are teachers, and the conditions are good. Not only have they changed their new cars, but they are also preparing to have a second child. They wanted a boy, and the first child was a girl, so they gave birth to a boy, who was called away by her daughter.
She said she was helpless and had to follow them. She helps her eldest daughter to look after her grandson and her youngest daughter to look after her grandson. A few years later, she really became a free nanny for the children.
This is the reality, this is the world, this is the hard 70s, embarrassing 70s, helpless 70s, still trying, can't stop, you must learn to cross the river, and you will taste the sweetness of life!
Most people of this age are not relaxed. They are old and young. They take care of the elderly and discipline the children. They can't go up and down. The whole family, old and young, is exhausted and healthy. If a patient spreads at home, people will suffer and their quality of life will be poor.
Nowadays, many post-70s are all over the society and have become the main force of society. They are everywhere, and all walks of life, places and rural cities have left their hard footprints. Farming, building, breeding, or working outside the home have become their choices to challenge their lives;
For the sake of their families and the life they want, they can only work hard, sweat hard and work nonstop to get what they want in return. It's stressful.
The 1970s was a period of reform and opening up. At that time, society was not as developed as it is now, and information was blocked. People are conservative, outdated and lack of knowledge. Most of them stay at home to farm after graduating from junior high school and high school, few of them know how to work outside, and there is little information about working outside. Basically, I began to have the idea of working after middle age, and gradually integrated into society after leaving home. They have a low level of education and a weak foundation, so most of them don't have a high degree.
They go out early and come back late every day and work hard. The income they earn can't meet the expenses of their families. Their income is meager, but their consumption is great. No matter how hard and tired you are, you can't stop. Only by working hard can they keep up with the pace of society and not be eliminated by society. Even when you are old, you still have to travel hard.
50 years old and 70 years old, the pressure is great. The children get married, the RV is the premise, and there is no room. After talking about love for several years, it will come to an abrupt end, either breaking up or getting stiff, and the ending is not ideal. I have invested energy and money, but I am still single. My children are miserable and my parents are very sad.
The bride price can't meet the requirements of the woman, and there are still many cases where the bride price is beyond people's affordability, which makes the good thing of marriage a mess. It is also very common.
To get married early for your children, get up early and get greedy 360 days a year, save money to buy a house for your children, or pay off your mortgage. Only you know the hardships and bitterness.
The seventh census this year showed that the population of China exceeded 65.438+0.4 billion, with 34.9 million more men than women. What does this data show?
The imbalance between men and women means that more than 30 million men may be single, and the family burden of having a son is really not light!
Nowadays, many boys can't get married when they are around 30. Parents are worried, and everything else can help. This thing is really helpless and hurts their heads!
This is the reality of today's society. The bride price and the RV are indispensable, which makes people breathless. Only by hard work, hard work, no matter how much fruit you can bear in the future, it is possible to settle down.
Most of the children born after 70 are born after 90, and most of them are doing ordinary jobs in ordinary posts. Some jobs are still unstable and there is no savings. The monthly salary is "bare" and there is pressure to buy a house. Even if you change jobs, you should be considerate and dare not change at will.
How easy is it to buy a house without funds? It is unrealistic not to buy. Children have to turn to their parents for help. My parents built the house on their own piles, which was tall and big and beautifully decorated. What's the use? But what the child wants is the house where he works and the wedding room. Only in this way can he have the confidence to fall in love with that girl and create a superior living environment for future generations. No money, no room, talk for several years, and finally broke up. For the sake of children, after 50 and 70 years old, can you still rest and not worry? If you don't work hard, you can only toss and turn in bed at night. Can you sleep?
Once children get married and have children, parents still can't rest.
Parents of many families have been brought to the city by their children, and they have to stay with them to help take care of them for several years from the birth of their children to kindergarten.
Some mothers were taken away, leaving their fathers alone at home; Some of them have been taken away, and even if they can't get used to eating and drinking, they can't come out until their grandchildren officially go to preschool. For the sake of their children, it has become their task and necessity to let them go to work with peace of mind, reduce their burden and take care of their children.
No matter in urban or rural areas, you can see that 70-year-old people are still working and doing heavy manual work, especially rural people, who are still running their own "one acre and three points". What is this for?
People are rare until they are 70 years old. In the past years, 70 years old was considered as a long life. Few people can live to be 70 years old. However, society is progressing, and now people's quality of life is improving rapidly. 70 years old is very common. They are still in good health and have a lot of strength to do what young people do. They are not afraid of being tired or suffering, because most of them are for their children and the rest are for themselves. The point is.
I think it is more meaningful to live like this, which is a kind of happiness for them. It is precisely because they want to get rid of poverty, make their children's lives more comfortable and reduce their burden that they work hard;
Laziness has nothing to do with them, diligence is linked to them, and optimism and professionalism are their portrayal.
Now 50 years old and 70 years old, after half a century of ups and downs, life is not easy, no matter how hard it is, it will continue, which reminds me of the song "Start all over again":
All the honors of yesterday have become distant memories.
I worked hard for half my life and came back from the storm tonight.
I can't go with the flow, for my beloved family.
No matter how difficult it is, be strong, just for those who expect it. ...