On the road of life, who cares about you and gives you the most sincere care? Who tirelessly teaches and gives you selfless dedication? Who will worry about your trifles? This person is the mother. Motherly love is the most difficult feeling to give up in life!

In this world, I am most grateful to two people, one is my mother who gave me life and raised me with hardships, the other is my mother-in-law. The biological mother seems to owe her children in her last life, so it is right to give as much love as possible. My mother-in-law is different.

In the eyes of my colleagues, I am an enterprising and strong teacher at work; In the eyes of my family, I am full of sunshine and happiness. I have been very happy all these years. These successes and happiness have a lot to do with my mother-in-law who is not related to me by blood.

I am a foreigner. 1993, because of love, I married Lingbao thousands of miles away. I was working in the newly established experimental middle school. I just graduated from college and I am passionate about my career. I put all my enthusiasm into my work. In a foreign land, unfamiliar working environment, few friends, but also to adapt to language barriers and living habits. I am extremely depressed. The careful mother-in-law noticed this and treated me like a daughter on weekdays.

Especially for three meals a day, my mother-in-law cooks good food for me in different ways after work. Day after day, year after year. Whenever I come back from work, steaming food is already on the table, as well as my favorite fruit. After dinner, when I feel guilty about rushing to wash the dishes, she always says, don't get your clothes dirty, go and have a rest. Spring, summer, autumn and winter are still the same. Although my mother-in-law is old, there are many cracks on her fingers.

At that time, the new area was undeveloped and quite remote. At night, there are fewer pedestrians. There is a self-study in the evening, and my mother-in-law asks her husband to pick me up by bike. When I get home, I always see her standing at the door looking around. She always prepares hot water, cooks some supper and stews it in a pot. Usually we have to hide the dirty clothes we change. If we are not careful, my mother-in-law will find them and wash them, which makes me feel very uneasy. When the seasons change, my mother-in-law will buy me a coat and underwear in advance and put it quietly on my bedside. When I go back to my mother's house, my mother-in-law always buys gifts in advance and repeatedly reminds me to be careful on the road and not forget to say hello to my mother. Sometimes, whenever I make teaching AIDS or test papers at home, my mother-in-law feels sorry for me, so she wears reading glasses and helps me while chatting. When I was in a bad mood, she comforted and enlightened me and accompanied me shopping for fun. Even when my husband is busy with business and neglects to take care of me, she will remind me.

This is how my mother-in-law dotes on me and loves me. Whenever I think of these little things in my life, my eyes are blurred and I want to say something to my mother-in-law. Mom, thank you! ? And my mother-in-law always simply says: Nothing, you are all busy with your work. If I can move, I will do more.

1994, my father-in-law died of illness. My mother-in-law cried her eyes out, although she did her best during her father-in-law's illness. She still can't accept the sudden arrival of this moment. They are loving couples in life and good partners in work. When my father-in-law is busy at school, my mother-in-law carries the housework and children's education alone. This has not affected her work, her math scores have always been among the best, and the work of the class teacher is also in good order. Up to now, a large group of students still ask for help before the holidays.

I was pregnant when my mother-in-law was the most sad and desperate. My mother-in-law's heart finally had a vision again, and she put all her thoughts on me. Under the careful care of my mother-in-law, I live a fairy-like life. Of course, she didn't give up her career. She is a person who will never be idle. After retiring that year, her mother-in-law was rehired as the kindergarten director. Since then, my mother-in-law has started a difficult and fulfilling start.

1995, my son came into this world. I didn't have any parenting experience at that time, and my mother-in-law took the initiative to monopolize everything. She takes good care of me. She never lets me touch cold water. Cooking, washing milk, washing clothes and washing diapers are all hers. Even the bath water and the toothbrush water were mixed before I used them. I've been trying to cook good food for me all day.

On a hot summer day, she shuttles between the unit, the vegetable market, the supermarket, the kitchen, the laundry room, me and my son. As soon as my son passed one hundred days, I went to work and found a nanny. My mother-in-law will take time to go home several times. When her son grew up, she took the nanny and her son to work in kindergarten. I hardly thought about my son. Let me know when my mother-in-law has arranged it. My son lives with his mother-in-law after weaning. At night, my son wants to eat milk, pee and cry. My mother-in-law always closes the bedroom door quietly for fear of affecting our rest. Later, my son went to kindergarten, and every day I saw my mother-in-law busy picking up her grandson from work. I hardly picked him up.

Later, when her son went to elementary school, her mother-in-law quit her job in kindergarten and took her son to live on campus, becoming a full-time nanny. For six years, I didn't have to pick up and drop off my children every day, worry about their three meals a day, worry about their heat and cold, and worry about their homework.

My mother-in-law is also an artistic talent who can sing and dance and understand musical instruments. My son has been learning piano since he was six years old. Everyone knows the most important persistence and patience in practicing the piano. My husband and I are very busy and have no time to practice with our son. At best, we only appreciate and encourage him occasionally. My mother-in-law sparring for six years-21600 days. Every year except the Spring Festival, no matter how hot or cold, there is no rest for a day. In summer, my mother-in-law fanned her fan while tutoring; In winter, the mother-in-law warms her son's hands with a hot water bottle first, and it will warm up soon after practicing for a while. My son lived up to expectations. At the age of ten, he passed the tenth grade of piano and won the first prize in the piano competition organized by the city.

In the envy of everyone, my husband and I thrived and my son thrived. Who knows how much effort my mother-in-law has devoted to these successes? Every time I see my mother-in-law's growing silver hair, rickety figure and severe cough, my heart aches. I know, for this family, she is quietly overdrawing her life. Mother-in-law always says lightly:? As long as you have a good life, I will be fine!

Mother-in-law is actually an excellent educator with thoughts and pursuits. ? Purple laurel wood capacity? Who says it's not? When it comes to his children, she says nothing, but her heart is full of sweetness. His eldest son graduated from Tongji University and now serves as President and General Manager of Corning Greater China. After graduating from Kunming University, my daughter took the TOEFL test to study in the United States, became an American citizen and founded an insurance company. Her youngest son, my husband, is also versatile, smart, hardworking and kind, and has his own hard-working career; Not to mention my son, smart, generous, enthusiastic and diligent, with tradition and modernity in his bones, proficient in various musical instruments and fluent in standard English; And I, under the influence of my mother-in-law for more than 20 years, have achieved remarkable results and been commended by the state, provinces and cities many times. Mother-in-law is edifying and educating everyone around her with her spirit of striving for perfection and setting an example. There is a famous saying called. Is it near Zhu Zhechi? I fully understand the meaning of mother-in-law's sentence. Mother-in-law is the best teaching material and the embodiment of truth, goodness and beauty.

Since my son entered junior high school, my husband and I have been working smoothly. My mother-in-law can finally have her own living space. She also plays the afterheat in Qiu Jin apartment, and organizes old friends to sing, dance, practice empty axis and learn Tai Chi. Mother-in-law is a warm-hearted person and will not be idle. Old people in Qiu Jin apartment regard her as a caring person. Although we don't live together now, her heart still cares about us all the time. After a while, she will come to clean our yard and bring some steamed buns, jiaozi, vegetables and so on. If the weather changes slightly, she will call us in time to remind us to add clothes. Especially for a while, my mother-in-law came to my house and went on a business trip for a few days, and she moved down to take care of my mother and son. After coming back, my mother said, if your mother-in-law has been living here, I can't live for a day. ? I asked doubtfully: What happened? Mom said:? She won't let me do anything every day. She cooks three meals in a variety of ways. She won't let me wash dishes, sweep the floor, wash clothes, take out the garbage or take me out to the park or go shopping. I really can't stand it. ? I smiled and said: My mother-in-law is such a person, and I have long been used to it. ? . Mom said again:? I used to think that you married so far because you were afraid of being wronged. I am really relieved to see your mother-in-law. You were really lucky in your last life. You must be filial to such a good mother-in-law ? I smiled proudly for a long time.

This is my mother-in-law, my second mother, an ordinary woman who is sincere, kind, hardworking, capable, enthusiastic, tolerant, selfless, never tired and never unassuming.

Motherly love is long-lasting. Over the years, I feel that even the greatest poet can't write poetry, and the most beautiful music can't express it incisively and vividly. But I know that in these lost years, my mother-in-law has always regarded me as her own daughter, and I have long regarded her as my favorite mother, enjoying her endless maternal love. I also know that these years are worth remembering from time to time, and it is worth appreciating and cherishing all my life!

Mother-in-law, I know you are still kind to me, and I also know that no matter how long the article is and how gorgeous the language is, you can never express your love for us. I know that we have done very little, less than one thousandth of what you have paid for us; I know. Tell me more, okay? Thank you? I can't express my gratitude to you. In fact, when I finished writing this article, I was already in tears. Now I just want to take a deep bow to you and say what I have said in my heart for countless times? Mom, I love you, thank you! If there is an afterlife, I still want to be your wife?

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