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202 1 1 In late February, the Korean love variety "Being Single is Hell" became an instant hit, which also brought fire to one of the female guests, Song Zhiya.

Even if you haven't seen variety shows, you should brush her scissors on various platforms.

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At the beginning of the program, she successfully created a "drag sister" with the phrase "the male guests here are not my ideal type" and ushered in a wave of female fans.

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When introducing herself, she also said that no matter which woman she met, she was confident that she could beat her.

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At first glance, it seems cool, and another group of netizens are fascinated.

Her various "sober remarks", high coquettish and hot figure are displayed with ease in the program.

As she said, Song Zhiya did appear on the program.

So that at the end of the program, when two female guests are faced with the embarrassing situation that no one can choose, Song Zhiya can choose one of the three.

In a word, Song Zhiya not only made the men on the show compete to date her, but also won the hearts of countless girls outside the show.

Subsequently, the "Song Zhiya Wind" became popular on the Internet:

Beauty bloggers are scrambling to start making "Song Zhiya Imitation Makeup";

"Song Zhiya wears" from time to time on social apps;

There are also emotional bloggers who analyze her "quotations from beheading men" and "love cheats" ...

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For a time, it seems that by imitating her makeup, learning how to dress up and understanding her "art of controlling men", we can reap the independent design of "Everyone Song Zhiya".

In just a few days, Song Zhiya won millions of fans.

Some media even reported that Song Zhiya quoted 600,000 yuan for an advertisement on social software, and the brand endorsement fee rose to between 2 million and 2.5 million yuan.

Song Zhiya also took this opportunity to quickly become a new network celebrity, and boarded the hot search in Weibo for three transgressions and five times, and the scenery was infinite for a time.

However, the good times did not last long, and her "perfection" suddenly collapsed.

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One of the reasons for Song Zhiya's explosion is the perfect human design she created in the hearts of girls, and one of the reasons for her rollover is the collapse of human design.

She wears brand-name clothes on the show; Photos posted on social networking sites also highlight luxury logos everywhere.

This makes the audience think that she is a standard white person.

However, after a netizen broke the news, the design of Song Zhiya's rich and beautiful people collapsed.

It turns out that most of her so-called luxury goods are fakes.

So many netizens began to believe that Song Zhiya was trying to disguise herself as a self-loving rich woman from beginning to end.

Song Zhiya, the "King of Love" in the program, is full of charm and popularity.

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After three male guests showed their love to her, she finally chose Hien Kim Middle School.

Zhong said at the time that he would "protect her like a puppy".

However, when Song Zhiya overturned the car, Hien Kim took it down at the first time, and beheading didn't seem to work.

It took only 30 days for Song Zhiya to be sought after by everyone and rejected by others.

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Only one month, from peak to trough.

Song Zhiya's comments began to reverse at 180 degrees, and magical things happened one after another.

All her previous qualities, called hard work, sobriety and loveliness, were changed and reversed overnight:

Maintaining the restraint of 42kg weight all the year round has become the chief culprit in misleading women to lose weight morbidly.

Love cheats praised by netizens have become a sample of flattering men and women.

What used to be "my sister is so sober and dragging" has become "an ugly woman who is so vain that even her fingernails are fake"

Everyone once loved her, but after the lie was exposed, she fell flat on the ground while waiting, where anyone could step on it.

In fact, we haven't seen enough ways to create and destroy God.

So I'm not surprised.

But if you think about it carefully, it's actually not a very important thing for her to wear fake goods, but why did it trigger a chain reaction and instantly turn her originally praised advantages into her fault?

In psychology, there is a concept called confirmation bias.

In short, we always tend to see what we want to see and believe what we want to believe.

When we agree with a point of view, our brain will continuously and selectively look for evidence to prove our point of view, and at the same time, it will selectively ignore and ignore evidence to prove our mistake.

Buffett also said: "Humans are best at filtering new information in this way, so that the existing explanations are still valid."

Here's an example:

A boy wants to lose weight. He eats some kind of diet food and weighs himself on the weighing scale every morning.

If he finds himself lighter than yesterday, he will smile and attribute the result to the success of losing weight.

If he gains weight, he takes it as a normal fluctuation and forgets it.

He lived in this illusion for several months and thought that some diet foods were very useful, although his weight remained basically the same.

The boy's belief is that this diet food is effective. Even if you gain weight or stay the same, you will selectively ignore it, and when you lose weight, this belief is more firm.

This kind of confirmation deviation is ridiculous to onlookers, because with the time dimension and weight data, the evidence of whether this diet food is useful to him is clear at a glance.

However, the authorities are fascinated, and each of us has a tendency to confirm mistakes, but under what circumstances, the degree is strong or weak.

For example, when we like someone, everything on TA looks so cute. And once we don't like TA, the shortcomings of TA seem to increase several times at once.

Just like those netizens treated Song Zhiya.

In this carnival of coronation and beheading, Song Zhiya was just a "tool man" who was open to comment.

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Intensive reading of the entry "Confirmation Error" in Scout Common Sense Dictionary;

Confirmation deviation is the father of all thinking deviations.

Any knowledge has a half-life, long or short, and once we adhere to all our current theories, world views and beliefs, our cognitive deviation will increase with the passage of time.

In other words, the confirmation deviation stops our knowledge system from metabolizing, which leads to more and more thinking errors.

However, facts will not disappear because they are ignored. Selective neglect does not change this fact.

If we want to change the confirmation deviation, the first thing to do is to correctly identify the facts.

As the book Deviation says: The choice of any correct viewpoint must be based on facts.

Both established facts and new facts that we constantly discover in the process of promoting decision-making should be considered in our judgment.

Instead of turning a deaf ear to everything else after identifying one point of view.

Use a sentence in the book to think with everyone:

"Each of us has the right to have our own opinions, but we have no right to have our own facts."

* * * Encourage.