From the love list, Xiuer is a folk princess who has been spoiled by her parents since childhood. She is beautiful, generous, kind and a good girl. No wonder Zhu Kaishan and his wife like this child. However, Xiu Xiu in love is really likable, and Xiu Xiu in love is really selfish and stubborn. I didn't like Xianer before, but Xiuer is more annoying than Xianer's reserve and forbearance. ?
Xiuer is disgusting, but it also makes people feel distressed. In love, she loves too lowly, which makes people feel distressed and cruel. There is a feeling of mourning her misfortune and anger. Lisa grew up in the hands of her parents like a little princess. She is afraid of falling into her hand and melting in her mouth. In Han Laohai's words, her parents are obedient to Satan? You can eat anything you want except dragon liver and chicken gall. The love for my daughter is evident.
However, Xiuer, who is so spoiled and well-fed, has not grown into a child with a sound personality, but has developed a very stubborn personality, especially in front of feelings. As long as she likes it, she must get it, which is very obvious in Xiuer's various pursuits of martial arts.
She likes to preach martial arts and then pay attention to all kinds of things. She gave martial arts what she thought was good, sewing insoles, embroidering purses, helping Zhujiajian do work and so on. She does everything to please men, but she is not tempted to preach martial arts. While giving love to martial arts, Xiuer only considers her own feelings, regardless of whether what she gives is what martial arts need.
It is also distressing to be so infatuated in the eyes of parents. Han Laohai gave her advice to make her laugh, because her old father Han Laohai has a daughter's smile, which is more beautiful than anything in the world. In order to achieve her daughter's wish, Han Laohai regarded herself as the best thing and gave it to Chuanwu. Sa listened to her father's words, and then laughed at Sichuan Wu until Sichuan Wu was afraid. She began to cry again. She questioned the martial arts? I can't laugh or cry. What do you want from me? What Sa doesn't understand is that Chuanwu doesn't like her, and whether she laughs or cries, it won't make him really care.
Even so, Sa didn't wake up. Doesn't she know that Brother Chuan Wu doesn't like her? Don't! She knows, but there is no way to overcome her possessiveness and stubbornness, then irrigate water with crops, and finally force Chuanwu to marry herself. Sa's side happily became a bride, while Chuanwu would rather tell a story for one night than touch her on their wedding night, and eloped with Xianer at dawn. ?
After that, Xiuer began to live the life of a grass widow, day after day, year after year, until Yushu found that Xiuer slept with a pillow in martial arts clothes every night. Yushu is distressed by Xiuer, and both of them are crying. But who can blame this? Is it strange to preach martial arts? Xiuer likes martial arts, but it happens that martial arts don't like Xiuer. Martial arts never gave her any promise or hope. From beginning to end, it was Sa's wishful thinking. Who can blame this?
After marriage, Xiuer can choose to remarry or divorce, but she doesn't. She would rather leave her old parents in Niugou and follow Zhu Jiajian. She really can't blame others for her tragedy, but herself or her parents. She likes Xiuer too much since she was a child and has developed a stubborn character. It is the root of tragedy to be so persistent about what you can't get.
If parents hadn't spoiled Xiuer so much since childhood, if Han Laohai had persuaded and guided her instead of adding fuel to the fire, maybe Xiuer wouldn't have such a tragedy later. Xiuer's tragedy also gives us some enlightenment. It is said that daughters should be raised well, but true happiness is not only material satisfaction and educational obedience, but also knowing how to prune redundant branches. Correct guidance is the key!