1. In today's society, both men and women are more independent and love is beautiful, but there are many temptations in today's society. I used to be slow, and I only loved one person in my life. Nowadays, the traffic is heavy and the material is supreme. If love is gone, we can continue to look for it in the vast sea of people, but if our career and work are gone, what can we talk about love?
Now both men and women are very realistic. Many male friends, when choosing love, mostly consider whether this love or marriage will bring him hidden returns, or better status, power and interpersonal relationships.
True love needs equality, that is to say, your qualifications, skills and looks are similar to your other half. Maybe in the period of passionate love, you will think that these are not important, but when you get closer to marriage, you will find that the idea of being suitable for each other is right, because the love combination of two people also means the integration of their families. If the strength of the two sides is very different, it is easy to breed contradictions for a long time. With career, we will have a foothold, and love will come slowly, so I think social career is more important than love now.
Share an example around you.
My junior high school female classmate, this girl is very beautiful, is the flower of the class. Later, she went to college. After graduating from college, she lived with her boyfriend and never worked. Her boyfriend told her that she earned more than 2000 yuan by going out to work anyway, and girls never work without that money.
After getting married, she became a full-time nanny. Her husband wouldn't let her go out to work, so she took care of the children at home and never went out to work. Then one morning, she sent her children back to kindergarten and found that her husband had hanged himself in the bedroom at home.
On the day of her husband's suicide, she also received many debt collection calls. After the husband left, the living helped clean up the mess, and the husband's parents and their own parents helped pay off the debts. She had to go out to work and buy auto insurance, starting from scratch.
I have been divorced from the workplace and society for many years. If there are risks at home, the worst thing is to leave home cleanly and find a new job. In terms of energy and experience, I lost far to young people.
Summary: In the face of love and career, I will choose career. Because career is the most important part of our life, it can make us realize our values and dreams. Although love is also important, it is only a part of our life. If we lose ourselves in love, then we will lose our direction and goal.