(1) Wei Wei's point of view
To put it bluntly, if it weren't for the broadcast of Goodbye Lovers, it is estimated that many people don't know that there is such a "giant baby" middle-aged man who doesn't know. So what words and opinions of Wei Wei have aroused everyone's dissatisfaction?
That is, when Wei Wei was eating, she commented on her wife's care: "On the surface, it seems that she is taking care of me, but in fact I am trying to get her to take care of me."
How to explain this sentence? It's Vivian who thinks everyone has misunderstood him. He didn't deliberately accept Tong Chenjie's care, but he thought that life would be meaningless if Tong Chenjie didn't take care of him. Therefore, in order to make Tong Chenjie's life meaningful, he chose to accept Tong Chenjie's care, and he was accommodating her.
2 Tong Chenjie's helplessness.
In the face of her husband's wonderful speech, Tong Chenjie, as his wife, showed a face of helplessness. Although it is natural for a wife to take care of her husband, people also pay attention to the same treatment. Even if Tong Chenjie really gets a sense of accomplishment from taking care of others, why can this person be Wei Wei?
Tong Chenjie will take care of you, Vivian. After all, she loves you so much that she takes care of you like this? If she doesn't love you, then taking care of others will have a sense of accomplishment. It is better to be a nurse or nanny. Why give you a free job in Wei Wei?
Only this time, Tong Chenjie was willing to save face for Wei Wei and didn't refute him.
(3) Ni Ping did not have an attack.
After hearing such a wonderful speech, all the guests, like Tong Chenjie, showed a helpless smile. As the highest guest on the coffee table, Ni Ping will not comment for the time being, criticizing Wei Wei's "giant baby" remarks, only saying that Wei Wei wants to give an example to illustrate the situation, otherwise he will be regarded as talking nonsense.
Wei Wei was a little worried when he saw that everyone didn't believe his speech, so he made the following blockbuster speech.
I made a meal. What did she do?
Tong Chenjie often cooks at home, while Weiwei never cooks. Wei Wei excused herself for this: "What will she do if I cook?" This sentence directly silenced everyone. How can someone give such an example?
Then can we also take this example: if we don't go to work, the boss will lose his job? If we don't throw garbage, what will the sanitation workers do? Such an example is very unreasonable. Only Wei Wei immediately explained: "She is fine."
I gave her a sense of accomplishment.
Wei Wei's speech puzzled almost all the guests, probably just like Ni Ping: it was the first time I heard such a brazen speech.
In fact, to put it bluntly, everyone has their own pursuits and ideals, and no one wants to stay at home and do repetitive work all the time. If Tong Chenjie doesn't need to cook, she can have more time to do yoga or find something she wants to do.
But Wei Wei spoke surprisingly: "She has no sense of accomplishment."
The implication is that if Tong Chenjie does something for him, he will feel a sense of accomplishment. After seeing this, it really makes people angry why he is so thick-skinned. And this kind of speech is like giving alms to beggars, and it is a gift to agree with Tong Chenjie to take care of him. As everyone knows, he is not an emperor or a general, so he has such a big face to enjoy the care of others.
Wei Wei's speech really aroused everyone's dissatisfaction and made many people feel bad about Tong Chenjie. No one thought that her lover would be a "giant baby".
Tong Chenjie: I can rest now.
In fact, Wei Wei must have hit some of Tong Chenjie's ideas. We can see from Tong Chenjie's past speeches that she is really good at taking care of people, and she is willing to take care of people. Therefore, she also wants to have children and be a good mother.
So I believe that when Wei Wei and Tong Chenjie got along privately, Tong Chenjie must have said something similar, that is, it's a good thing I'm by your side, otherwise what would you do? But some words can be said in private, but if they are said in public, will Tong Chenjie lose face? Therefore, Tong Chenjie also retorted: "I can rest."
It is estimated that when Tong Chenjie sees Wei Wei's well-founded remarks here, he will regret why he followed him.
(1) Ni Ping: It's the first time I heard this view.
Ni Ping also expressed his point of view, directly sarcastically: "I lived to be 60 years old and heard this view for the first time."
On the surface, Ni Ping is saying that his knowledge is not extensive enough, but in fact, people who live to 60 have never seen any news. I'm sure I've experienced some rough seas. So her implication is that Wei Wei's views are too outrageous and brazen, which are rare in the world!
It is worth mentioning that the screenwriter Ye Qingcheng was also shocked after watching this program, and then said that Wei Wei's point of view was similar to "If I don't sweep the floor, won't the cleaner lose his job?" This shameless remark. In fact, people who can say such things are essentially "giant babies" and don't know it.
What about people like Wei Wei? How to prevent yourself from becoming a "giant baby" like Wei Wei? I just hope everyone can understand that people are expensive and have self-knowledge.
Find out how much you weigh, so that you can better accept the attitude and service of others. And if you don't know your weight, it's easy to become a "giant baby" without knowing it.