The most serious place in colleges and universities is the library.
The scene of the involution war is like this:
Some students get up at 7 o'clock, some at 6 o'clock, or even at 5 o'clock in the morning, vowing to be the first person to enter the library.
I will have a loaf of bread for lunch, and I won't leave my seat until the closing bell rings at night.
The librarian has only study in his mind.
The involution is inseparable from one word: competition.
Competition is the norm, but when it develops to the point where you always want to compare with others, your initial heart may change.
Self-confident to join the club with their own skills, there are many people who used to be powerful; Near graduation, I found that some people have more certificates and experiences on their resumes; If you want to engage in scientific research, some people will send more papers with better quality;
As a result, more and more college students are forced to get involved. They are afraid that they will fall behind and be forced to move forward because of the environment. They think [I must be better than them to succeed].
The fundamental and deeper reason is that they have no plan for the future and no sense of direction. So we can only blindly and passively accept the values output by the external environment:
"Winning a scholarship is success", "Being admitted to a graduate school is success" and "Being in the world's top 500 companies or big Internet companies is success"
College students who have no plans for the future can only go with the flow and work hard in the direction that the public thinks is better, but often only a few people succeed. On the contrary, for college students who have a clear plan for the future, they will only care about whether the direction of their efforts is biased, whether today is a little better than yesterday, and never care about the pace of others.
First of all, make clear the future direction and plan well. Ask yourself what kind of person you really want to be, set your own goals and work towards them.
1 Reasonable good goals are more useful than 10 intuitive goals. Sometimes the goal is not completed, not that you are not good enough, but that there is something wrong with the set goal.
The director suggested that students can use the SMART principle to set goals.
Second, adjust the mentality.
. When comparing people who are better than you face to face, refuse anxiety. What he showed was what he wanted others to see. You can think about whether you are better than him in some ways. Give full play to your strengths, you are not lazy or backward than him.
Third, find a learning model that suits you.
Everyone has his own learning rhythm. Some people like to memorize, while others like to understand. Blindly following others may be counterproductive, and Xueba's learning style will definitely suit you.
To find a suitable learning method, we must first know ourselves and choose a learning method according to our own characteristics.
If you are impatient, you can take turns studying for half an hour and one hour, and then you need to find the most efficient time period. For example, memorizing words at night is the fastest, so choose self-study at night.
4. Blindly involution can only become internal friction. Involution can bring competitiveness, make you make a qualitative leap, and also make you stop at ineffective consumption.
It is said that all roads lead to Rome and 360 lines lead to the champion. The road of life should not only be "involuted", and the values worthy of recognition should not only be "high". It is the ability that contemporary college students should have to explore the road that suits them best.