Women are beautiful as flowers, soft as water and weak as willows ... Women are affectionate, subtle and hardworking ... Women make men sweet and crazy, children are stable and happy, and the elderly are practical and comfortable ... Women are the harbor for men when they are tired, the arm for children when they are cold, and the reliance for the elderly when they are sick! Women gather all the aura and essence between heaven and earth, making the world so colorful and sunny!
However, it is this woman who combines many pressures and titles, always secretly crying behind her affectionate feelings, often sighing behind her subtle feelings, but dragging her tired body behind her efforts. ...
Women love beauty, but they can only hide their clothes in the cupboard and look at the mirror and feel sorry for themselves! Because the dress is too out of line, others will think that she is flashy, attracts bees and butterflies, doesn't like work, and has no ink on her chest!
Women love to laugh, but they can only stop laughing. Pear blossoms bring rain, euphemistically and implicitly! Because her behavior is too bold, others will think that she is careless, lacking gentleness, not ladylike enough and not attractive!
Women are affectionate, but they can only bury a wisp of acacia in their hearts, face it indifferently and don't care! Because her feelings are too warm, others will think that she is frivolous, dissolute, romantic and unstable!
Women are lonely, but they can only sigh at the moon with a few wisps of carefree sorrow and weep silently, wet dream! Because her heart is too lonely, others will think that she is a brooding boudoir, boring, empty and lonely, vulgar!
Women are strong, but they can only be passionate. Marriage is unfortunate and love is blocked! Because her ability is too strong, others will think that she is aloof, rude, without emotional appeal and taste!
Women are a beautiful scenery, but also a critical picture for everyone! Beautiful and admirable; Ordinary, talk about things; Fashion, fresh and incomparable; Simple, tired of giving up! So they pursue beauty and perfection! Beauty beauty, lose weight, shuttle shopping malls, keep up with fashion ... Busy! Just to get a compliment, admiration and appreciation from those who please themselves!
Women are men's harbors, but if they are not careful, they will become their past post stations! Men's feelings are like a surging river, but they are usually let go. Faced with the colorful temptation in the rolling world of mortals, they are easy to give up the past and find new love; However, women's feelings are like a trickle, flowing quietly. Once you get into it, you will open your heart and treat it with true feelings. They often insist on their own stupidity, manage with heart, and have no regrets. Their nostalgia will never change, even if they are scarred and gaunt!
Women are the warmth of the family, but their faces will gradually age in the years of tempering! Men work hard outside and come home with delicious hot tea, delicious meals, neat furnishings and clean clothes ... they are comfortable and warm! Occasionally I will be moved, and occasionally I will surprise my wife myself! But women have been doing the same things for a long time, repeating the same housework, disciplining naughty children at school, and serving the elderly at home ... These things seem to be born for women and are women's patents and privileges. Others don't need to intervene and share ... On the other hand, they have jobs like men in Otawa, with heavy work and great pressure. They are also shouldering heavy burdens, and no one is allowed to make any mistakes. In the torrent of time, their faces are no longer beautiful, their eyes are no longer stretched, their hands are no longer delicate, and their long hair is no longer elegant. ...
Women are so tired, but they can't be said to be tired, because they are not qualified ... Men's work is called career, and women's work can only be called rice bowl; Men can enjoy themselves at home, because they are men and are tired outside. When they get home, they need a harbor, and women are tired after work. Even in the special physiological period, they still do everything as usual and don't want to cook anything. If you don't want to wash clothes, you are lazy and not virtuous enough.
After marriage, men's social activities are still very extensive, including classmates, friends of colleagues, friends who drink and play chess, and netizens. They all get together, get together and take a sauna. Even if the lights are on, it can be regarded as a normal range of communication and work for men. Once a woman gets married, she steps into a thick besieged city, isolated from the world, and almost all her former classmates and social friends are lost. Apart from their work, they basically have no private social circle and free breathing space, and only rely on music to precipitate their inner loneliness and sadness in the dead of night, and secretly shed a few strings of sad tears in the lonely corner;
Men can drink karaoke outside until midnight, it is normal to accompany customers and leaders, and women who don't go home late at night are crazy and unruly; Men can enjoy their passion when drinking, even if they are drunk, stagger and talk nonsense, it is also a sign of men, while if women are dizzy and unconscious, it is indecent, offensive, humiliating and even a lifelong regret. ...
Men can be upgraded to the role of father overnight, and they glow even more red. With the growth of age, extensive contacts and successful career, the charm of mature men becomes more and more obvious. Once a woman gives birth to a child, she has experienced the wind, frost, rain and snow in October and careful gestation, and her physiological system and whole body function are undergoing tremendous changes. She is always worried that her figure will go out of shape, her face will grow spots, and various gynecological diseases will also bother her, and women will suddenly change. The face is instantly aging and the mood is vicissitudes. As a result, individual women lose their jobs and become full-time housewives, circling around children and pots and pans all day. The once innocent girl suddenly turned into a yellow-faced woman who was unkempt and unkempt. As time goes on, many diseases follow, and premature aging is common. At the beginning, her passion, romance and delicate feelings for her husband also decreased, so her husband lost the freshness and pleasure of her previous love.
A man can find a woman he likes outside marriage, which is at best an episode in his life and a manifestation of his ability and charm. And if a woman occasionally has a soul mate or emotional support, it is immoral and morally bankrupt! Not to mention extramarital affairs ... If a man wants a divorce, he can find a beautiful young girl who still owns a house and assets, is still the father of a proud and decent child, still leads a chic life and has a beautiful career; If a woman divorces, she may lose her nest and leave a clean home. She is regarded as an unlucky divorced woman, whose value will be doubled soon, and she has to face the eyes of the world. If she can't even get custody of the child, the child will eventually grow up and hate or even deny this failed and selfish mother who didn't raise him. ...
Women are always just women! Woman, your name is weakness! Women are always the disadvantaged groups in society. Women's difficulties are beyond words, women's sufferings are beyond words, and women's tiredness is beyond words!
In the complicated world of mortals, stupid women, crazy women, nostalgic women, painful women, aging women, physically and mentally exhausted women, the most vulnerable women ... not that men are not tired, men are not stupid, men are not bitter, men are not good enough, but in such a society where people are very open but their consciousness is still very traditional. In such a secular view, women are indeed.
Maybe we can't generalize, maybe we shouldn't be so pessimistic, maybe women's names are very strong, maybe the roles of men and women will be completely transposed one day, maybe most women can put aside the secular world and face it indifferently, and our life is still wonderful! But these are just possibilities ... maybe we are all happy, but happiness is always accompanied by sadness! The long road of life, only when we have tasted the ups and downs, can we become stronger and write a more colorful chapter of life!
I wish all men can be considerate of the women around them (their wives and mothers). True feelings are hard to find, happiness is fragile! If you have good feelings, you must grasp them and cherish each other! Here, I wish all women in the world can have beautiful dreams, always keep a young mind, take the happy train and sail for a better future!
I have seen many traditional women lose themselves, their families, their freedom and their happy marriages in the secular world. I want to send this article to women who are working hard for their families, their lives and their feelings. I hope everyone can live a good life, live a wonderful life and get happiness! )