I was moved in an instant and put down my mobile phone. I thought about it for a long time.
Have I really tried?
Today, I thought about this question again and got the answer:
I really haven't tried it for so many years.
Some people say that this sentence should be added with an attribute:
Never worked hard in the right direction.
I denied this evaluation.
No, I really haven't tried, not in any direction.
Some people say,
Look at your peers, brush Weibo and Tik Tok, stay up late, eat big fish and meat, smoke and drink, and eat Haisai.
For so many years, you go to bed early and get up early, exercise for three hours, and have a body that most peers envy. Isn't that hard work?
I don't think it counts. I just did something I like, and I am happy to be deeply involved in what I like.
Before 20 17, it will rely heavily on motorcycles, with an average of less than 2000 steps per day. I don't like doing any outdoor sports, I don't like traveling, I just like staying indoors for fitness.
If a person only does what he likes and never challenges or tries what he doesn't like, is he trying? Will he get real growth and progress if he doesn't try something unknown and doesn't like to do?
Some people say:
Five years after graduation, your salary will increase tenfold, which will increase your ability rather than take advantage of opportunities. Isn't that hard work?
At work, it took me some time to find the right position. I have been on the road to training for five years. Although there are some gains, it is still far from what I want to achieve.
Step by step in the workplace, with my cleverness. With certain knowledge, accumulated experience, interview skills, rules of survival in the workplace, and the growth of age, I got the income due to this class. But I am still a member of 80% of the infrastructure of this class, not as good as 20% of the superstructure.
But there is a bottleneck in intelligence, and it is difficult to become a climate.
Where have I really worked hard? In the first four years of my career, I didn't know what it was like to work overtime. I am also complacent that my previous company never worked overtime.
I just came to Beijing and interviewed everywhere. I met an education and training institution focusing on academic upgrading. At that time, this institution was in the development stage. In February this year, it successfully rang the bell on the new york Stock Exchange and listed in the US stock market. This is Suntech Group. The HR notification work is very fast, basically working overtime until the afternoon 10.
At that time, I directly rejected HR, saying that I still wanted to have my own life rather than work.
It's ridiculous to see yourself in the past. As an adult, an independent social individual, an age that should be responsible for family and oneself, what can you live without hard work?
Some people say that maybe you are asking too much of yourself. So many people choose a simple life, or become civil servants, and live a relaxed and comfortable life in third-and fourth-tier cities. Everyone thinks it's good. And you chose to come to a crowded city from the beginning, with a busy pace of work and life.
In fact, I am not demanding myself at all, because everyone has greed.
What I am greedy for is not the comfortable life, but the warm and free life and the ubiquitous resources and opportunities in this big city, so I made the choice I liked and thought was right, and they just made the choice they liked.
It's a pity that I didn't cherish the opportunities and resources here and wasted my time on the pretext of my maverick personality.
Life can't be compared like this, life can only be compared with yourself. When have you ever compared yourself?
Compared with yourself in the past, ask yourself today whether you have become better than yourself in the past, get rid of wrong habits and overcome your shortcomings. Work harder, be more tolerant of people and things, and know more about the world.
Compared with your ideal self, ask yourself today if you have exchanged your heart for a promise to pursue a set goal.
There are many hard-working people around us.
Cherry set a goal for herself at the age of 25. Stretch the whole body ligament for one month.
She did, and a month later, she opened all the forks. I spend my spare time in leg press every day. Often bite my teeth and cry in pain. I said, don't you care about yourself? She said: I used to be a lazy and cowardly person, not cool at all. At that time, I thought, if I could do this, I would feel like a hero.
Pomegranate has finished the heavy work, and it is close to midnight after work. But as a slash youth, she went home and continued to work, sleeping only four or five hours a day and doing her own small business. She didn't sleep a wink for two days and one night. With years of continuous efforts, she managed her small business in good order. But she played down all this and said that she was just a very lucky person.
Luck. What is luck? A serious bird, facing the light of the sun, flapped and strengthened its wings desperately, and the wind helped it fly.
Don't say that life has not achieved the expected goal, but that there is a lack of someone who appreciates you, an opportunity to dance with the wind, and a platform to follow suit. In fact, what is lacking is hard work. To be precise, we should work hard in the right direction, and to be precise, we should make unremitting efforts in the right direction.
Life is an excuse for the weak, and luck is a modest word for the strong. Perseverance and self-restraint.
Don't pretend to work hard, and don't always drink hard chicken soup. What is chicken soup? Those who cook in a down-to-earth manner eat chicken bones, and the remaining soup splashes on your face. At that moment, you felt awake.
However, the truly sober people are those who cook in a down-to-earth manner.
I haven't opened my ligaments for a month, stayed up for two days and one night for work, and cooked practically. I didn't do my duty to my family, I didn't take life seriously, I didn't do my filial piety to my parents, I didn't protect my brothers and sisters, I didn't take care of my body, I didn't even retain my love, and I didn't fight for the person I liked.
Be brave after knowing shame, and God helps those who help themselves. You and I must work hard to achieve our goals, for example, we can lose weight successfully, for example, we can be with people you like, for example, we can double our income, for example, we can buy a suite in your favorite city, for example, you can help more people realize their wishes.
This is probably the best punishment for myself who supported and hesitated in the past.
Soon, I hope that when I ask myself this question again, we will laugh and say:
Well, I tried,
Good luck to you too.