For example, things can't be said before they are done, and once they are said, they often can't be done; Obsessed with two options, the one that is not selected is always correct; Something is missing, and you can't find it anywhere. Once you are ready to give up, it will appear. ? Just throw away what you haven't used for a long time, and it won't be long before you find yourself needing it; ? When waiting in line, your team is always slower than the team next to you. Once you stand in another team, the original team suddenly becomes faster than the current team. Lucky to go out without an umbrella, it will rain that day; ? When Su Yan is out, she often meets the last person you want to see. ? The bus didn't come, just when you got on the bus, it came; ? When there is no seat on the bus, there is always no one to get off next to where you are standing ... and my daughter goes to primary school and goes to work every day, occasionally sneaking out to pick up her daughter. It doesn't matter if you don't go out. As soon as she goes out, the leader will find you something.
This is the living Murphy's law in life, and you can't escape its spell.
Why is there such a magical thing? Why do so many bad things happen when you are worried?
Murphy's Law tells us that the more we worry, the more things will happen. For example, if you are afraid of being asked in class, you will often be asked. Doing something wrong for fear of being discovered is often really discovered. So don't worry about things you don't want to happen when things don't happen, because your worry is actually a psychological hint, a preset scene, which will make you pay more attention to the results you don't want to see, so that only when there are clues, you will infinitely enlarge the recognition and confirmation of it, which will lead to the more you worry, the more likely it will happen.
In fact, Murphy's law is a psychological effect. The main reason for this effect lies in psychological suggestion. If you pay too much attention to one thing, its influence will expand infinitely.
Not a good thing, but a bad thing. In fact, the main reason is that we are always impressed by the occurrence of bad things, and most of the good things that happen are ignored by us.
Because of this, when we remember more and more bad things and more and more good things are ignored or forgotten by us, we will have a feeling that the more worried we are, the easier it will happen. I think this is the truth of Murphy's law.
Murphy's law in daily life is harmless, and sometimes such coincidence will make us happy and add comedy to our lives. Sometimes it also makes us reflect and realize the true meaning of life in a difficult situation.
It is very important to know and understand Murphy's law. The more you know, the more comprehensive you will be. This is the inspiration of Murphy's law. Murphy's law of life makes us understand that positive inner hints are very important. On the other hand, the more we expect something, the easier it should happen. Therefore, it is important to learn to adjust your thinking and focus on the positive results you expect.
Adjusting attention to life is not blind self-confidence or unreasonable wishful thinking, but a positive attitude when things happen. It's a blessing, not a curse, but a curse. I understand that some things won't happen if you don't worry, so instead of worrying about the results and consequences of your preset things, it's better to think about what may happen first, and then find out the solution to the problem, so that the positive response will be more practical and comfortable. Simply put, when you take the bus, you should be prepared that the people next to you may not get off so soon, instead of anxious expectations, just stand quietly by yourself. You'd better think about the benefits of standing on the bus, look at the scenery outside and lose weight ... In short, there will always be unexpected benefits if you dig deep in everything.
Murphy's law in life reminds us that we can think twice before facing problems, but we should not be too addicted and serious. If you worry too much, you will lose the ability to judge problems and deal with things. Since everything has its inevitability and uncertainty, facing it positively is the best solution.
If you don't make trouble, you are not afraid of things. Some things can't be bypassed, so we must have the courage to gamble and be prepared to lose. It should be positive, the enemy will have means to resist, and everything will be fine!