1, character is more important than face value.
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It is human nature that many girls are easily attracted by boys' face value, but face value is superficial after all, and how far you can finally go depends on your character rather than your face value.
A person with a good personality will take care of you as much as possible and be serious and responsible for you, not because you are excellent, but because he feels it is his responsibility. The sense of responsibility is very important, and it is particularly important. It can distinguish between public and private, has its own bottom line, and can always treat you equally. Only boys with a clear bottom line are worthy of relying on.
2. Maintain a proper sense of mystery.
When you really like someone, you will want to share everything with him, tell him everything and contact him every day. You think this will win his favor.
The easier it is to get something, the less you appreciate it, but the more excited you are to get something you can't get.
In a relationship, if you throw yourself into it completely from the beginning, boys will soon lose interest in you. After all, boys are always a creature that looks forward to freshness.
Don't always compare your boyfriend with others.
Boys have good faces. If you tell him every day how good your ex-boyfriend is and how good he is to you, or if your best friend's boyfriend is rich and careful and will take care of others, boys will resent it. Since others are better than you, find someone else.
Since you chose to be with him from the beginning, he must have something to attract you. What you have to do is not to compare his shortcomings, but to find his advantages and encourage him more, so that he will become better to you.
4. Don't say goodbye to everything.
Many girls always break up when they quarrel, and then the boys agree on impulse, and then they don't contact each other. But after a while, they found that they couldn't live without each other, so they got back together. As a result, the number of breakups and breakups increased, and the feelings of the two people also faded, becoming fragile and unable to experience ups and downs, and finally separated for a little thing.
So please don't talk about breaking up. If you don't love him, you should think about how to solve the problem, instead of thinking about breaking up in exchange for compromise.
5. quarreling can't solve the problem.
Sometimes when two people quarrel, they will say cruel words to each other. Only when you feel that you have won will you give up, but this will bring irreparable harm to the other party.
The real purpose of quarreling is communication, and quarreling is to solve problems. When quarreling, you must calm down first. When you are wrong, you must admit that you should apologize. When there are contradictions, we must solve them seriously. Never use the cold war to solve them.
6. Don't be too dependent on each other.
Everyone is an independent individual and should have their own independent life. Even in a relationship, don't take everything for yourself, and don't give up your life because of each other. If you give up everything just to be with him, your world is only him. So when he left, you had nothing.
It's not worth losing yourself for someone. Sentimental people are not right or wrong, only I am ready to leave at any time.
7. Don't be a casual girl.
Nowadays, some girls rush in after meeting boys for a few days, and what's more, they have many abortions without protective measures.
Although the present society is more open than before, as a girl, she should know how to protect herself and not give herself to a boy casually.
If you really think a man is worth paying, please take protective measures. Dotai is very harmful to your health.