Liu Yun is a consultant. She has been in love with her boyfriend Fan Chen for two years. Two people's feelings are also very good, but Liu Yun's heart is always a little uneasy. She felt that compared with Fan Chen's handsomeness, she was a little inferior to him.
Liu Yun is not very tall. It looks a little dark. More importantly, in order to make up for it, she wants to make her skin better. As a result, a lot of pimples grew on her face, which made her very upset.
Fan Chen comforted her and said, I am the one who takes a fancy to you, and it has nothing to do with your appearance. In my eyes, you are the most beautiful. Although these words relieved Liu Yun, she felt that Fan Chen should see a better self. Now she is thin, and she is also a little beauty with a foundation.
In this case, Liu Yun feels a little uneasy, because her boyfriend Fan Chen is better than himself in all aspects. At this time, she has a sense of fear both psychologically and physically. In fact, a handsome boyfriend really makes his face look good. However, this has nothing to do with love. When two people love each other, they appreciate each other. Like most girls, Liu Yun has a sense of inferiority in front of her handsome boyfriend, which makes her feel that she is not worthy of each other.
1, women will feel inferior, which is a sign of unconfidence.
Psychologists point out that inferiority is a negative emotion. When it is difficult for a person to get the recognition he deserves from himself, he will turn his feelings into negativity and project this emotion on others. It is normal for women to feel inferior when they meet men who are better than themselves. She will pay attention to each other's every move and compare with her.
This is a kind of self-distrust, and it is also the driving force for her efforts. At the same time, girls will try to change themselves, such as slimming, skin care, learning to wear and so on. They hope that they can be worthy of such a man and seize this opportunity.
2. The more inferior a woman is, the more she should know how to improve herself.
Meeting unexpectedly is the most mysterious place of love. At first, it may be the face value that attracts the other person, but if the other person wants to go with you, it must be your character. So women should not be too entangled in their appearance. If a man breaks up with you because of his appearance, then he is not worthy of your care.
In fact, the more women feel inferior, the more they should know how to enrich themselves. This is the charm that time can't steal, only belongs to you. A woman with connotation and wisdom can be found in the sea of people, even if she looks ordinary and has a very ordinary figure. Therefore, even if your boyfriend is handsome, you should know that for a relationship, appearance is not the first. What matters is whether the other party is sincere to you.
In other words, as long as you are good enough, you won't feel inferior. For this love, you should strive to improve yourself and enrich your knowledge, which men can always pay attention to. A sincere love can contain all your imperfections.