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A little advice for parents of children in Xiaoshengchu.
First of all, when your children enter junior high school from primary school, all kinds of good habits should be further strengthened on the basis of primary school. So which habits are important for junior high school students? I think the first is the habit of studying, the second is the habit of exercising, and the third is the habit of working. How to develop good study habits, we must first ensure four ones: a relatively quiet and independent space, a desk, a desk lamp and a bookshelf. A good study atmosphere contributes to the formation of good study habits. A noisy environment can cause children to be inattentive and impatient. In fact, primary school teachers may talk more about study habits, so I won't start here.

Here I want to talk about another very important habit, which is the habit of exercise. Some parents may think that exercise has nothing to do with grades and study, so they can put it aside. In fact, the role of physical exercise is also very important for the senior high school entrance examination. We know that the physical education in the senior high school entrance examination is 40 points now. Events include long-distance running, ball games, sit-ups, pull-ups and so on. This year, dozens of candidates in Quankeqiao District missed out on Lu Xun Middle School in Ke Qiao Middle School because of the difference of one point in the senior high school entrance examination. Therefore, from the immediate utilitarian point of view, the physical education senior high school entrance examination can not be ignored.

Physical exercise lays the foundation for a healthy life. There is a top long-distance runner on the campus of Tsinghua at five o'clock every day. Their slogan is 3000 meters a day and work for 50 years. At 5 a.m. in Tsinghua University campus, students who run in the morning have become a beautiful landscape.

Physical exercise can exercise a person's will. Although physical exercise is not directly related to grades and studies, it can cultivate the tenacity to accomplish one thing, urge yourself to exercise self-discipline and bear the hardships of physical fatigue. For example, Teacher Deng Zhengyang of our school has done a good job in this respect. He has a big fat man himself. After two years of physical exercise, he has changed from a big fat man to a lean male god. His experience is inspiring to students. Under his leadership, even during the winter and summer vacations, and even when studying at ordinary times, Mr. Deng will meet the students in Guazhu Lake and punch in and run. In physical exercise, students cultivate the spirit of hard work, so Mr. Deng's class has good grades, good atmosphere and students are obedient and filial. Many students of Mr. Deng have gone to college, and they still insist on exercising even when they enter the society. The formation of such a habit will benefit you for life. We have all seen Zhong Nanshan still playing basketball with young people in their 80s, going to the gym and running. It is because of exercise that he can work for 60 years and still stick to the front line.

Work habits. Now most children are only children, and several families turn around for their children. Without working experience, there are often giants who study and dwarves who live independently. Many students were expelled from the university because they could not take care of themselves. Therefore, letting children do what they can is also a way to love children. As parents, you can't do everything.

Cultivating children's working ability is actually to let children know their parents' hard work. Let children learn to be grateful. On the contrary, parents pay blindly, and children have never experienced the hardships. On the contrary, they take it for granted that they don't cherish everything in front of them. Without responsibility, many children can't bear hardships because they can't adapt to social competition, and finally choose the lifestyle of giant babies. Therefore, this is a good habit that is beneficial to students, parents and families. We can look at the following three photos.

Secondly, learning should pay attention to methods. The best way is two-autonomy. President Dong Jiankang of our school has a famous saying: If everyone doesn't work hard, whoever works hard will win; When everyone works hard, whoever has the method will win; When everyone has an idea, whoever has an idea wins. Let's look at a set of photos first. This is a scene that happened during class time. These students walked out of the classroom and chose to study independently and discuss with each other. These students are competition students in the school. They think I know this course. I can choose my own learning content, and the teacher is also a green light all the way. The school has created a good environment for such students. Libraries, cultural corridors, halls and so on can all be places for children to learn independently. So how awesome is autonomous learning?

First of all, the concept is different. Traditional learning is "you want me to learn" and autonomous learning is "I want to learn by myself". When I study by myself, just like farmers are busy with their contracted fields, they have generated endless motivation. For example, there is a classmate Zhang in our class. Because this child is relatively low-key, I didn't show his real name here. Zhang is a real child of other people's family, and his independent study is reflected in his independent preview. When Zhang was in the second grade, he had taught himself the content of the third grade and began to teach himself physics and mathematics in high school. After being admitted to the Spring Recruitment Class of Ke Qiao Middle School, I memorized all the English words of three years in high school in only half a year. The wrong textbook he independently compiled has become a template for students to read. While taking part in the math competition counseling, he borrowed the video of science competition counseling and watched the video teach himself the content of science competition. Today, he is far ahead in the spring class of Ke Qiao Middle School, surpassing the second place by more than 40 points. A few days ago, Zhang went back to school to take the senior high school entrance examination. He is responsible for delivering the examination papers. Every student has to borrow some luck from this learned God. Girls shake hands and boys hug each other. Of course, this is a game between children, but we can also see the position of this child in the eyes of students.

Autonomous learning exercises students' ability, while traditional teaching is the imparting of knowledge. Knowledge is easily forgotten, but ability is always deeply embedded in a person's bones and soul. Therefore, many passive students are often not far away in the end, failing the exam, having unstable grades and jumping up and down. And those students who arrange themselves, explore themselves and study themselves have become the winners in education now. Let's look at the students' independent homework. For example, in "Two Wan Li under the Sea", students who can learn will use the world map to draw the route of the protagonist's visit, instead of memorizing stories. Then, as parents, how to cultivate their children's autonomous learning ability, three words-not arranged. The formulation and implementation of the study plan are all made by children themselves, and parents only take it as a reference.

Finally, what I want to say is to lay a good foundation for life with extensive reading. During summer vacation, children have more free time. Parents and friends can let their children read some books as widely as possible. Foreign novels, China novels, classical, modern, argumentative and aesthetic can all be involved. This can expand children's knowledge. As we all know, it is more and more difficult to enter the Chinese senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination. The difficulty lies in a wide range of knowledge. Let's take a look at the three tasks of Shaoxing 202 1 Chinese test paper. Shaoxing influence, a hundred-year journey and social observation, these three learning tasks cover three aspects: culture, tradition, history and society. These three aspects are permeated in the examination questions. If a student does not have extensive knowledge, he will have no way to start.

Secondly, reading helps to cultivate a sense of language. We know that the most important thing in language learning is not skills, but language sense. Language sense is a person's sensitivity to language. Especially classical Chinese. Classical Chinese in the senior high school entrance examination this year is more difficult. Students with a good sense of language can know the meaning of this word by feeling, but students who memorize it by rote will not be flexible. He can't perceive the meaning of notional words in classical Chinese from the specific context. Another example is composition. Students who have a good feeling about the same thing in a word can write vividly, and others like to read it. A classmate with a bad sense of language can also make his writing boring through an interesting thing. This ability plays an important role in students' exams, including communication, communication and expression with others in the future. This ability needs to be cultivated in reading, so everyone must let our children read, read and read again during the summer vacation.

Reading can cultivate a person's critical thinking ability. Speculation is a topic that will never go out of date, whether it is a composition for the senior high school entrance examination or the college entrance examination. Let's have a look. How difficult is the composition for the senior high school entrance examination this year? Students should be able to grasp the ideas conveyed in information, learn to observe society and understand life. Students are at a loss if they don't have a good foundation for reading such composition questions.

A child is an unopened flower in every family. We should create all favorable conditions and wait for every bloom.