Although the Bible thinks that love can break through secular barriers, we can't help but weigh whether love can get married with self-righteous norms. For us, love can be the separation of age groups in the working society, the norm of a suitable family, or the perfect genetic pairing. But when love is involved in marriage, the separation that violates these norms always exists strangely, just like an old man with few wives. In 20 16, a 23-year-old boy and a 46-year-old aunt, who had only known each other for 60 days, chose * * * to get married. This love process is obviously more easily blocked than others. Tan Wanping, a 23-year-old boy, met Li Liangyou, a 46-year-old boy, because of a bicycle race.
Tan Wanping, 23, is like the rising sun, full of vigor and vitality. At this time, Tan Wanping is at the sunrise of his life, and his desire to explore the world is very strong. In his spare time, Tan Wanping will choose some sports to exercise. What Tan Wanping didn't expect was that his favorite bicycle race would bring him a lifetime of people. Li Liangyou, 46, has lived half his life, knows the depth of society, has seen people's hearts and the sea, and naturally has experienced emotional joys and sorrows. For Tan Wanping, cycling is full of energy and nowhere to vent, but for Li Liangyou, it is a leisure time after life slows down. Unfortunately, Li Liangyou was injured in the game. Coincidentally, passing Tan Wanping took her to the hospital.
The love between two people seems to be full of coincidence, without any warning. In fact, it is just to send the wounded to the hospital. Love actually happens between two people. Tan Wanping wants to know about this mature woman in front of him. On the way to the hospital, she learned the news of 7788. Her rare heart moved like a pop rock mouth, and something exploded.
At first, Li Liangyou couldn't be tempted by the teenagers in front of him. After all, from the age point of view, Li Liangyou may even be Tan Wanping's mother. Li Liangyou's secular mentality for a long time made him very resistant to Tan Wanping's kindness, but Tan Wanping revealed a kind of composure that was not commensurate with his age and his persistence. Li Liangyou finally chose to bear this relationship.
It never takes a long time to decide to enter the marriage stage. Two months is enough time for both parties to decide to enter the next stage of love. Just entering marriage is like pulling down the curtain on the stage. People are still very docile about love, but marriage is always judged. This resolution of Tan Wanping and Li Liangyou even exposed their stories in front of their speeches.
Marriage is not about two people, but the communication between two families, which means they will face many challenges. Although two people really love each other, the age difference will make them suffer too many questions. The first floor is parents and friends. Tan Wanping's family naturally didn't expect his son to bring such a girlfriend, and his family's resistance was also presented to Li Liangyou.
My parents are waiting for Li Liangyou to find a partner to spend the rest of my life with, but Tan Wanping's imagination is too different from mine. They are not sure whether the young man in front of them has enough quality to accompany Li Liangyou constantly. 23 years old means the beginning of social life, and everything is brand-new and gentle.
They didn't get the will of the people around them, but they didn't shake their minds. Tan Wanping and Li Liangyou entered the marriage hall with a frustrated eye. The wedding was simple, but it was enough to make them happy, and they also started their own marriage life.
After the flash marriage, Tan Wanping and Li Liangyou were as happy as ordinary couples. Speaking of married life, Tan Wanping has a happy smile on his face. They live like most couples in the world. They will get along happily and occasionally quarrel, but Tan Wanping has also learned something different from this life.
It's not like two people get along in a social environment. Everyone enjoys enough private space, and they also feel that the space they are used to has merged into a different living atmosphere at this time. It's more like a soul that has grown up for decades, choosing to stand still in the noisy time, just to pause for mutual understanding.
The personal lives of Tan Wanping and Li Liangyou are getting better and better, but the combination of the old and the young still attracts everyone's attention. The media went to their home to interview the couple, and they put up with it. Being interviewed means to a great extent that their lives will be forced to be presented in front of everyone now, and they can't control what they will hear.
Sure enough, the negative comments they received far exceeded the wishes. Stranger still, the reasons why people are not optimistic about this marriage are quite different from their own influence. Women get more negative comments, and the focus of everyone's scolding is on fertility.
Li Liangyou is no longer fit to be a mother. She is past the childbearing age as a mother. For young Tan Wanping, this is tantamount to depriving him of the opportunity to become a father. This kind of voice turned into all kinds of harsh actions, and people lashed out at their rampant activities, even less willing to listen to their happiness.
It is never a mistake for an old man to have fewer wives, but it can also be a kind of love, but when we have to weigh them through the secular world, they are full of flaws. Our life tells us to provide enough labor to build, which makes the old couple with fewer wives become obsolete. Life needs us like this, but it doesn't mean we can't have a different life.
When we are all used to this form, it is difficult for love to stop competing with the secular, and the framed norms are just slimming love in disguise. Behind Tan Wanping and Li Liangyou are people who stand up and speak for love. We can advocate a lifestyle that suits us better because of the established environment, but we don't need to ask everyone to stick to the rules. After all, each of us is not a factory-set machine, and we don't want to have a fixed label. This is simply the pursuit of happiness.