Piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, poetry and hops, it seems that everyone has a goal to run towards it, and at worst, it is to cultivate the interest of life.
At this moment, you are mixed with envy and maybe a little acid, but you have to admit in your heart that he is persistent and self-disciplined.
To judge whether a person is excellent or not, the word self-discipline always has a place.
And when you look at the potato chips in your hand and the variety show on the computer, you can't help but wonder why I am so decadent and unable to discipline myself.
I must be a person with very poor willpower. This kind of self-denial makes me full of negative energy, and even thinks that it is better to break the jar and let nature take its course.
In fact, it is not difficult to be a self-disciplined person. As long as you change your mind, the premise of realizing self-discipline is not to need super perseverance, but to know how to cherish time.
Qi Baishi, a famous painter, painted shrimp, crab, chicken, peony, chrysanthemum, morning glory or Chinese cabbage. All of them have both form and spirit, and their sounds are vivid.
It is said that one morning at the age of eighty-five, he wrote four banners and wrote poems on them: "It was windy yesterday, and I was uneasy. I didn't draw. Now I want to add that I don't want to spend a day without teaching. "
"Don't teach a day off" means don't let every day be spent in leisure, and every day should be enriched.
It can be seen that Qi Baishi knows the value of time, so he has to use it every day to achieve great success. Isn't this self-discipline?
And Mr. Lu Xun, time is also precious. He "used other people's coffee drinking time in his writing", thus creating a large number of works in his life and becoming a generation of literary masters.
So do celebrities. As a sentient creature, does a member of the general public need to be equal to them and understand the value of time?
There is a saying on the internet that excellent people are not terrible, but better than you and work harder than you, which is very acceptable.
Because in their efforts, they value and cherish time. Imagine that when you sleep late, someone has already got up early and ran 5 kilometers;
When you were talking about drama porridge, someone had already brushed several chapters of exercises; When you are bored and crazy about Tik Tok and Weibo, some people may be revising their plans or taking self-study courses.
In the scattered time that you don't cherish at all, some people take advantage of it, listening to English listening while doing housework, watching course videos while taking the subway, and often seeing someone reading with relish on the plane.
It is also 24 hours. Some people do a lot of things, while others have nothing to do.
There may be many unfair things in this world, but only time is absolutely fair, but time is always around us like water and air.
Although we know their importance in our hearts, we always fail in practical actions because they are never far away.
Until the end of life, many people realize that time is running out, but many wishes have not been realized, but they are eternal regrets.
So, please cherish your time and do what you want to do, whether it's slimming, studying or companionship and care.
When you begin to cherish time, those meaningless and decadent things will be abandoned automatically, and you will move towards your goal step by step and eventually become an excellent self-disciplined person.
Finally, I remembered a clip I saw in the TV series Empresses in the Palace. In summer, the emperor took Zhen Xuan and his party to the Summer Palace, which the emperor never liked. Mei, who grew up in Yuanmingyuan, met Zhen Xuan by chance. The dialogue between them is classic:
May 4th Movement: Mother is humble and looked down upon.
Huan Zhen: People respect themselves. Although I don't know if your mother's background is humble, parents love their children. It doesn't matter what others think of you. It is important that you don't belittle yourself. In the future, others naturally dare not treat you lightly.
May 4th: Really?
Huan Zhen: If my brother doesn't believe me, he won't ask me.
May 4th: Thank you for your suggestions.
Huan Zhen: Just one thing. My brother and I are just far apart. Why should my brother believe me?
May 4th Movement: It must be difficult to be a favorite of Emperor Ama. In addition, I heard that Queen Guan is not even afraid of Empress Hua Fei, and I admire people who are brave and resourceful.
Huan Zhen: I really can't afford my brother's praise. I just want to say one word to my brother: I would rather be that person than worship him.
"It is better to be that person than to worship him."
This is not only Zhen Xuan's words to comfort the May 4th Movement, but also Zhen Xuan's requirements for his own life. She is smart, forbearing and understanding, which is why she can finally become a winner in life.
This sentence also encouraged everyone. Instead of enviing those who are self-disciplined, it is better to hold time firmly in your hands and make yourself an ideal type in your heart.
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