When I was a child in the countryside, it was careless for women to feed their children, no matter who was hungry. But for now, "breastfeeding" is a very private matter, and most treasure mothers will choose to avoid suspicion. They seldom breastfeed their children in front of outsiders other than their husbands and family unless they have to.

In particular, many shopping malls and stations have built "mother-and-baby rooms", which are specially provided for Ma Bao to facilitate feeding or changing diapers when babies are hungry, so the privacy of postpartum breastfeeding also needs to be protected.

Cousin Xiaolan gave birth to a child near the end of the year. During the Spring Festival, many people came to our home. Some came to see the pregnant women and children, left red envelopes and left soon. Xiaolan feels very festive. There are many people and it is a bit lively.

However, sometimes relatives who are close to home have to eat at home. Because the air conditioner is on in Xiaolan's room, many people stay in Xiaolan's room to keep warm and chat.

Xiaolan was embarrassed at first. It's embarrassing for so many people to feed their children, but fortunately, most of them are seven aunts and eight aunts, and Xiaolan is getting used to it in front of lesbians.

It was only later that her husband's friends and colleagues came to visit at home. Xiaolan greeted each other in the bedroom with her children and asked her husband to entertain friends in the living room. After the child was hungry, Xiaolan fed the child, and there was no toilet paper and wet wipes in the bedroom, so she called her husband. Unexpectedly, her husband and colleagues came in with cigarettes.

After a simple sentence, Xiaolan quickly kicked her husband out, which made her feel very uncomfortable. When her husband came in and complained, "There are children at home, so smoking, what do you think?"

Regardless of the privacy of breastfeeding, anyone who knows something will not smoke in a closed environment with mothers and children. Xiaolan suddenly rejected this friend and made it clear to her husband that this person was no longer welcome at home.

Breastfeeding is also a very private thing for Mabao. It can be said that apart from her husband, even her mother-in-law is unwilling to breastfeed face to face. So if the following people have a good relationship, they should avoid suspicion, not only for embarrassment, but also for children.

First, people who smoke and drink at home

I remember when I was a child, my father's friends came to eat at home, and my mother was always polite on the surface, but as soon as the guests left, someone came and quarreled with my father, smoking and drinking together, which made the home filthy.

In fact, it is the same for a mother who is breastfeeding after childbirth. It takes a long time for the smell to dissipate after smoking and drinking indoors, which is not good for the health of yourself and your child, and it will also be "diaphragm" in your heart. Be sure to clean all the sofa towels and sheets.

Second, people who are sick and uncomfortable.

Ma Bao is very weak after delivery, so she needs confinement and good conditioning. At the same time, her body's immunity and resistance will drop sharply, so avoid blowing, catching cold and touching cold water, otherwise it may leave a moon disease.

Then there are sick and uncomfortable people at home, try to stay away from the mother and son to avoid transmitting germs to the mother and son. After all, mothers have to breastfeed their children and can't get sick. The child is too young to get sick.

Third, Xiong Haizi runs around the house.

For example, during the Chinese New Year, many children visit relatives and friends, adults are chatting, and children are running and playing. The child is not sensible and rushes into the room with the door open, regardless of whether there is a mother and a baby inside. It is easy to scare the baby, and too much noise will affect the rest of the mother and baby.

Fourth, people who are especially good at chatting.

Breast-feeding mothers and children are particularly tired. Although they are often bored and want to talk to someone, they will feel tired after a while, and children need to rest most of the time.