"Who knows that every grain of Chinese food is hard?" This poem almost accompanied our childhood, and now it is praised by us to our children.

In my memory, there are often scenes on the dining table where we can't finish cooking for our parents. At this time, someone will tell us that what we have left is our own blessing.

Now, do you still think you have to finish what you can't eat?

Staying in a shady office for a long time is easy to get rid of the warmth of the sun, so I decided not to have lunch in the company and go out to bask in the sun.

The company is in the suburbs, three kilometers away from the county seat. A person drove to a beef noodle restaurant in the county seat.

Probably because of the epidemic, the originally lively noodle restaurant was deserted, and several tables of people sat here to eat.

Grandparents on the front table eat slowly and leisurely, so don't worry about the need for fast food in the past.

On the opposite table sat a middle-aged woman in a black tulle dress, eating a meal alone. After a while, a child of seven or eight years old brought a bowl of noodles and put it on the table.

"If I had known you ate so little, we would have ordered a bowl of noodles to eat separately." It can be seen that this middle-aged woman has finished eating and is ready to leave with her children.

But the bowl of noodles that the children brought across the table seemed to be another hurdle for them to leave here.

While complaining, the middle-aged woman took the child's noodles and ate them slowly. Maybe she's full. This bowl of noodles seems a little off her stomach.

I watched her bite the leftover rice of the child into her mouth, only to notice that the woman in front of me was a little fatter, and the fat around her waist was wrapped in black gauze.

Even because of some big bodies, the head is bigger than others. The skinny child sat by, waiting for his mother to leave after dinner.

Maybe I couldn't eat it, so I asked the child to take a plate of side dishes and try it.

At this moment, I began to worry about whether her fear of waste would become a part of her waist fat.

I can't help thinking about the beauty that women have been pursuing all their lives. I looked around in front of the mirror in my new clothes, hoping that the excess meat would disappear out of thin air.

If you are obese, you need to spend more energy than others to buy clothes that can cover excess fat, so you need to consider tailoring and texture.

But we didn't think of it when we ate extra food.

So I thought, just because we are women, should we bypass traditional ideas in some things and create a set of theories for ourselves?

0 1 Abandoning your savings will hurt you.

When we are hungry, we tend to overestimate our appetite and want to eat everything we see.

Mr. Li and I often do this. There was a pile of things on the table, and we were full after eating half of them.

First of all, when we order, we should abandon this generous practice and order according to the previous quantity. If there is anything left, consider your health first and then whether you can finish it.

In my life circle, my mother has become very democratic and can't finish eating, so every time she cooks, she will try to eat as much as possible. If she can't finish eating, she will be left, but her mother-in-law is used to frugality, and cauliflower in pasta is always eaten the next day.

Although we may know that some ingredients actually lose all their nutrients the next day, which will cause physical discomfort, we still can't let go of the guilt of wasting.

When I throw away what I haven't finished eating, the idea that the older generation thinks it is shameful to waste food will hurt.

Although it hurts, these wastes will make you healthy and it is not so easy to lose weight quickly.

Even according to the cost, the wasted food may be twenty or thirty dollars, which requires energy and time, even compared with the time, cost and money spent on going to the gym to lose weight.

02. Go and buy expensive clothes that you can afford.

Thinking of leftovers contradicting our usual cognition, I thought of buying clothes again.

For women, the most terrible thing is that they have no clothes to wear when they change seasons.

I remember one year I was transferred to the head office. When I came back, I took off my clothes and packed three woven bags. I usually like to buy it on buy buy Taobao, but I often feel that I have no clothes to wear.

The fact is that the clothes I brought back have never been worn, and I will throw them away next year.

Because I often buy some cheap clothes, which look good and have poor texture. After a long period of cleaning, the fabric will look inferior, cut, not deformed and not worn out.

So I have been buying clothes, but the wardrobe is full but I can't find anything to wear.

Later, I didn't buy clothes very much. The clothes I bought were all about style and texture, especially texture. Clothes that are too cheap will be skipped directly, and even if they look good, they will be associated with the scene of being thrown away after being worn once or twice.

You can buy expensive clothes as much as possible, or you can combine several ways to wear them. After washing it many times, there will be no big deformation, and I feel that I have clothes to wear in different seasons.

We often think that we can buy cheap clothes with less money, but the reality is that we buy one thing after another and feel that we have no clothes to wear after a while, so it is normal to buy them at buy buy.

On the contrary, you can buy expensive clothes with good tailoring and texture, and you can wear them for several seasons, but you still save a lot of money.

The elegance of a woman comes partly from the beauty of inner behavior and partly from the support of clothes. Especially with the growth of age, we need to abandon some common cognition, reconsider and organize our life, and make it look simple but textured.