Married for two years, this is the nth time my wife has asked her husband to bring me food.
On weekdays, I am busy with my husband's work and seldom cook dinner. Husband often goes to his husband's house for dinner. Because my rest time in the new media industry is not fixed, I gradually quit dinner in the name of losing weight.
My wife doesn't think this is a good thing;
"Eat three meals a day. You are very thin. Can we talk about it later when we lose weight? Only when you are full can you have the strength to work. "
So every time the husband comes to pick him up after work, he always brings his wife's lunch box.
Today's dinner is fried clams, fried tofu with wild vegetables, soft corn steamed bread, and warm chicken breast is reserved on the bottom floor of the lunch box.
When the husband saw the "chicken breast" in the lunch box, he was angry for a moment: "My mother is too axial. I fucked a whole chicken, chicken wings, chicken legs and chicken treasures. I'll give them to you. I don't think I'm my real parents. Have you considered it? "
At this moment, I smiled.
Yes, I have a good mother-in-law. She treats me like a biological parent. She has been dating for more than two years and never quarrels or quarrels.
How good is my wife?
Freedom of marriage, I am a divorced family, and my father died young. Inadvertently, I overheard grandma's words and told her husband: "Xiaoying was spoiled by her father since childhood, and she was not easy to get involved." It is not easy for her to come to my house alone. You are five years older than her. You need to take care of her like a father, tolerate her more and let her go more.
The two of us quarreled in front of our parents-in-law, and the housewife asked her husband to apologize to me. Sometimes it's obviously my fault, she will still say that her husband is wrong.
Go home to your husband's house on Sunday, and you can sleep until you wake up naturally. My husband always waits for me to wake up before making breakfast.
Three meals a day are carefully prepared: three dishes and one soup in the morning, fish and shrimp in the afternoon, vegetables and fruits in the evening, and I rarely need to cut them. She said, "I work so hard that I can do housework after a rest."
When I leave my husband's house, the trunk of my car is always full of vegetables, raw eggs and fresh fruit? She didn't want to eat the eggs laid by her own chicken, so she let us eat them.
My grandmother said that goose eggs are very nutritious, so people who regularly drive more than ten kilometers to raise ducks collected a lot of eggs, but they didn't want to eat them, so they gave them to everyone.
After more than two years of marriage, my grandmother has never induced labor, and the neighbors next door sometimes gossip, and she turns a deaf ear.
I have watched too many evil mother-in-law in TV series, and I have seen with my own eyes that people around me have been very sad in order to better communicate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I used to be afraid of my mother-in-law. At this time, I heard the word "mother-in-law", and my heart was warm.
In foreign-related marriages, my wife is considerate not only to me, but also to my parents.
In the middle and late March, my grandmother came to Qingdao to see me and stayed at my parents' house. My parents-in-law take care of me every day, cook nutritious meals for every meal and work separately from my husband. My parents-in-law took my grandmother for a walk, bought clothes for my grandmother and accompanied her to have a haircut. Communication is extremely harmonious.
My mother-in-law is also persistent in sharing a bed with my grandmother. My grandmother often gets up at night, so my mother-in-law quickly gets up and helps her.
Grandma said to me privately, "I have lived for more than 80 years, and no one has ever served me like this." Be sure to be kind to your in-laws. "
Before grandma left, her mother-in-law was reluctant, and her husband's eyes were red: "I have been in contact for a month, and I have feelings. I can't bear to let you go."
At that moment, I felt that I had won the lottery by marrying into such a family.
If you ask me what I have learned from having a good mother-in-law, it is probably that I can take care of her as a relative and a daughter.
How to save the marriage that is about to divorce? All connections are mutual. If one thing is good, I won't be bad to you.