There is also a key figure, that is, a man who is both a son and a husband. He must reconcile and guide the two women. Take my husband for example. He is very helpful. Every time I quarrel with my mother-in-law, she will definitely come to comfort me at the first time and say that I have been wronged, and I can take it out on him. Seeing that he was so tolerant and considerate to me, my anger disappeared for three points. At this time, I think of the woman who quarreled with me. She is my mother who loves men the most. In order not to make her angry, I can also submit to humiliation to please my mother-in-law.
My most common method is to buy a gift for my mother-in-law and apologize to her in front of the whole family. This ceremony must be held. After all, the quarrel was so vigorous that my mother-in-law felt humiliated. Doing so can make her find her face in front of everyone. Say a few words to please, even if my mother-in-law is still angry with me, but in front of everyone, she can't ignore me as a junior, and she can't bear to forgive me. It's not over. I will cook a big meal myself, add vegetables to her, peel shrimps for her and toast her. In short, I will take care of everything and eat this meal happily. This time, it will be a turn. Just show it a little more in the next few days.
Of course, I can't use this method often. People are the most vulnerable. Once the other party is heartbroken, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really over. Therefore, I still hope that all daughter-in-law and mother-in-law can be more tolerant and considerate, less haggle over every ounce, value harmony in everything, and solve problems with a rational attitude instead of quarreling in a rage.