Almost everyone said that it would be good to finish the production! The wound is fast enough to get out of bed and walk like a fly, Barabara or something? But why didn't anyone tell us that one month after birth is also purgatory, and the body has never recovered because of birth. On the contrary, there are many strange symptoms to endure.

All over the world, it will go to heaven after unloading! Let me face these subsequent torture at a loss? I don't know how to give my husband psychological construction, which leads us to quarrel (cry) all the time. So! Yes, pregnant mothers, don't think that this is the case after giving birth. Give you psychological construction first! Ha ha.

Although I hate these symptoms (postpartum symptoms are dirtier, uglier and more embarrassing than Orz during pregnancy), you can take a look first and prevent them first! (Next is the production article. Will many people be afraid to have children? )

First, uterine contraction-postpartum pain

The first pain that accompanies life is postpartum contraction. After more than nine months of pregnancy, the uterus is stretched very badly. It is conceivable that it will shrink back to its original appearance, and it will take some time to shrink. This kind of pain is like menstrual pain! Stuffy pain!

Although the pain is not so severe, the feeling of menstrual pain is enough to make people unable to sleep again and again. I was going to say that I can have a good sleep after giving birth! As a result, I couldn't sleep at all. It is said that my uterus will contract more violently when I have a second child (super scared).

Second, sports injuries hurt the body.

Try your best in production! On the third day, muscle aches all over the body seem inevitable, because it must be so hard to give birth naturally.

Third, the wound is restless.

Basically, I think many mothers cut their perineum when they give birth! So there will be a wound below, and the position of this wound is also very inverted. It's either sitting or lying, stuck in the middle. Anyway, any posture is strange! It's hard! Especially when sleeping, crawling around and going to the toilet.

In addition to the original wound swelling and pain, I am also worried that I accidentally pulled it! What if it cracks? I'm even more afraid if I want to wipe it after going to the toilet. Don't think it's just a wound ... A wound in this position can kill people.

Think about it, you can't always lie down! Anyway, as long as you don't lie down for a long time, this wound is fatal. It hurts to eat online. You can't lie in bed and chat with them to pick up guests! So it will continue to get hurt. Sitting on the computer, you have to put * * * overhead. Walking is like the third trimester of pregnancy, with feet spread like penguins, for fear of rubbing against the wound.

In addition, I think the invisible psychological pressure is no less than the pain of the wound, because you have no idea what is going on below. Will be paranoid.

I think people say that perineum has a strong healing ability, but even if it is strong, it will take more than a week to get restless. In this week's time, the wound will turn from swelling and pain to itching. Maybe the wound will become extremely itchy when it heals, and then you want to stop itching and relieve pain (is it purgatory! I still want to curse when I think about this process.

I didn't feel better until the stitches were removed, but I still couldn't sit in the center of the moon for too long. It took about two weeks before I really felt like I was back to my original state.

Fourth, sweat a lot.

After giving birth, it may be that the body is draining water. Obviously, I have been sweating in the air-conditioned room, especially after drinking a mouthful of hot soup and milking, as if I were sweating for 100 meters. Even when I sleep, I feel my back wet.

I was not a very sweaty person before, and this crazy sweating really scared me! It's like being sick. It's really no exaggeration! It's super humorous to sweat when you drink a soup. But I heard that sweating is a good thing! I can remove all the edema during pregnancy to help me lose weight and drink red bean water. I really lose a pound every day after giving birth. How could edema be so exaggerated before?

Five, lochia.

Everyone should have heard of postpartum lochia. Lochiorrhea is the secretion produced by postpartum uterus, which contains blood clots, white blood cells, endometrium and placenta. Just like menstruation, it discharges the contents of the uterus in these months and makes the uterus clean.

I looked it up on the Internet and said:

1. Normal lochia appears bright red on postpartum 1 ~ 4 days, and sometimes there is blood clot, which is almost or more than the usual menstrual flow.

2. About 5 ~ 10 days after delivery, the color of lochia will gradually fade, and the blood volume will be less and less, but because it contains more * * * secretions, the taste will be heavier.

3. After postpartum 10 days, the color of lochia mostly turns to light yellow or white, which is similar to leucorrhea, but the amount will be more than the usual leucorrhea.

But what is pain? I don't know why my lochia has been here so long! I have finished my confinement, lochia, and every day it will get moldy under a mattress! I just couldn't use sanitary napkins before, and I itched for three days at a time. Now I have to wrap it for a month, so this lochia is one of the two most painful things for me after childbirth. I really advocate that long-term pain is better than short-term pain. As long as it takes a long time, I feel unbearable pain. Besides, I was born in winter. What if summer is hot and stuffy and night sweats?

Six, the tragic world of two grains of milk

The tragic world of two milk, the other one is the most painful! Milking and increasing milk are things that I didn't think about and didn't know at all before giving birth to children. I thought it would be fine to have everything, but I didn't expect these two pills to be made for a month. Milk with milk hurts more! My son's breasts are not quite right, and the blisters are more painful.

Don't underestimate pain, it can completely drive people crazy. At first, they milked every two to three hours. Even if they want to sleep in the middle of the night, they will be awakened by the pain of rising milk! See how exaggerated it is. Then I'm going through the breast. It is a kind of self-harm behavior to squeeze your hands and neck every day and get * * * black and blue. Serious lack of sleep and physical pain will make the whole person's spirit weak!

So tired, so tired, no one can understand! In particular, my husband doesn't know that we are both fighting for milk in the second month, and may think that it is only breastfeeding! ? A big grievance and sadness rushed up! I checked a lot of mothers' heart sounds online, and most of postpartum depression comes from milk! Although I didn't have the problem of lack of milk because of unintentional language injuries from relatives and friends, I was once devastated by mental torture.

Seven, * * congestion and swelling can't stand for a long time.

After giving birth, as long as you stand for a long time, you will feel uncomfortable below, as if something is rising over there. I have been looking for a place to sit for about ten minutes, and then I went back and forth to see a doctor. It turns out that after giving birth, there will be congestion below, so I feel swollen because of congestion. This swelling is painless, but it is not very comfortable.

Eight, * * * There is a sour hemp near the armpit.

From the tenth day or so, the chest near the armpit will feel sour and numb from time to time, just a roller coaster rushing down, and you will feel very nervous (hard to describe). I can't find any information on the internet, except that it may be milk fever or something. Later, I went to see a doctor and said that it was because the breasts were producing milk.

Sure enough, after my observation, it seems that both sides will start to feel sore and numb after each feeding. Later, because I knew it was normal, I didn't pay special attention to this feeling, so I don't know if it disappeared or got used to it!

Nine, it looks like body odor.

I don't know if it stinks, but I always feel that sweating smells strange! It wasn't there before. I felt fine at first, but it stinks almost every day in the back. I was really scared to death! I feel so embarrassed that I want to say why this strange head will find me! It won't happen again!

I dare not get too close to the person in the center of the moon, even the fat man will automatically get out of the way if he wants to get close to me! Try not to raise your hand. As a result, I looked it up online. It seems that it's because of hormonal changes. I told you it would take a while. Sure enough, the smell didn't last long, and it disappeared in about a week! I am really relieved.

It is said that it seems that some mothers will start to get heavier when they are pregnant, which I have never encountered when I was pregnant (probably because it is cold and I don't sweat much), but the point is that the smell will disappear! But I still feel embarrassed to see you, so I can only bear it silently.

Ten, face the reality of the kind.

I am really a free old lady. I didn't weigh myself immediately after my life ended. I didn't start testing every day until the third day, and then I might not have edema! I'm one kilogram short every day. The bra is also tied every day, and it feels good! This should be answered soon, until my aunt came to see me and said I was stronger! That's what woke me up.

I didn't pay attention to the change of my figure at all because the nursing pajamas in the city center were very loose. I want to say that losing weight means losing weight! But it's not. After birth, in addition to the pelvis being stretched, the waist is thick and the back is thick! The point is to raise milk and make it look big. The whole person becomes stronger (faints)!

Although my weight is about to return, all my measurements are still two inches bigger. I'm still trying to get back in shape. If I get rid of the tiger's back, I will share this good news with you (tears).

Eleven, belly relaxation and melanin precipitation

Just after giving birth, everyone said that I still have a five-month-old belly in my body. Because I was psychologically prepared, I was not scared, but the melanin in my stomach made me rebound. When the whole stomach was cut open, I didn't expect the melanin precipitation on my stomach to be so obvious. As a result, I flinched after giving birth and looked at the whole super invincible black! It's still a big one, especially its bus ... it's too dark.

My belly button ring is also black and wrinkled, and I'm going to vomit blood! Moreover, the degree of belly relaxation is the same as grandma's skin. At first, the mood will not be bad. As time goes on, the mood will start to get worse and worse. It is said that this melanin deposition will take more than half a year to completely disappear. It suddenly occurred to me what to do if I went to Boracay!

The number of symptoms within one month after birth is unimaginable! I think these symptoms really have a great influence on my mother. I naively thought that everything would return to normal immediately after giving birth, and I never saw "postpartum symptoms" on the Internet.

Originally, the fat man and I thought confinement should be very free, and we could contact our customers to do something. As a result, there is no way! Just dealing with the physical changes and readjusting to this body that is controlled by milking every three hours makes me busy as a bee, not to mention the serious lack of sleep and the new relationship between husband and wife, which makes me very tired.

Even I was so optimistic that I cried for several nights. I really don't underestimate these postpartum symptoms. If you are a mother who is about to give birth, I feel really lucky to read this article, at least knowing that postpartum is not so happy! You can also let your husband know in advance to reduce friction.