The Spring Festival is coming, Xie Xiaoman's family? Three happiness at the door? : I have moved into a new home of 126 square meters, with three bedrooms, two halls and two bathrooms; Zhu was rated by Jiaxing Daily? Active correspondent? ; Son Zhu Zijian got excellent results at the end of the term and was rated as? Learning activists? .
On the eve of the Spring Festival, Xie Xiaoman told reporters on the phone that on New Year's Eve, their family of three would go back to their hometown in Huzhou to celebrate the New Year. Last year, everyone spent the New Year in their hometown of Ningbo. The two discussed it, and the husband and wife took turns to go to each other's hometown for the New Year. She said that looking back on 2006, the whole family gained a lot; And what about 2007? After the Spring Festival, her massage shop will move to the storefront facing the street, and the business will definitely be booming. Husband's career and son's study will get better and better.
Leaving home: How hard is it for the soul to find a habitat?
1One day in the winter of 967, Xie Xiaoman was born in an ordinary family in Huzhou. When she was over one year old, while she was learning to walk, her neighbors kept watching Xiaoman wrestle and reminded her parents to see a doctor. Unfortunately, her daughter inherited her father's cataract.
On children who are not sensible? Blind, blind? Smiling, Xiaoman grew up slowly. Because of her eye disease, all kindergartens refused; At school age, it's still the same experience. When Xiaoman learned that one of her neighbors was the principal of a primary school, she went to grind it every day. Uncle, I want to study. Let me study, will you? ? The kind principal was moved and accepted her as an exception.
Others use their eyes, ears and hands in class, and Xiaoman can only listen with his ears. Every exam is blank. ? I've been reading for three and a half years, and I haven't written a word. ? Xiaoman said. Three years later, the teacher gently advised her: Xiaoman, don't come to school again, and your family conditions are not good. Learn some art from your father. ? Xiaoman's father is blind, but he is a pianist of Huzhou Lake Troupe, and he is good at playing, pulling, playing and singing. While the father brought misfortune to Xiaoman, he also passed on his artistic talent to his daughter. Xiaoman showed her artistic talent from an early age. At school, music is her favorite. When there are any activities in school, the music teacher asks her to sing on stage.
Reluctantly left school, Xiaoman not only helped his mother with housework, but also went to the intersection to listen to high-pitched radio whenever he was free. No matter whether it was windy or rainy, he could quickly imitate all kinds of Yue Opera vocals on the radio. She took part in Huzhou Shaoxing Opera Cantata Competition and won the first prize. Later, she learned Suzhou Pingtan from a teacher and sang all over bookstores in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai in five years.
1in April, 989, in order to pursue his musical dream, Xiaoman left his hometown and went to Haining, where he was unaccompanied, to join the disabled group founded by Snow Leopard? Self-improvement art troupe? . Here, she met Zhu who came two months earlier than her.
Zhu comes from Zhenhai farmhouse and has four brothers and sisters at home. Just over one year old, Zhu had a high fever and failed to treat polio in time. Since then, his legs have never stood up straight. At the age of eight, he pestered his parents to go to school, and their parents had to let his brother at the same school carry him to school every day. Soon, he became a studious student.
In a blink of an eye, my brother will graduate from primary school, but Zhu still has two years. What should I do? Father bought crutches and said to Zhu. Here, they will be your future legs! ? Zhu fell down as soon as he stepped on the crutch, but? Cruel? His father still forced him to teach himself. He fell and stood up again and again, and was smashed into the wall. He can finally walk with crutches!
In order to reduce the burden on the family as soon as possible, Zhu, who scored well in the senior high school entrance examination, applied for the secondary school and was ecstatic when he learned that he had won the first place in the school. However, fate played a joke on him again because of the medical examination? Unqualified? Be shut out. But he doesn't want to go to the local high school. But teachers often advise him: Sheng Xiang, no matter how good your books are, which university will want you in the future? ?
A year later, I dropped out of school. Looking for a job, I hit a wall everywhere. He had to buy an electrical repair book for self-study and start repairing radios and televisions for others to earn a little money to make a living. In his spare time, he began to study music and literature.
Zhu Haoxue's figure and self-improvement spirit touched a healthy and kind girl, but was soon discovered by the girl's parents, and the newly ignited love spark was extinguished.
? God, why are you so cruel? ? With tears in his eyes, he wrote A Call of Love: How many beautiful dreams did I have in my naive childhood? At the age that my teenager yearns for, my heart is full of good hopes? But I don't want the love I long for to leave me when I am young? Ah, love, love, I call you affectionately! ?
1September, 1987, a cultural performance was held in Ningbo. Zhu became famous with his affectionate singing, and The Call of Love won two first prizes: performance and creation!
He was assigned to work in a local welfare enterprise.
Music affinity: * * Build a complete home.
1February 1989, Zhu gave up? Iron rice bowl? With his artistic dream, he walked into Haining? Ziqiang Hospital? . Soon, he became one of the leaders of the art troupe. At that time, the art troupe was full of talents, but there were no female soloists.
The arrival of Xiao Man made Zhu shine at the moment. Isn't this the best candidate? ?
So every time he rehearses folk songs, Zhu always hands the microphone to Xiaoman and lets Xiaoman sing his own songs. When she first came, Zhu cared about her like a big brother. When the art group organized a trip, my colleague said, Xiaoman, you can't see it. What are you doing? ? Xiaoman said? I want to feel the breath of nature and listen to the birds. ? So, Zhu became Xiao's man? Eyes? . Everyone is joking: gee, you two are really made for each other! ? Little Man blushed, but his heart was full of sweetness. In daily contact, Zhu also has a secret love feeling.
1990 Spring, the Art Troupe performed in Wenzhou. Wang Hongquan, chairman of Wenzhou Disabled Persons' Federation, took Xiaoman to the First Affiliated Hospital of Wenzhou Medical College and received a detailed examination from the doctor. The result of the examination is that you can operate. Xiaoman went to Zhu for advice, and Zhu immediately said? Even if there is only a glimmer of hope, you can't give up! ?
? Good people? When Zhu learned about it, he asked Xiaoman to go to the hospital for eye treatment. They all came to persuade him: Will you marry you when Xiaoman's eyes get better? ? Zhu just smiled innocently. But little man can't help it. She asked? What will happen to you if my eyes get better? ? Knowing what Xiao Man meant, Zhu answered without hesitation. If you think it is worth choosing me, please choose me; If you don't choose me, you are right. I will never get in your way! ?
In this way, accompanied by Zhu, Xiaoman went to the First Affiliated Hospital of Wenzhou Medical College for a free operation. After the operation, Xiaoman's vision once reached 0.03, but unfortunately, with the passage of time, Xiaoman's eyes recovered due to optic nerve atrophy.
After this operation, their hearts are closer. 1March, 992, the artistic partner became a life partner. 1997 65438+ 10, the fruit of their belated love-their son Zijian was born. Sadly, what the couple have been worried about has also happened. Unfortunately, my son's eyes inherited Xiaoman's eye disease.
Their misfortune soon spread to the provincial disabled persons' Federation. Lin Qinghe, then chairman of the Committee, immediately contacted Wang Jing, then president of the First Hospital of Zhejiang Medical University and an ophthalmologist, for surgery. Unfortunately, because the child's optic nerve is underdeveloped in the embryonic period, although the cataract is removed, he still needs to wear glasses with 1800 degrees to correct his vision. Glasses should be checked regularly every year. Now Zijian has changed 1500 degree glasses, and his vision is 0.03.
The mystery of happiness: life has nothing to do with disability
Zhu Zijian, 10 years old, is currently studying in Xinjiang Primary School in Chang 'an Town, and is a literary and art committee member in his class.
Zhu said that his son has excellent grades, is an activist in school literary activities, has won many awards for his composition and Olympics, and is also a small reporter of Nanhu Evening News.
In Zhu's view, although his son is visually disabled, he can still have a healthy mind and a healthy life. Since his son was sensible, Zhu has consciously bought books about disabled celebrities to read to him. Later, the father and son watched it together: Zhang Haidi's, Shi Tiesheng's, ostrovsky's and Hawking's? In 2005, Zhu Zijian participated in the essay competition for primary and middle school students in Haining, and his book "Learning Hawking and Overcoming Difficulties" won the first prize.
Xie xiaoman said:? We are disabled. In the eyes of many people, we are unfortunate, but we are happy every day. ? In Xiaoman's eyes, although they have disabilities at home, they still live a beautiful and happy life.
Her son often says to her: Mom, when I come back from school every day, I can hear your happy songs from a distance. ? Xiaoman said? Song Zu Ying said? Integrate singing into life? That's what I am. ?
Xie Xiaoman has been an artist for more than 20 years and performed more than 700 performances. I have been to Hongkong, China, Taiwan Province Province, China and visited Japan, which was well received by the media in Taiwan Province Province, China? Blind musicians in Chinese mainland? . He won the silver medal in the third national disabled singer competition and the first prize of the only national singing method in the first national township singer TV Grand Prix. She is one of the top ten singers in Jiaxing and Haining. 1995, she works for the Asia-Pacific Welfare Conference in Tokyo Concert Hall? Press the stage? Performance, one person sang while playing, and sang six Chinese and Japanese songs such as Jasmine and Four Seasons Song in succession, and distributed photos such as Yomiuri Shimbun and Asahi Shimbun for reporting.
In recent years, in order to take care of his son, Xiaoman gradually reduced his performances. ? In case my voice falls down one day, I can still support myself with my skills. ? Driven by this idea, Xiaoman signed up for the blind massage technical class, passed the exam and passed the exam. Senior masseur? Qualification certificate.
Are you online? Ziqiang Hospital? She runs a massage room for the blind. Although business is relatively slow, she is full of confidence in the future. Xie Xiaoman's optimistic spirit infected and inspired many disabled people. Everyone elected her as the vice chairman of Jiaxing Blind Association and the chairman of Haining Blind Association.
In the humble massage room, we saw all kinds of medical massage books on the bookshelf against the wall, and Zhu would read them to her patiently when he was free. Xiaoman said that as the president of the blind association, I can't just ask myself to be positive, but also encourage other blind friends to be positive. When I have time, I will communicate with my blind friends by phone. ? I think, as a disabled person, social care is important, but we must rely on our own efforts economically. ?
In 2003, Zhu obtained the diploma of Chinese Language and Literature from Zhejiang University, and was awarded? National self-taught advanced individual? . Last year, Zhu passed the self-taught examination of all subjects of Chinese language and literature major in Zhejiang University.
In addition to his work, Zhu often publishes his works in various newspapers and periodicals. It has been published in Nanhu Evening News since March 2006. Jiaxing fan forum? Published more than 50 critical articles.
Zhu said that although our material life is not rich, our spirit is certainly rich.
? What is the source of your happiness? ? The reporter asked.
Zhu replied without thinking:? Family harmony is the greatest pleasure in life. ?
Xiaoman said? At ordinary times, the family laughs and sings together, and we can carry it together when there are difficulties. The three of us think in one place and make efforts in one place, no matter how big the storm is, we can carry it through. ?