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Event Review On February 4th, Yu Yuetong was born in Arong Banner, Hulunbeier City, Inner Mongolia. 10 At noon, Xiaoyue Tong's little face was bitten. It was her own mother who bit the abortion child.
Yu Zejun, the father of Yu Yuetong, said, "She got up and threw the child on the ground. Just then, my sister-in-law and I went into the house to watch it. When it's over, we'll catch it, or we'll jump on the ground and bite its face. The strength of the upper and lower teeth is different. We chewed a little on it, peeled off a layer of skin, and then we went up to the bottom and tried hard to spit out the meat. "
Yu Yuetong's aunt Zhu Guiqing said, "I just want to kiss my child, take a bite and then pick him up. After this piece of meat was put in her mouth, she ate it as if she had chewed it, and she couldn't find it after eating it. "
Yu Zejun and his sister Zhu Guiqing came to the Second Hospital of Harbin Medical University with Xiao Yuetong from Arong Banner, Inner Mongolia.
Deputy Director of Neonatal Department, Second Hospital of Harbin Medical University: "She came here on 10 at night, and oral surgery usually handles her wounds. It was found that in addition to facial trauma, she had severe jaundice. On the one hand, treat her jaundice, on the other hand, control infection, and then combine surgery with her dressing change. "
The doctor said that the biggest task now is to prevent the second infection from appearing on the little face of Xiaoyue Tong.
Yu Zejun, the father of Yu Yuetong (crying): "I didn't have a clue when I came. I'm worried. She is still sick at home and still in poor health. "
Yu Yuetong's aunt Zhu Guiqing: "Her mother is 39 years old this year. This is her second child. She's smashing things. Like that, every neighbor helped. Now she is looking after it, and no one is taking care of it at home. "
Now Xiao Yuetong is being treated in the hospital, and his right face has turned into a big hole! The surgeon has treated her wound. In addition to facial trauma, jaundice is particularly serious. On the one hand, the treatment is to give her jaundice, on the other hand, it is to control infection. Combined with surgery, Xiaoyue children change medicine every day. The doctor said that the biggest task now is to prevent the second infection from appearing on the little face of Xiaoyue Tong.
I roared: after the report came out, the media on major websites commented on this mother one after another. A website described it as "her mother is a demon"! I can only give a sneer here, demon? I really want to ask this person face to face. Do you know anything about postpartum depression? Do you know pregnant women under pressure of life? Do you know the incidence of postpartum depression in China? How dare you say the word "devil"? I'm embarrassed to see it! Looking at this uncultured thing, I'm afraid my eyes hurt! No one is qualified to judge the mother so subjectively.
People who know won't talk nonsense, but people who don't know are screaming! When the whole people are paying attention to the incident, they are all sorry for the little girl and are scrambling to interview the troubled father! Who cares about mothers with postpartum depression? The father in the incident always knew that his wife was mentally unstable and suffered from insomnia for a long time after giving birth to the child, but after the incident, he said, "I didn't expect to cause such a serious postpartum depression!"
What is postpartum depression?
Postpartum depression is the most common type of female mental disorder, which is a psychological problem caused by a series of physiological, emotional and psychological changes caused by sexual hormones, social roles and psychological changes after childbirth. Typical postpartum depression occurs within 6 weeks after delivery, which can last the whole puerperium, and some even last until the children go to school. The incidence of postpartum depression is 15% ~ 30%. Postpartum depression usually occurs within 6 weeks and can recover spontaneously in 3 ~ 6 months, but severe depression can last 1 ~ 2 years, and the recurrence rate of the second pregnancy is 20% ~ 30%.
At present, the incidence of postpartum depression is quite high!
Causes of postpartum depression:
1. Family factors
For expectant mothers, the strongest support comes from their husbands. According to some surveys, expectant mothers with low marital satisfaction and lack of family support and help, especially those without husband's support, are more prone to depression. Some expectant mothers may lose employment opportunities due to childbirth, reduce family financial resources, lead to increased economic pressure, and often lead to maternal depression.
I shouted calmly: Why are women so strong now? Take care of the family and husband after marriage, and share the family economy after having children. Husband works hard outside every day, yes! He works hard. How dare you say it is difficult to earn so little money? Husband's work pressure is great, so a wife should understand him and share it for him! Yes, there is a lot of pressure to earn those thousands of dollars. Let you earn two yuan more. Is this tolerable? Really, I'm afraid I'll laugh … I understand you. Then who understands me? You are under pressure. I didn't. I take care of my family, share the economic pressure and take care of * * *. As a husband, I go out to earn some money, not much. Women have many reasons to bear all this!
The survey shows that most people suffering from postpartum depression are due to family problems and marital problems. When I gave birth to a child, I was full of nonsense: I accompany you, and I accompany you in pain. What were you doing when I was depressed and crying after childbirth? You looked at me coldly and let me control my emotions. You get a second of joy, I suffer long-term pain, you sit on the glass slag and we talk it over!
2. Psychological factors
Pregnancy and childbirth are accompanied by a series of physiological and psychological changes, although most expectant mothers adapt well. Some expectant mothers lack recognition of their mother's role, and the new mother's role has changed, which makes them face two major problems: self-rehabilitation and parenting. They are conflicted and unaccustomed to their mother's role and cannot overcome the pressure of being a mother and working.
Especially people with high education level are prone to depression because of social pressure and mental stress, many problems to consider and complicated emotions. In addition, due to the feudal ideology of son preference, pregnant women with girls have greater psychological pressure and burden.
I calmly yelled: Is it only a woman's business to get pregnant and have children? The word weakness is not suitable for men! Especially caring about his wife, he is always the only one who is willing or unwilling. How many identities a woman has to change in her life is a huge psychological pressure. The faster the social development, the greater the pressure. For many women, motherhood is an obstacle. From princess to aunt, inexplicable emotions are eroding women's hearts! And a man has only one identity, which is his fucking son! I have no idea how to care for my wife's heart. Sometimes I just need a hug and a little care to relieve the bad mood after childbirth.
For five thousand years in China, son preference has been hanging over millions of families! Husbands always talk nonsense. If something goes wrong, he will only be silent. Why? Because my wife can have100000 in Qian Qian, and my mother only has one! They are called a family, and their wives are always outsiders, especially those who have given birth to daughters. Hehe, that's funny! These husbands are very difficult, and it is not easy for your mother to turn a lump of mud into a person!
3. Obstetric factors
Giving birth is an uncomfortable experience for women. Although the obstetrical equipment and technology are constantly improved, the parturient is afraid of delivery mode and pain, which leads to a series of physical changes such as neuroendocrine disorder, which affects uterine contraction, prolongs the labor process, leads to dystocia, further aggravates anxiety and anxiety, and induces postpartum depression.
I shouted calmly: when the expectant mother is worried about the pain of childbirth, her husband will only say refueling, as if he can do nothing but refueling! So don't expect men to bring you hope, their abilities are very limited! All anxiety is a factor inducing postpartum depression, and my husband can't understand what postpartum depression is! Women can only rely on themselves in the end, because from the perspective of evolution, women are perfectly evolved, with their bodies and brains reaching the top level of human beings, and female reproductive organs growing in the body; In men, the genitals are long outside, exposing the weakest part, so don't rely on some undeveloped creatures to support you.
Mothers-to-be don't blame their husbands, because it's useless for you to scold him and blame him. It is better to adjust your mood, put your baby first, and put your emotions and money into yourself. Postpartum depression is a very serious problem, I hope you will not ignore it. After all, there are only a few unfortunate incidents. Tell your family about the psychological problems you will face during pregnancy and postpartum, and don't expect them to read your mind. Be responsible for yourself and your baby, speak up and defend your mental health!